Group Sex - Gay and BI/STR8 Swingers

[AsianDream]

I’m curious about other people’s experiences with Group Sex and Parties (specially BI/STR8) ? – or whether it’s mostly just one-on-one.

I’ve only ever had proper group sex (which I guess is more than four) with guys. I always find it very hot - also it can go on for a lot longer than sex with less people. But maybe it’s something where you need to be a bit of an exhibitionist to enjoy it the most.

I've got very little experience with girls – but did recently go to an event which I’d imagined would be a BI/STR8 orgy. This was a “Swingers” party – but I was rather disappointed that this was actually a very respectable social affair - more like a drinks party.

So instead of what I thought would be wild sex – it was just people discreetly pairing off to go upstairs to private cubicles (the events are held in what is normally a Gay Sauna).

Anyone else got any experiences of this sort of thing?

 

[traveler1111]

I would love to try all kinds of group experiences....MFF, MFM with dp, group oral with guys.

dated a girl who admitted having an MFM fantasy starting with oral between the guys but we never got there (she became verbally & emotionally abusive).

I was supposed to hang out with two sub guys who wanted a rough oral threeway, but we can't coordinate free time.

argh.

 

[AsianDream]

I would love to try all kinds of group experiences....MFF, MFM with dp, group oral with guys.

I'd have to say that group sex with guys was even hotter than when I dreamed about it before Id ever done it. With Mixed Girls and Guys - still not got any further than a foursome - but live in hope

I was supposed to hang out with two sub guys who wanted a rough oral threeway, but we can't coordinate free time.

argh.

This is definitely something you should get your people to call their people to fix up again - though venue can often be more of a logistical problem than free time.

 

[AsianDream]

Wish the two guys (so far) who'd done it with 5 or more mixed sex had described what it was like

 

[jasoncrew03]

I've been involved in 2 group sex parties.

The first was my gangbang for my 18th birthday that my best friend put together which was all men, 6 guys not including me.

The second was a gay, bi, straight orgy that was about 12 or 13 people.

 

[bankside]

I would consider more than two to be group sex. Yes you can be more specific and qualify it as a "threesome" or a "foursome" or the somewhat unwieldy but intriguing-sounding "elevensome," but it is all still group sex to me. And if someone's going to go in for public "social sex" then discretely pairing off and going upstairs is just wrong. Sexparty fail.

But what do I know. I've slept with my one guy for 13 years now!





(okay I once touched boobies.)

 

[jasoncrew03]

(okay I once touched boobies.)

*high fives bankside*

 

[AsianDream]

I've been involved in 2 group sex parties.

The first was my gangbang for my 18th birthday that my best friend put together which was all men, 6 guys not including me.

The second was a gay, bi, straight orgy that was about 12 or 13 people.

Sorry to be really curious

But which of the 2 parties did you enjoy more - and did you find it better than one-on-one?

I find the exhibitionist part of group sex really hot - especially being watched having sex by several people.

I think in my case this is maybe "attention seeking" - but also the feeling of affirmation and approval. I'd not like sex in "real" public - where there were people around that wouldn't like seeing it.

 

[MrZero]

I've been involved in a three-way with all guys twice.

Its a really overwhelming feeling being the bottom to two tops >_>
Sucking two dicks one after the other. Switching between getting pounding by one guy and blowing the other. Pretty hot.

 

[EJMichaels]

I would consider more than two to be group sex. Yes you can be more specific and qualify it as a "threesome" or a "foursome" or the somewhat unwieldy but intriguing-sounding "elevensome," but it is all still group sex to me.

When it's not a huge number, I think it's different. I've definitely had foursomes in which we all specifically chose to be with each other, which was different than 4 or 5 people who happened to comprise a group more randomly. By that I mean people who sort of ended up together at a party or club, as opposed to something more date-like. [BTW, I hope it was okay for a woman to answer the poll - don't want to mess up the "research". I don't remember if I checked the one for 5+. I should have. I know I put "4" on the poll.] Anyway, my first date with someone once involved a private party with a total of 3 guys and 2 women. I was the going-away present for the other woman.

I've done quite a few threesomes - different sets of people, and repeatedly with some sets. I seem to get involved with two other people fairly often. It's been either 1 or 0 men. I might have forgotten some - might have been two guys, but they were definitely not doing each other. I would have remembered that. When it was two mixed sex couples, the women would do each other, but not the men.

Overall, one-on-one is best, but three works rather well, in my opinion. I can't say anything about how it works when two or more are men.

Since a lot of what I do includes BDSM, not all of the sex is sex. With vanilla, I think there's a lot more taking turns and waiting.

 

[AsianDream]

BTW, I hope it was okay for a woman to answer the poll - don't want to mess up the "research".

As I'm the OP - it's perfectly fine for women to answer

 

[jasoncrew03]

Sorry to be really curious

But which of the 2 parties did you enjoy more - and did you find it better than one-on-one?

I find the exhibitionist part of group sex really hot - especially being watched having sex by several people.

I think in my case this is maybe "attention seeking" - but also the feeling of affirmation and approval. I'd not like sex in "real" public - where there were people around that wouldn't like seeing it.

I can honestly say I liked them both the same. During the bi one I fucked a bunch of different women which I enjoyed immensely and one guy which I didn't enjoy as much because I don't like topping guys. And during the one with all men I was the bottom so of course I also enjoyed that immensely. I'm also an exhibitionist and the feeling of being watched like that also turns me on extensively. And I definitely enjoyed both of them better then one-on-one (in most cases) because it was just more. I absolutely love the feeling and exhilaration of nailing girl after girl after girl and the feeling of being fucked by guy after guy after guy.

 

[alli-berri]

Had a threesome with two other women, and once a foursome with three other boys. Two of them were BROTHERS! Weird. We only undressed each other (in a conga line!), humped, touched, and sucked a little.

The threesome with the women was all right... we did anything and everything. I think only one of us was actually loving it though. The experience was a turning point in realizing my physical preference for men, and one of the ladies began to discover her own preference for women. The other girl was just a horny little slut.

I really, truly miss being sexual with a group of males. It felt like brotherhood, like hanging out with no limitations. When I was being sexual with multiple women... it just felt like a bad porno that went on way too long. I got TIRED thrusting enough for two women. And whenever I went soft, there were no other dicks around to keep it going. Very discouraging. Very stressful. Would NOT do it again. Unless I was being dominated. That I could handle.

 

[blackbeltninja]

I'm also an exhibitionist and the feeling of being watched like that also turns me on extensively.

Pictures please!

-d-

 

[AsianDream]

I'm also an exhibitionist and the feeling of being watched like that also turns me on extensively. And I definitely enjoyed both of them better then one-on-one (in most cases) because it was just more. I absolutely love the feeling and exhilaration of nailing girl after girl after girl and the feeling of being fucked by guy after guy after guy.

I'm also an exhibitionist and love the feeling of being watched - I think thats one of the really hot things about group sex.

It also seems to go on much longer than with one-on-one

 

[AsianDream]

I would consider more than two to be group sex. Yes you can be more specific and qualify it as a "threesome" or a "foursome" or the somewhat unwieldy but intriguing-sounding "elevensome," but it is all still group sex to me. And if someone's going to go in for public "social sex" then discretely pairing off and going upstairs is just wrong. Sexparty fail.

But what do I know. I've slept with my one guy for 13 years now!

In up to a "foursome" it's quite a different feeling - you generally spend a lot of time all involved with each other - often (for logistical reasons) switching who's the "Centre of Attention".

Once you get to five or more it tends to be a case of activities going on in parallel - and more breaks to watch the others.

I guess it's almost like a dinner party - if there's four or less it tends to be all one conversation - while with more people round the table it's more a case of separate conversations going on.

 

[yakimaki]

I've only had one on one male which is ok but for some reason I have always wanted to bottom for a large group of males, possibly have another bottom with me so we play with eachother while the guys use us.

 

[AsianDream]

I've only had one on one male which is ok but for some reason I have always wanted to bottom for a large group of males, possibly have another bottom with me so we play with eachother while the guys use us.

The most guys I've been fucked by in one Group sex session is 7 - it was really hot - though my ass was a bit sore the next day - but the thing I loved about it was being the "centre of attention"