Going Too Quickly

[oakmiser]

I seem to have a problem with going to quickly...you know cumming...

I feel like I'm a total stereotypical male when I think about it.

I'm a bottom/vers (though I've only topped once..) kinda person but I still love it when my boyfriend gives me head. Though It seems like it's only 2 mins or less before I cum...I'd really love to enjoy it longer...

Any one have any tips or tricks? Lasting at least 5 mins would be a great leap...heh...this is slightly embarrassing but I trust the people on these forums not to judge me to harshly

Exclude any illegal drugs from suggestions, only thing I touch that I'm not supposed to is alcohol ;P.

 

[3stripes]

So does your cumming mean you have to stop??

Sex doesnt end when you've cum just once!

 

[oakmiser]

lol, I know. We usually both go twice, lol. Then we get the tired bear syndrome, lol.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

lol, I know. We usually both go twice, lol. Then we get the tired bear syndrome, lol.

Maybe some endurance practice (training) my help. Like going to gym where you aim to build up your fitness, muscle mass or both, try enjoying sex and hold off cumming for as long as you can.

 

[steptacular85]

do you jack off when getting fucked? if you did, try holding off on it and just enjoy the ride

 

[DeMan06]

from reading your post you're not lasting more than 2 min when getting head?

If so then when you feel yourself getting close have your BF stop and work on your balls or go to some other part of your body.

If it's when you are being fucked then try not jacking off or jacking off slower when you're getting fucked? if you can't resist then try a position that doesn't give you access to yourself (laying facedown comes to mind).

Just some ideas. The basic idea is don't be afraid to stop stimulation to your dick and move the stimulation to somewhere else that won't make you come but will still keep you aroused.

 

[KaraBulut]

Any one have any tips or tricks? Lasting at least 5 mins would be a great leap...heh...this is slightly embarrassing but I trust the people on these forums not to judge me to harshly
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Often rapid ejaculation becomes a habit from masturbation. Try masturbating but stopping and starting and concentrating on holding back. Try to avoid jacking off when you're in a hurry and just want to come- this is training your body to come quickly instead of teaching you to separate orgasm from ejaculation (they are different events).

Another thing that you might try is to have sex at two separate times during the day. In the afternoon, jack off with your partner to let off a little of the pent up tension. Take time afterward to cuddle and talk and just spend time together. Then spend the evening together, have dinner, watch a movie, do whatever you normally do. And then have full-on hot-sweaty sex. Usually, it takes longer for a guy to come when they have already had sex earlier in the day.

There are specific exercises that you can try but usually just becoming more aware of your body, reading the "point of no return" and learning to have orgasms without ejaculation. These are things that just take a little time and training since most of guys aren't focusing on these things when they masturbate.