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I might be totally wrong here, yet something is telling me that he was not going to invite you to a Bible study class. :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

More likely, he wants some action here and possibly even more, if the vibe is right.

If you find him attractive, and if you do not see the age gap as a looming problem, you can give him a call, meet him up at a public place and see what he is up to.

If you feel that something about this guy is making you ill-at-ease or anything, just forget the number and move on.

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Besides the age difference, which may or may not be an important issue, there is the difference in maturity and experience. At 28 he should be more mature than you and most likely has plenty of sexual and relationship experience. You have none. Despite all of this, YOU are the one who will have to be in control, which means meeting only in a public place and controlling what you do. If you feel the least bit uncomfortable, you need to back away from it. Afterall, he is a stranger and you only met him once and that was at a gym.

You are only 19 and no need to rush into anything. Also, with your inexperience, you may not recognize a smooth talker when you hear/see on. So, it's best to have your guard up and tell him up front that you want to get to know him as a person and a friend, assuming this is what you want.

Go slowly, buddy.
 
If you're interested, by all means, call him. As suggested, meet for coffee or something. See if you like him.

If he wants to make this a physical thing, and you're interested as well, great. But you might want to tell him you're new at this. He'll probably be more likely to take it easy and help you through your first time. And bring along your own condoms and lube. :)

Lex
 
I agree. The age difference isn't really that great. I'm around your age and I can relate to what you thinking. I realized that personality and looks vary across all age groups, so you gotta take the good ones as they come even if they are a little older. You're just two people who relate to each other. Don't pass up a chance with a potentially good guy or good sex.
 
Glad you had a good time! Keep us up to date on what's happening.

And, welcome! It's good to have you here! :wave:
 
Jeff2024 said:
Thanks alot for all your help, I took everyones adivice and I called him. I just got back from the date and im glad i listened to everyone. He took me out to eat then we went back to his place and... well u know the rest..... I think this actually could work.
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We can GUESS the rest, but we won't KNOW unless you tell us!

Just kidding. Glad it went well.

And I'm in a relationship with a much bigger age gap than that.
 
Jeff2024 said:
Thanks guys, does anyone else on here have a good relationship with a guy much older (or younger), cause I think this may work.
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9 years is not that "much" older - my personal age range for comfort has always been within 8 years of my age so that's close - 19 and 28 have some different perspectives on lives but it is all doable

don't lose your heart too much yet - he could be high fiving his friends that he bagged a 19 year old or he could be the best thing that ever happened to you and this is the beginning of something great or many other alternatives - you seem very sensible - everyone here is on your side and hoping this is the start of something great - just take the emotions thing slow and see what happens, and best to ya both!
 
pfffffffffft

9 years is normal gap in our family.

Enjoy it for whatever it is. If you end up spending the next 40 years together great. If you end up only spending the next 4 weeks together.....you at least had a great time and hopefully you'll continue to be friends.
 
Hey mate, age doesn't matter! Just figures.. Just as long as you guys "click" and get along very well then don't let those numbers matter at all...
 
The best advice I can give for a first relationship... dont' think too much about where it's going.. just enjoy the ride.

Some people find true love their first time. Most of us have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find Prince Charming.

Dont' worry about which category you fall in.. enjoy his company and don't get too caught up in the rest.

Oh.. and we don't need to have the "safe sex" talk with you, right?
 
Wow!!! That was fast...you ask everyone for advice at 1 PM and you are back at 10 PM. You move quick.
 
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