Had unprotected sex..

[madda14]

i went out the other night, and saw this guy i knew, anyway we were drunk, and very horny, he took me back his place, but we had no condoms, i told him to fuck me anyway, but to pull out and cum on my back or ass.

He did pull out but he came around my anus and on it, not sure if any went inside me, getting worried now, could i catch anything ?

 

[mbamike]

could i catch anything ?

Yes! An STD, HPV, and HIV.

Go to your doctor NOW and get tested!

 

[tidimus]

HIV wouldn't even show up yet. However there is a "next morning pill" that I can't remember the name of that is supposed to help prevent HIV if you've been possibly exposed.

 

[kevin23]

The treatment is referred to as PEP.
Not available in all cities and cost run $600. to $2500. not covered by insurance I am told.

http://gaylife.about.com/od/hivaid1/a/postexposurepep.htm

You and your partner should both be tested now. If both of you are negative then your lapse in judgement should be OK for this time.
But you really need to be a more responsible person for your health and your partner . Have you ever thought about you being a contributor to HIV instead of an impedement to it.
Play safe or not at all and get tested at least once a year.

 

[kevin23]

1 in 4 or 23.90% or 65 million people in USA living with an incurable STD (CDC

 

[palemale]

1 in 4 or 23.90% or 65 million people in USA living with an incurable STD (CDC

These are scary numbers, especially when one considers that a large percentage of the population is children who are sexually inactive. Thus, the percentage of people who are sexually active and have an incurable STD would be even higher than 23.9%.

 

[kallipolis]

Detailed information on the incidence of sexually transmitted infections in the United States:

http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/s/stds/prevalence.htm

 

[onetwothreefour]

just want to ask if i am alright if he is clean (recently tested) right? he didn't cum on my anus and put it back in. he came in my mouth tho. for me, this is first guy and first without condom.

You as a person are OK. I believe in the inherent goodness of everyone. I think maybe you keep asking that question because that's what you are really asking--am I OK as a human being?

Because the answer to the other question, whether you contracted an STD, I think you probably realize in the back of your mind, even though it is very scary, is that no one here could know. Could you have? Yes. Did you? No one here knows, including you. I am sure that is very scary. I think you have to accept the anxiety you feel and move forward by making plans to see a doctor. As hard as it is, I think you will feel better accepting it is OK ot feel anxious and feel better making a plan.

 

[KaraBulut]

He did pull out but he came around my anus and on it, not sure if any went inside me, getting worried now, could i catch anything ?

Could? Yes.

Did you? You will only know when you go get tested. You can be tested for gonorrhea and other STDS now. It takes 4-6 weeks before you can get an antibody test for HIV. And it will be 6 months before you can be certain that you didn't contract HIV.

If you don't have a condom, a dick should not be in your ass. It takes 15 minutes to go to the store and buy condoms. 15 minutes of waiting to guy condoms or 6 months of waiting for a final HIV test- seems a simple choice in retrospect.

The next time this situation comes up, remember this feeling of fear and uncertainty and don't have anal sex without a condom.

 

[kallipolis]

Could? Yes.

Did you? You will only know when you go get tested. You can be tested for gonorrhea and other STDS now. It takes 4-6 weeks before you can get an antibody test for HIV. And it will be 6 months before you can be certain that you didn't contract HIV.

If you don't have a condom, a dick should not be in your ass. It takes 15 minutes to go to the store and buy condoms. 15 minutes of waiting to guy condoms or 6 months of waiting for a final HIV test- seems a simple choice in retrospect.

The next time this situation comes up, remember this feeling of fear and uncertainty and don't have anal sex without a condom.

Worth repeating, for its life affirming advice.