Giving head, this might be my first time

[BiMike]

^ Think you got to be a bit more subtle that this approach! When watching some porn made it clear that you are horny and make some reference to the guys in it! Depending on his reactions you will have to see how you can can progress further! A few beers no doubt will be a help with some soft lighting. Probably wont be able to progress to a BJ in a single session ! Best of luck !

 

[natedogg323]

Yeah...definitely don't come right out and ask him. If its just you and him watching porn and drinking, it will be easy to get him to drop his pants.

When the timing is right, sit next to him. Watch the porn and start rubbing your package. Say something like.."damn I'm so horny". Chances are he'll be like "fuck yeah..me too!" Keep rubbing on yourself. Just play it cool and I'm sure one thing will lead to another and you'll be in his pants before you know it.

 

[Alive and Free]

Yeah...definitely don't come right out and ask him. If its just you and him watching porn and drinking, it will be easy to get him to drop his pants.

When the timing is right, sit next to him. Watch the porn and start rubbing your package. Say something like.."damn I'm so horny". Chances are he'll be like "fuck yeah..me too!" Keep rubbing on yourself. Just play it cool and I'm sure one thing will lead to another and you'll be in his pants before you know it.

This is more common then many would think , thank god !

 

[Ninja108]

Take the advice others have given on here... Good luck!

 

[CerebralVortex]

I know that people say how you should be subtle like this; but I personally don't see the point of playing games like this, and I don't like it when people do this to me.

Being that you're a bi who describes himself as Totally Out, I'm not surprised that you don't like it when people do that to you. And I'm not surprised that you don't see the point in "playing games". Because you've accepted... publicly... this part of your identity so fully that you clearly feel contempt for people who haven't yet and who still feel the pressure to dance around the bullshit that society forces upon them. I understand that you've grown weary of the games, because you're past them. But the person you're "advising" is not out, and is dealing with someone who is also not out (if he's bi in the first place, which is not even known at this point). In much the same way that many gays are offensive for passing judgement on bis for things that they cannot relate to, it's fairly offensive for a proud Out-Bi to bitch-slap a newbie for feeling some difficulty and awkwardness in showing an interest in someone he doesn't even know would be receptive to it.

 

[KennyD]

How about while you are watching the porn 'n rubbing your Dick ... talking about how Horney you are ... point to one of the girls giving head in the porno and mutter kinda loudly ... "Damm Bitch . She can't Suck well ... I bet I could even suck a dick better than that " .....
Chances are , your friend will say ... "Well , ya' can suck mine ."
Remember though ... You can still get STD's thru oral sex when you don't use a condom .

 

[Luvtolook]

I think it sounds very erotic to watch the video with the guy and see what happens. Make sure he knows you are turned on and if you've both had a few beers (not too many ) see what happens when you're feeling relaxed and horny. I think hinting and building up to it would be sexier than just asking him. But I'm female and that's how my mind works

 

[Alive and Free]

Anyone else have a tottaly stright friend who sucks some amzing cock when doing a jerk off hook up ? I sure did it is somethign I will allways remember.

 

[Claudio63]

I know that people say how you should be subtle like this; but I personally don't see the point of playing games like this, and I don't like it when people do this to me.

I have one friend that's bi and he'll ask me for sex and it took him about 3 times to actually come out (no pun) and say that he wants sex with me and that he's not joking around.

He knows that I'm bi and it's annoying how he'll just be a tease and he's told me ALL about his cock like how big it is with the exact size, what lubes he uses, which lube makes him cum fast, and other things that no hetero guy would say to another guy. I know he's bi and closeted since he'll talk about his attractions to men and women and say stuff about bisexuality that his shrink says.

It's gotten REALLY annoying to the point where all 3 times I've basically told him "yo I'm here if you ever REALLY want sex with me and decide to stop being a tease" and he'll make up excuses about it each and every time and I don't even want sex with him even if he throws himself at me.

I don't mean to hijak the thread topic but I'm just writing why I think it's better to be honest and just ask for something instead of just playing games constantly.

Unfortunately your aproach has gotten you nowhere with him, and that's just it. Don't get me wrong, if you don't like mind games there's no reason you should play along with them, I would also prefer to be open. But sex is a hang up for most people and gay sex even more so. The direct aproach is intimidating to most.

 

[iosif2]

If you can work in a bit of horseplay during the porno it will help break the contact barrier. This worked for me with a straight friend many years ago, and led to a long lasting series of sessions. I still think he is straight cuz I had close daily contact with him for several years and knew is lifestyle. There was nothing in his demeanor to suggest he was bi. Plus he was always trying to entice me with women. It was a matter of trust that got me the privelege to get it on with him. Although I moved away, we still remain great friends. Peace

 

[uncuttboi]

Wellllllll 1st Off Get A Hot Tub GET NAKID A LITTLE LIBATION AND THEN TALK ABOUT LENGTH OF YOUR COCKS THEN........MESURE........ TRY DOCKIN AND THEN DROP TO YOUR KNEES AND UNGULF THET DRIPPIN COCK HE CANT WITHDRAW THEN ........IT WORKS FOR ME

 

[skyrat02]

Natedogg323 had great advice. A good bi porno is a good segway to the topic to see his reaction to it.

Just remember to bring up the old saying...Guys give better head than girls. And from my experience, I'll definitely testify to that. May be a good opportunity to let him know that you have thought about testing that theory out.

The other thing that worked for me back in my younger days (14 or 15) was a good game of Truth or Dare. Don't know how well that would work now.

 

[tckidd07]

that was how my first gay experience went. we were playing truth or dare outside (lmao we were about 15) and we started daring each other to do kinky stuff with our dicks (touch it through our shorts, rub it in our shorts, etc).. we both had boners. then we went in and started watching some porn, and we talked about how horny we were. i don't really know exactly where it went from there, but we ended up giving each other head. that was when we were 15, and we're 18 now. i'd say that since then we have probably done the same thing about 10 times. it's like an unspoken thing though... we NEVER talk about it, we just do it. to this day i still don't know if he's bi or just horny lol...

 

[Shady007]

Read my story and maybe you can get some advice out of it...

 

[Canyouhelp]

One of my first gay (I'm Bi) experiences was like that. When I was seventeen, I went over to my friend's place, and she had invited one of her guy friends there too. The night went on with us just hanging around, and she (My friend) eventually had to run out of the house for a bit. So, she drove out and was out of the house. The guy, her friend, and I sat and hung around for a bit, since neither really wanted to get up and leave. He seemed pretty straight, but he seemed to have some gay or metro tendencies. Eventually, we started drinking bear, which then became wine, which then turned into vodka from my friend's parents liquor closet. We sat, not watching porn, but we eventually got completely wasted.

So, we started asking each other inabriated questions like, "How many girls have you hooked up with," and, "Are you a virgin." At that point, I wasn't, but he was. I had slept with a girl the summer before the story. After a few more drinks, I was shocked to find his face right next to mine when we were watching TV. He got really close, and I could eventually feel his the rough hairs on his cheek. He didn't exactly kiss me, at first. It was more of a little lick, near the mouth. But, I made the first, real move and put my mouth to his. We made out for minutes, letting the TV run, and I eventually reached into his cargo shorts (I'm trying to remember this as best as I can, but it helps when it's a milestone). We unzipped eachother, and I was shocked to find that this "masculine" guy wore bikini briefs. I, coincidently, had just switched over to them, from boxers. So, we were both drunk, hard and ready to try something new. We rubbed eachother, still making out, and I would run another hand under his shirt and feel his soft skin. After all that, he eventually let me give him head. If memory serves, he actually screamed so loudly that I was sure everyone else in the Washington suburb was going to hear him. Luckily they didnt, and I was able to get a few hip-bucks out of him before he finished. We kissed a bit after that, I think. But, we just cleaned ourselves up and I stumbled drunkinly home. He stayed over at her house that night, and we still talk sometimes, trying to plan meetings and stuff. But, at this point, I have a feeling that he never actually told anyone the story. According to my girlfriend, he was still "straight" as ever.

I guess the point of my story is that things will probably lead to other moments, if you just let them. Be subtle, but make sure to be aware of what you are doing. If you really want him, go for it, but still mantain a cool, even head. Don't put your hand on his crotch right away, obviously. Just, move closer to him "on the couch," and maybe pass a few drinks around. Not to condone unsafe drinking, but a few shots do help. And if he seems interested, slowely eek in and feel around. Maybe you'll find something

 

[LatinoSTAR]

I remember when i was 16, my best friend and i got totally wasted on captain morgans, my best friend who was also puerto rican, and probably the sexiest guy ive ever known! Asked if he could suck my dick, i said yes, so he sucked me off, and i asked him if i could suck him off, and he said yes, he is now married with 2 kids, we are still best friends tho!!!

 

[Xavier_Holland]

Dude, this is simple and sweet.

Be honest and don't pressure it. Plan it out, and back off if he says no. Otherwise, go for it and don't try anything fancy. Just be gentle, it works just like yours....

 

[hard ball fan]

You should feel lucky that you have an upcoming opportunity like you have. I am horney as hell and with a dim outlook as to giving head.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

Dude,

Put your moves. Cut the 'gay', 'bi' and other identity issues. Make sure, you both understand, this is about being horny, slightly dazed and getting some help from a good friend. Not more and not less.

Yet another suggestion: Do not reinforce a possible view on his side that you might be planning to jump his bones by diving str8 for his manmeat. Even if he wants this to happen, he will more likely than not hate to feel manipulated into that position.

So, play the reciprocation card and have him show that he is as interested in you as you may be in him. This may be your best approach and the finest investment into your future with this buddy.

SC

 

[biravatch]

say "you call that sucking a cock!?! watch and learn ladies, watch and learn."