Got an anal problem....

[loppyears]

Ok so I have a bit of a problem when I have sex, everytime I've had sex with a guy, after I, well, um, fart alot. I don't just mean once, i mean alot. Sometimes it can happen while were having sex which is really embarssing. I know it can happen, but not every single time like this! I don't think it has anything to do with what I'm eating because I try and eat healthy. Maybe I'm tensing or something? I dunno

Anyway there's this guy I've been seeing for the past 2 months or so and I know we are ready to do it...well he is. I can't exactly say to him while were having sex "oh btw I fart alot and it's nasty". I know it will happen when we finally get to sex. Any advice?

P.S. I know this is an awakard post to start with, but nice to meet you all!

 

[cellular]

Firstly, welcome to jub, where you can find all sorts of good, bad and mediocre advice.
Anyway, on to your situation, you told us that you eat healthy, do you eat a lot of fibre foods? When i eat a lot of high fibre cereal, i always end up farting. Try to cut down on that.
Other then that, if that is not your cause, then maybe you are just a little nervous, try calming down before you have sex. Maybe that will help.

 

[puka-pride]

ummm his dick is plunging into your ass.. pumping and thrusting.. pulling in air with it.. creating a vaccuum.. air is comming in.. but not going back out because u clench when he pulls out slightly.. this causes the air to fill up in ur ass and the pressure HAS to release....

so it comes out... and sounds like a fart..

 

[ncparty]

^ what he said

 

[tx_doc]

or are you farting in advance of having sex? if that's the case, you may have a mild case of IBS (iritable bowel syndrome) - can because caused when you get stressed (about having sex for the first time with someone) or anxious about things.

 

[Pushover]

I agree with puka-pride. That's the most logical answer.

 

[SilverRRCloud]

I am a total top and I often have the very same problem. Fortunately, I have also learned to control it a bit.

Look, let's face it. It is embarssing. I'd gladly agree with you on that one.

But, if a guy is sucking on your dick and if you are pounding his ass, you must have reached a certain level of intimacy anyway. So, if it happens, so be it. It comes with a territory called sexual intimacy...

SC

 

[loppyears]

I definitely eat alot of fruit and veg which is high in fibre, so that could be part of
it and yeah it does mainly happen after I've been pounded by a guy. Just not sure how to control it yet but yeah I'll try and relax more and see what happens. Thanks for your reply guys.

 

[dr1254]

I definitely eat alot of fruit and veg which is high in fibre, so that could be part of
it and yeah it does mainly happen after I've been pounded by a guy. Just not sure how to control it yet but yeah I'll try and relax more and see what happens. Thanks for your reply guys.

Yeh fruit and veg can give you nasty farts, but I think what puka said is the most logical explanation.

 

[andyspete]

Puka is correct in his assessment. Also, if you're ready to have anal with this guy, you should be able to discuss it with him also. If you can't talk about sex with him maybe you're not ready. I don't mean that to sound bitchy, it's just true. We're all human and have similar experiences. I doubt he will reject you and if he does, he's probably not the guy for you anyway.

 

[TravisMT81]

I agree with Puka, it happens to me too.