Got a late start at masturbating

[stu1995]

I didn't start masturbating until I was 21. I'm wondering if anybody else got a late start like this.

I never did anything with any other guy in high school or college and did not date/have a girlfriend during high school. Sure, I had sexual feelings and fantasies, and especially in college, I got turned on by seeing other guys naked, either in person or in pictures. I have an older brother, but we never caught each other doing sexual things or never talked about sexual things. I think I was a bit ignorant about how to masturbate and what pleasure it could have brought me individually. As I've described, nobody - no friend or close family member - had ever taught me what to do or described what to do. I recall having wet dreams in both high school and college, so that's how I must have released my sexual desires.

Anyway, I was in college as a senior and somehow (I can't remember what motivated me or what made me think of it out of the blue one day), I got the idea of stroking my cock nonstop for a few minutes, and I did it until I came and had an orgasm. It wasn't a total surprise to me, since I knew how people had sex - that a penis had to be stimulated and after that happened enough, sperm shot out of it. The surprising part wasn't that my penis shot out cum, but I guess what was a surprise was the pleasure I could feel to get to that point. It had really just never occurred to me to try it myself and that it could happen to me (I was still a virgin at that time as well). And I guess it had never really occurred to me that other guys (guys I saw in locker rooms or other students like me who lived in my dorm) masturbated. I know I had sexual urges and was a sexual person, albeit maybe as a bit of a late bloomer in terms of feeling those sexual urges, but I had just never thought about a guy taking time alone to stroke his cock until he came.

I know that some guys discover masturbating and cumming on their own, and they discover it or are taught/told about it early in their teenage years. My discovery of it just happened to be after my teenage years - and even a couple of years after that! Of course, after I discovered it, I didn't want to stop. It became a daily habit, a fun activity. And I enjoy it until this day as well as sexual intercourse (with a woman).

Anybody else get a late start like me?

 

[Keljuki]

I'm wondering if anybody else got a late start like this.

I started doing it at 16, nearly 17. I was probably just kinda naive and hadn't figured out how to do it until then.

 

[Pierresro]

This will sound silbut a few minutely but true when I was 6 I was in the first grade for some reason my mind wandered and I started rubbing my cock thru my trousers no hard on a few minites later without any liquid i orgazimed fet great cared the hell out of me. I am sure tehre are guys like me but as an example in the aarmy basuc training we woulline up and get yelled at for moving and sgts saying close ranks, The first time this guy ahead f me had the hottest 32 inch bubble butt just my bulge feelin his ass I got rock hard so in the sr¡ervice i had to watch out as I was a major closet case. At 12 was when i kicked back in bed and jacked my first load.

 

[lockeroomguy]

I was 17 when I got my first self induced orgasm. I'm not sure why it took so long, I guess I never heard how much fun you can have alone. I'm 60+, and back in the day, jackin off wasn't something guys talked about together. Once I got started, never looked back. Still jackin off at least once a day.

 

[xyxyxy]

I think I was about 12 in the bath tub

 

[SeaCore]

I was only a year younger than you when I started. My sexuality has been... Atypical, to say the least.
I didn't really experience arousal from anyone during my highschool years. The only reason I ever really got a hard-on was from your standard randomness during puberty and occasionally when I had a really full bladder and I couldn't go to a bathroom immediately.

Honestly I got no sexual education for a long time. It's a real shame how our culture treats sex and sexuality to make it so taboo. When I started getting hard I thought there was something wrong with me and I didn't feel like I could talk to my parents about it. My mom had good, productive, sex talks with my sister and I guess they assumed my dad was going to do the same with me. When I was really little, like 5, I would fondle my penis when nervous, never to the point of orgasm or anything. But my parents definitely didn't take the right approach to me doing that. They discouraged me from doing it, but without any sort of reason. They didn't yell at me or anything, but a clear message of shame came from that. For a real long time I just tried to forget I even had genitals.

I remember that at one point I believed that there was something special about the shape of the vagina that allowed orgasm. Since I didn't know that you could get off without having sex that was the rationale I came up with. People didn't really talk about masturbation either, but they did talk about sex quite a bit, which I think is part of what I came to that conclusion

It's a little bit embarrassing to admit but it wasn't until I went to Rule 34, for laughs, that I found a picture that turned me on. I think I had tried masturbating once before but it just didn't really go anywhere. So I decided to try again and I managed to cum that time.

I took a gradual approach to porn from that point onward. I started with still hentai pics and 3D poser art, then read Bara (hentai made for gay men), then later moved to photos, then to gifs, then to videos.

 

[JSRD]

I got a start about 8. Maybe a little younger? I remember hearing guys on the bus talk about it. My first was I masturbated was by bed humping. It was the best thing ever. It wasn’t until a year of two later that I decided to try stroking myself.

I love masturbating. Don’t get me wrong I love sex too and being with my partner, but there’s nothing better than a good jack off session. Sex can feel fast paced and before I know it we both came, while masturbating I can edge and spend all the time I want enjoying myself until I explode.

 

[Darvin]

I got a start at 10. And it was my cousin's husband who masturbated me when I had a sleepover. After I think a few months of it, I tried to jack off myself instead

 

[Keljuki]

I got a start at 10. And it was my cousin's husband who masturbated me when I had a sleepover. After I think a few months of it, I tried to jack off myself instead

It seems a bit odd for someone's husband to want to be masturbating a 10 year-old.

 

[Darvin]

Yea... its pretty messed up... thats when people develop sexually and I honestly think that was when I turned gay

 

[IrishBuflo]

I always played with it and really started going at it around 11 and then stuff came out at 12 and I was hooked ever since.

 

[SeaCore]

Yea... its pretty messed up... thats when people develop sexually and I honestly think that was when I turned gay

So— I doubt that?
That really doesn't seem to be how sexuality works. In the nature versus nurture debate there does seem to be a 'nurture' component but it doesn't seem to be so overt as that.
Like, children who don't get jerked off by an adult of the same sex end up gay all the time.
And children who do get jerked off by an adult (More likely to be a teenager) of the same sex don't end up gay.

So, I really don't think it makes sense to view that as some sort of 'homosexual inciting incident'

 

[Keljuki]

I was only a year younger than you when I started. My sexuality has been... Atypical, to say the least.
I didn't really experience arousal from anyone during my highschool years.

Were you having late or slow puberty, since you didn't experience arousal?

 

[SeaCore]

Were you having late or slow puberty, since you didn't experience arousal?

Nope! Started puberty probably around 11 or 12 and continued through high school.

 

[novo174]

I was also 21 when I started. My family is very religious and traditional and didn't talk about sex. It always sounded sinful and perverted especially going to church 3 times a week. I've had nocturnal emissions since I was 14 so I figured that was how I would get my release. I was always focused on my education and my scholarship in college so I never really got involved in serious romantic relationships.

It wasn't until the summer before my last year in college when I went on a study abroad program to my parents' home country, along with a large group of 2nd and 3rd generation Americans from the same culture that were my age. Everyone was very open-minded and talkative and I found out I was the only virgin in the group. I started to realize I was really missing out on things and when I we back to the States, I decided to just masturbate in the shared bathroom with my roommate. I just kept jerking it off until my cum exploded almost to the ceiling. At first it stung but after that I realized it was great and felt a little sad that I hadn't just done it years ago. So, you're not the only one who got a late start, OP

 

[novastar]

I had my first wet dream at 12...and continued having them weekly until started masturbating at almost 13. I didn't really know what I was doing and couldn't reach orgasm. My brother and I were talking about masturbating and started doing it together....unable to cum I told my brother....then My brother then took my cock in his hand, stroking it until I came. After that i had no problem finishing. I masturbated with my brother regularly, (he eventually made me his bottom) my cousin, and numerous friends. I always thought it was so hot masturbating with straight friends. At that time I was "straight" too. My friend Jon and I used to jerk it together every chance we got. Back in high school He was in an accident and badly hurt and couldn't really use his right arm....I remember one day I told him "think of a girl you like" and I began stroking his cock. At that time it was the biggest I had ever seen....I was so turned on with that massive cock in my hand! To this day I have never seen a "cum shooter" like him. I loved the surprised look on his face when I grabbed his cock and began stroking it...he just laid there and let me rub it. When he quickly came it was SPURT SPURT SPURT all over his chest! I wished I had sucked it! I was stunned at the amount of cum and distance he shot! It was so hot!

Back in high school he and I used to jerk it together all the time. I thought he was kidding when he mentioned it getting "messy." Jesus. I wish we did more things together, but I was worried about "being gay." If I could go back I'd have been sucking and swallowing his cum ever sleepover we had.

I enjoyed jerking off with my cousin and friends, too...they were all impressed with how big and thick my cock was compared to theirs. That was a fun feeling. One thing that ALWAYS turned me on: when a friend's horniness resulted in them pulling out their cock in front of me. I regret the times I worked so hard to keep myself from touching theirs. In retrospect, nobody EVER stopped me when I touched their cocks. My brother, though...oh did he teach me. He made me his bottom...and began fucking me twice a day nearly EVERY day. He ALWAYS came inside me. I take that back...ONCE and ONLY ONCE, he pulled out and came all over my ass. It was maybe our third time fucking. The next time there was none of that, he TOLD me he was going to cum in my ass, and immediately did so. After that I'd beg for it.

The saddest part was that Jon and I were college dorm mates. I regret we weren't hooking up daily. I still often fantasize about him spurting cum all over me or inside me

 

[Shelby29]

I always played with it and really started going at it around 11 and then stuff came out at 12 and I was hooked ever since.

My first CUM was as a wet dream at 11..then I discovered I could make it happen by playing with my cock while fingering my tight young ass hole!

 

[biskit2001]

I was 12 or 13 when I made a mess in my PJ's out of nowhere as I was just rubbing the bottom of my cock. I've been an addict ever since.

Before that though, me and my friends would find any excuse to get our dicks out for each other. I'd even "pretend" to suck them like we saw in a straight porn mag we passed around like it was a joke. Too bad that all stopped once we actually became young men....

 

[ShadowCat]

I was 13 it was Christmas break 8th grade. It was Jan 14 2002 we had snow and cold and because of it pipes burst so the school had no heat it took some time to get it fixed so we got extra Christmas vacation. It was around 5 or 6 pm. My dad has thongs from him and my moms younger kinkier days. He had this one in particular all black that had a sheath and a velcro strip that said WOW I put it on got hard and stuck it through the sheath. I made a ring with my finger and just rubbed up and down not really thinking anything would happen, I loved the feeling in my cock over and over and over I rubbed until it felt like I really needed to pee, I shot my first thick creamy load into the sheath. I WAS FUCKING FREAKED OUT!! I thought it was pus I thought I had an infection! I thought I was dying. I tried doing that same thing the next day and more "pus" came out freaked I called a nurse hotline and asked to my embarrassment found out I ejaculated and have been doing it ever since.

 

[pixie77]

hmmm 15yrs ish doing it daily ever since