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girls, the most important thing in a relationship is communication

fabulouslyghetto

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for example, I found out my man John Leguizamo is hosting The Daily Show the same way you all did. Like, I didn't get "Hello my chocolate starfish, I'm going to be a guest host on one of your favorite shows, tune in tonight" text or anything. I'm not mad, but when he gets home before I let him give me a hot beef injection I'm going to explain to him that communication is key for a healthy relationship. Am I tripping? Do you tell your partner everything? I feel like one of the perks of being married to a celebrity is you get inside info like this, I could've put on a nice dress and accompanied him to his first taping. All the blogs will be be going crazy with rumors, "Where's John's beautiful ebony goddess? Too busy to support her man? Trouble in paradise?" All could've been avoided with a simple text.
 
I have had this conversation with alot of friends over the years. I have been with my husband for 35 years and we have never had a big fight or wanted to leave the other and little to no drama. We get asked sometimes by our friends both gay and straight about it and the answer is simple - COMMUNICATION.

I tell him everything and vice versa. There is no weird game playing or deception or hiding anything. He is my best friend.
 
cabinfever said:
I have had this conversation with alot of friends over the years. I have been with my husband for 35 years and we have never had a big fight or wanted to leave the other and little to no drama. We get asked sometimes by our friends both gay and straight about it and the answer is simple - COMMUNICATION.

I tell him everything and vice versa. There is no weird game playing or deception or hiding anything. He is my best friend.
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That's what has me kind of worried. John and I share everything with each other. If he was hiding his new hosting gig, what else might he be hiding from me? Do you think he's cheating? OMG what if he's doing a TJ Holmes and sleeping with a staffer? I will go to that studio with a Louisville slugger and wreck all the equipment. ](*,)
 
fabulouslyghetto said:
That's what has me kind of worried. John and I share everything with each other. If he was hiding his new hosting gig, what else might he be hiding from me? Do you think he's cheating? OMG what if he's doing a TJ Holmes and sleeping with a staffer? I will go to that studio with a Louisville slugger and wreck all the equipment. ](*,)
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Make it clear to him how important it is to be open and honest and tell him why.

One conflict we had that eventually got resolved (years later) that deals with information is my husband will give me an answer to a question that he doesn't know the answer to and I had to make it clear to him to say the words "I DON'T KNOW" because for me and especially in business I need the correct information or an "I don't know" in order to proceed. False information wastes my time and energy. His problem with me is that I did say "I don't know" instead of giving a definitive answer.

We figured it out eventually.
 
cabinfever said:
Make it clear to him how important it is to be open and honest and tell him why.

One conflict we had that eventually got resolved (years later) that deals with information is my husband will give me an answer to a question that he doesn't know the answer to and I had to make it clear to him to say the words "I DON'T KNOW" because for me and especially in business I need the correct information or an "I don't know" in order to proceed. False information wastes my time and energy. His problem with me is that I did say "I don't know" instead of giving a definitive answer.

We figured it out eventually.
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Jokes aside, I can so relate to him, I get too shy to say "I don't know" sometimes so I'll make shit up cuz a wrong answer feels better than no answer.
 
Communication is critical to a relationship.

You Do Not want your Significant Other surprising you one day with this:

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fabulouslyghetto said:
Jokes aside, I can so relate to him, I get too shy to say "I don't know" sometimes so I'll make shit up cuz a wrong answer feels better than no answer.
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The fact that you own it makes alot of difference (but I still like to hear "I don't know")
 
*technically I didn't say no, I said "Sure, if you get comprehensive life insurance that will maintain my standard of living for myself and my next husband after some drunk truck driver sends you flying 50 feet into the air, spiraling down onto the pavement and the impact tears your body apart like dropping a cantaloupe from the roof." A vague requisition is nobody's friend. He got the message, he didn't get the bike. :gogirl:
 
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