Going to far...

[energizer31]

I think I've just done something really stupid. So there is a guy I've had the hots for for awhile now. He's 10 years older than me. Hes not out, and neither am I. But I have heard from a few reliable sources that he is bisexual and Promiscuous. Hes more of a friend of a friend, I've seen him out on town a few times and he always spends a lot of special attention to me. I'm quiet and shy, he's more aggressive. I won't go into big details, but he has asked me to go out drinking with him and that he'll show me a real good time, etc. This kind of flirtation went on for about a year, I only see him a handful amount of times. But whenever I do he never fails to notice me. He really tends to mess with my emotions, whether he knows it or not.

Anyway I haven't seen him in almost 4 months. I was starting to feel I missed my chances with him until I found a profile on Manhunt that I am almost certain is him. I sent him a few message on manhunt, but his profile says he hasn't logged on in over 2 weeks and it's way in the back of the list, plus it stats his age is as being 2 years behind his current. (manhunt doesn't automatically update age). I'm assuming he hasn't logged on in awhile and maybe never will again. So I get frustrated and google his name to find he's a member to a message board completely unrelated to anything sexual or to any of my interests. Like the fuck-up that I am, I got up the nerve to create an account on the message board and send him a message, telling him who I am and asking him if he would still be interested in going out sometime. I was very apologetic that I had to contact him through this site and that i had no other means to contact him. I also told him I was interested in guys and asked if he was also. He hasn't replied yet...and I'm about to die.

DUMBEST FUCKING THING I'VE EVER DONE.

please tell me there are dumber things I could have done, or that you have done so I can sleep tonight

 

[trawler69]

Nothing ventured nothing gained! I mean seriously at worst he'll ignore you, no big deal as you haven't seen him for 4 months anyway. At best he might be interested. There may be better ways to make contact but at least you had the balls to try.

 

[energizer31]

Nothing ventured nothing gained!

haha, I said that same thing to myself before I sent the message. But I still feel like throwing up.

 

[MaxMouse]

Ahh not a big deal man.

I mean, there is a worst case scenario if he outs you, I think that is your deep worry here...but really there is a silver lining to everything and I'm not at all saying that will happen!

If it does, everything happens for a reason and I guarantee you at one point down the road you will look back at this as beneficial...

Bummer if he ignores you too though... seeing as you don't know anything really, only hearsay.

You definitely had more to lose than to gain by doing that and that is why I love that you did it! Be happy, I think it's not dumb at all of you and you really have nothing to worry about---let the cards fall where they may! XOXO

 

[Luka]

Haha There Are Plenty Of Gouys Out There. Dont Waste Too Much Time On This One

 

[energizer31]

Ok he just wrote me back. Apparently I read him the wrong way. He's not into me but he has no hard feelings against me. phew! Funny though, he kinda thought it was a joke and that someone was messing with him, I told him it was legit. Maybe his opinion will change once he figures out it really is me, and not someone trying to out him. hmmmmm.

 

[pinoy-pride]

oh wow, haha see, it didn't turn out as bad as u thought it was going to, but you saw something you liked, and you went after it, haha u went the extra mile, that's kinda hot ;-)

 

[stripes]

yikes. that is kinda creepy. you really went out of your way there