Girls who don't get orgasms

[Rex]

Why is it that lots of women are content with just having you inside them? Some of them don't climax and don't care that they don't, or can only do it manually. I've even had a girl who was bothered that I wanted her to have one, as if I had done something wrong.

 

[Telstra]

because they take much more time to have an orgasm.

If you came and gone soft, that is it you are done.

 

[Storybook_Man]

it takes women a lot longer to climax then guys, so dont think they just want you in them for that pleasure, of course they want to cum 2 =).

 

[steve621]

i've been trying to get my wife to cum for years - but she always stops me - she says it makes her uncomfortable - she does have a problem relaxing in general - kinda think that she thinks it is a sin to have that much pleasure - and yes i've tried eating her out, manually stimulation, etc. She says she has never done herself.

 

[Rex]

i've been trying to get my wife to cum for years - but she always stops me - she says it makes her uncomfortable - she does have a problem relaxing in general - kinda think that she thinks it is a sin to have that much pleasure - and yes i've tried eating her out, manually stimulation, etc. She says she has never done herself.

I've noticed this too with a lot of girls. Not that they think it's a sin. They just don't care to have an orgasm.

 

[Rule-Of-Thirds]

Yeah, I never understood that either. Cumming can be the best part sometime. Why not enjoy all aspects of it to the fullest extent? All my ex girlfriends were the same way. Weird. I'm just happy I'm a guy.

 

[Storybook_Man]

i've been trying to get my wife to cum for years - but she always stops me - she says it makes her uncomfortable - she does have a problem relaxing in general - kinda think that she thinks it is a sin to have that much pleasure - and yes i've tried eating her out, manually stimulation, etc. She says she has never done herself.

In my opinion, they want to cum. So if they say they want to stop or have no interest in it or uncomfortable, continue doing it. I'm sure the sex later or then will be that much better. But if they do tell you to stop, I guess they don't want it, or you might suck at eating out .

Edit: Its sketchy, with a woman saying no and a man continuing. So be weary how you do it, usually women have a certain look when they dont want to do something.

 

[tweetymp]

I've had two GF's in the past few years with this problem. One had not had an O in 12 years. Another had never had one at all.

Let's just say that I'm determined

 

[jslvr05]

I've noticed this too with a lot of girls. Not that they think it's a sin. They just don't care to have an orgasm.

Well, I suppose it's hard to appreciate something that you've never had or experienced.

 

[Yveshom]

The woman I am with never had an orgasm until she met me, hated sex and always ended up with bad matches. Now she cannot get enough and orgasms every single time. She was also curious about anal sex and now has an insatiable appetite for anal, and orgasms with both vaginal and anal penetration. Technique and chemistry I think are key and I find females are far more into a loving togetherness in all senses, with sex secondary, but if the "click" works they are every bit as atuned to responding sexually as guys. She knows I am bi but it does not phase her and the fact we have regular anal satisfies that aspect which I only previously got with guy sexual encounters.

 

[MisterMajestic]

She knows I am bi but it does not phase her and the fact we have regular anal satisfies that aspect which I only previously got with guy sexual encounters.

I don't think women like that exist in my town...One of my ex's had an addiction for getting her pussy ate out...She would explode...

 

[Darkflower]

I understand the guys who said it might be because it takes a long time. I think some of us are afraid of being a bother, of you getting bored or frustrated, and would rather just enjoy the sensual aspects and pleasing the guy than "do all that work".

I mean, working for an orgasm is worth the payoff, but sometimes what "makes it go" is very specific, and sometimes the guy that woman is with gets offended if requests for more/faster/slower/harder/different are made. Sometimes a guy will be intimidated or weirded out by toys, or take it as an ego hit that she uses one.

That's why I favor lots of balls-out dirty talk well before we get to the bedroom. It's about seeking and giving information at the root, but couched in "all that nasty", it makes it easier to hear and to find out, I think.

When I'm getting myself off, it's easy, because there's no explaining to be done, and I don't have to concentrate on anything but the sensations and what's going on in my head. I don't have to worry about another person getting bored or thinking I'm making an ugly facial expression or wanting me to be louder or quieter, or if he secretly thinks my vaj is ugly, or or or or. Yeah, thank society for that stuff. lol Really done a number on women's sexual self-esteem I think.

Plus, I mean, the spot that really works for most of us is only about the size of a thumbnail (clit and hood included), so it's harder to manipulate than something with so much more surface area, like a man's cock and balls and taint and asshole. Lucky for me, I'm one of the few who can cum through intercourse once I get hot enough, but it's only one position that's worked so far, and he has got to be able to hammer me like there's no tomorrow.

That's my take, anyway.