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I recently started going online to kind of look and see what's out there. I somewhat new to the online dating scene, as I've never really had any gay friends or a boyfriend. This guy who lives near my hometown, replied to my post.

We started talking and really seem to have a lot in common. We agreed to have lunch one day and maybe mess around a little, since I was telling him, I was inexperienced. Then one night we are talking and all of a sudden he stops talking. I figured he just went to sleep, so I sent a message saying I enjoyed talking to him, looking forward to meeting him, and let me know a good time for you and we can try go out for drinks or something. Well days go by before I hear back from this guy. He's been online, because you can check and see when he was lasted signed on. I send him an email no response. So I figure, well maybe he isn't interested, so I just kind of drop it. I get online one day and he finally writes saying he was sorry about the other night he fell asleep. He ask about getting together and I say sure, but I had to sign off because I had to go to work, so we exchange numbers and agree to text one another. I text him, but he never replies. I send him a message online, when I got home, but still didn't hear back from this guy. He had been online, but he keeps ignoring my messages.

It's just frustrating, because I kind of like this guy plus he is one of the only guys online that actually lives in my town, the rest live an hour+ away. If you are not interested in a person, why not just say it or either just don't respond initially. Why send mixed signals to a guy, especially one that hasn't been with a guy. ](*,)
 
Forget him, move on.
 
If you don't meet up within a week, you're wasting your time and risking having avatars just fuck with your head and your emotions.

This guy was a waste of time. You missed out on nothing.

Move on.
 
I Am Not Sure If That Is A Complete Flake

There Is More To The Story Either Something Or Someone Is Distracting Him Or

He Is In The Process Of Finding Someone Else An Just Trying To Keep His Options Open With You

Dont Give Up
 
^ Not helpful.

1. The OP obviously did not 'connect' wit (sic) anyone. Sheesh.

He Is In The Process Of Finding Someone Else An Just Trying To Keep His Options Open With You

Dont Give Up
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2. If this is the case then you'd have to be pretty fucking pathetic to waste a minute of time on him. No one has to put up with that kind of abuse. And that is what it is.

So Lewis, interesting take on the situation, but I hope this isn't how you're squandering your life.
 
KaraBulut said:
Forget him, move on.
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Lewis1 said:
omg do you know how hard it is to find someone u can connect wit

sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeehshhh
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No, I don't. Because I don't waste my time with people who play games or with those who say they will call but never do.

OP would be better off if he does the same. There is a world full of nice guys out there and OP would be better off meeting some of tmem- preferably face-to-face.
 
Thanks for the advice everyone. I don't think I can take being jerked around like that. !oops!
 
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