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Hairy Balls

GayJerseyGuy

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Hey guys,

I just met this guy...we've gone out a few times, and I am really diggin' him. He's tall, cute, smart, great personality, great dresser, basically the whole package. The only problem that I have is that he has pretty hairy balls. I am a balls man, but the thought of me going down on him makes me a little queasy. Should I just ask him to trim his balls or is that rude? Not sure how to go about bringing up this "hairy" topic
 
try it once and see how it feels. What I usually do is to "accidentally" catch strands of hair in my mouth when I'm down there. Then I would be like: hold on, I think I have a strand of hair...then take your time to pick it out from your tongue/mouth. Make the situation awkward if you must lol.

Do it a couple of times, say something awkward....he'll get the message at some point.
 
yeah .. that would be kinda rude ..
you just went out a few times .. i don't believe that would put you in a position to demand anything like that ..

you could try to bring the topic up and see if he intentionally doesn't shave them .. talk about your smooth balls or whatever ..
 
Ignore it, and then, if things go well like you hope, and you have that little talk that makes you each others boy friend, you meekly ask him, he says yes, and you live happily ever after.
 
Just his balls? Or are we talking his whole public region? Is his ass hair long enough where it braids with his groin?

If it's just his nutsack, you should only concern yourself with sucking on his dick anyway.
 
Have a shaving party. Let him know you're turned on by it after you shave 'em.
 
I don't see why you shouldn't just bring it up. The only way it could really be a problem is if he hates ball-shaving and neither of you is willing to compromise... but, if that's the case, then all of the roundabout hinting that other people have suggested won't fix the situation either.

Obviously, if you're going to ask him to change his grooming habits to suit your tastes, you should be willing to do the same if he asks.
 
Don't tell him what to do, just tell him what your preference is. It's his decision as to what to do.

Keep in mind that adult men have hair. And some gay men like to keep it that way.
 
Tell him how much you enjoy working a man's balls. And tell him that you have observed that his balls are especially hairy. Ask him, not tell him, you would like to trim them and give them some special attention. I bet not matter what he prefers hair or no hair, he will allow it, at least once. This truly may not be his thing, but how will you ever know.
Shep+:kiss:*|**|*:rolleyes:
 
You say he's got it all and you're focusing on his hairy nuts?

Try to accept him for who he is and don't expect him to change to suit you 'cause if you're like the rest of us, you're not perfect either :)
 
It's rude and tacky. Just take him as he is or find someone else that has the balls you are looking for.
 
I first thought I'd really hate it when a guy didn't shave (going off stories from others, etc), but I'm finding that I rather like the hair more.
 
I seriously do not see any problem here whatsoever. Don't we all tell our sex partners what we like? Like this. "You know what, I really enjoy working on your nutsack, and I would really get turned on if they were shaved or trimed, can we give it a try"? If he's a mature guy he will not take offense and either say no thanks or get your razor or sissors and have at it. Problem solved.
 
Hatter said:
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Personally can't stand the trend guys have with shaving EVERYTHING anymore. Men are men and should be hairy ](*,)

Unless you're Justin Bieber you should have some hair down there :p
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i completely agree. i like hair. i'm not saying i like a TON of hair on a guy, but honestly, i'm more turned on by a hairy pubic region and balls than i am with shaved. its a fucking man, thats part of his manhood. a hairy chest is kinda nice too, but not necessary...

and as for ass...a LIGHTLY haired ass is fine with me...too much though, and i'm like, ok, whoa man.
 
Some guys suffer from severe ingrown hairs if they have coarse body hair (like me). Such guys generally have an aversion to shaving because it leads to itchiness and pain.

Trimming is a good compromise, but you can't ask that so soon.
 
This is a little silly.

Honestly, just be completely forward about everything.

"Listen, "Tim". I'd rather your nuts not be a thriving forest, It's uncomfortable for me to be down there doing something I enjoy. If you wouldn't mind, would you weed whack for me?"

Granted, you can be as serious as you'd like with it. But, I'm just proving a point. :P

Don't be afraid to communicate with anyone you're involved with, whether it be a year or two weeks.

Communication. Is. Key.
 
I agree, communication is important. I personally like for my guy to tell me what I can improve to satisfy him.
 
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