Hard to reach orgasm while standing?

[Iudicium86]

Is this a common issue at all? Laying down or on my knees I can feel immense pleasure and reach orgasm. But if I'm in a full standing position the pleasure feels like it has decreased and is nearly impossible to cum.

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Any reasons for this? Maybe muscle tension, blood circulation?

 

[Taylor1990]

Is this a common issue at all? Laying down or on my knees I can feel immense pleasure and reach orgasm. But if I'm in a full standing position the pleasure feels like it has decreased and is nearly impossible to cum.

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Any reasons for this? Maybe muscle tension, blood circulation?

OMG. the same thing happens to me! It's just never that good standing and takes a helluva lot longer too. For me, if say, I jerk off standing in the shower, the orgasm is usually so bad I think to myself, why'd I even bother.

I don't know why that happens, but both muscle tension and less circulation are good guesses in my book. Hope someone else can shed some light onto this.

 

[KaraBulut]

It's difficult for some guys to stay hard or to have an orgasm while standing. Most of the problem is related to circulation and the way that blood tends to follow gravity.

And the more you get used to coming while in certain positions like lying flat, then it becomes more difficult to do it in other positions.

 

[tidimus]

I know several guys like this. Which sucks because back when I used to fool around having them standing while I sucked them off was my favorite position. The problem is a LOT of guys can't do it

 

[Corny]

i have heard this a few times before, it is not that uncommon. it's just that some people can't do some things. also many people can't pee with an erection for example

 

[jayxx2]

i can relate to the situation, particularly when, say you have been asked to stand over a certain special someone and jack off all over them. i find that my legs can cramp up a lot as i stand up and have to steady myself at least with 1 hand while working it with the other. compared to laying down, standing up is 10x's the work.

 

[Atzesp]

I've never felt that different about standing... Sometimes it's great, sometimes it's just ok - but that's the same whenever I'm jerking off in other positions. A few weeks ago, for example, I was soooo horny that I just touched my cock when showering and was ready to cum - and yes, the orgasm was fantastic.

But I'd risk say that laying down or on your knees makes you more "relaxed", since you know you can cum till you faint without having any problems (LOL). And then you get more focused on the action - and, consequently, on the pleasure. Not sure, it's just an idea.

 

[Lawnmowerman]

My partner is like that; and I think at least in his case it has to do with muscle tension. He may be able to cum while standing, or on his knees, but then I have to either hold him up or slowly lay him down on the bed. Myself on the other hand, I can cum sitting, standing, kneeling, lying down and I can't say any of them have better or worse orgasms then any other positions. I guess MY body is used to that, as I jacked off in many different positions over the years, so maybe it's used to them all?

 

[saymyname]

Well, for masturbating, yes, it's difficult. When I try to masturbate in the shower, and orgasm while standing, I start to shake and it feels like my knees are going to give in. I get really short of breath and breathe in all the steam and feel very light headed. In other words, it takes more energy/effort - it's kind of amazing after though.

For fucking a guy, yeah, the "build up" to coming takes longer... but I've come in guys while fucking them standing up. I find it helps if they're bent over so that you can sort of bend over too and lean into their arch. That way you aren't standing up straight.

For getting fucked, same thing, gotta bend over...