Go for it..or not?

[Bladerunner1811]

So, simple story, I have to meet a guy, for a date I guess, which is a lot older than me (but that's the only type of men that I like). But, that would be the first time having some kind of experience with a dude. I'm 18, do you think I should go for it? Or am I way too young?

Duuuuuude just keep it no sexual until you are sure he's not after the young stuff.
Now I realize there are older guys who do want ameaningful relationship with a younger guy but there are those how just wanna hook up.

Theres a bigggg difference between a hook up and a relationship

 

[HunterM]

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN LIFE!!! Remember that.

If the chemistry is right and you want to, then go for it. Have fun! Wear condoms. Always play safe.

If you don't want to, then don't go for it. Don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN LIFE!!!

 

[backpacker]

Normally I would say go for it, but the fact that you asked if you are too young has me concerned that you are not ready. Only you can decide if you are ready and if this is the type of experience you want. If you think you want to go for it, talk to the guy to make sure you are on the same page (i.e. hook up, relationship, whatever). Think about it and decide what is best for you. There is no right or wrong choice.

 

[maxpowr9]

Assuming you haven't met the guy yet, I would strongly suggest meeting them first in public before doing anything else. If you don't like the where the situation is heading, you at least have an escape if things don't work out.

 

[Ganoderma]

Go for it, so what if he's into the young stuff, you seem to be into older guys, so if you like him when you meet just have fun.

This. ^^^^^^^^^^

 

[KaraBulut]

So, simple story, I have to meet a guy, for a date I guess, which is a lot older than me (but that's the only type of men that I like). But, that would be the first time having some kind of experience with a dude. I'm 18, do you think I should go for it? Or am I way too young?

Only you can know when the time is right for you.

We can only tell you not to rush into anything, make sure that you're ready, you've met the right person and to always be safe.

 

[Seasoned]

^I agree. I'd advise you not to take a vote on something you deem important. What I advise is to try and envision the aftermath of several possible scenarios as to how you think you'd feel and use that as a guide.

If you think you'd handle it lightly no matter what the experience was like it ought to be easy for you to go ahead. If you think it's important to stay connected with the guy then you need to develop at least a bit of a relationship first.

Since everyone here would have different feelings and experiences regarding casual sex, you won't get an unanimous answer. Keeping yourself physically and emotionally safe are your main concerns. Being alert to both you'll be ok.