have u been fooled or been fooling someone??

[hhoiffk2004]

ok im talking about fooling when it comes to random hookups..

ok what happened to me was one night, i was so horny and was looking for someone.lol! this guy talked to me and we chatted for a bit. from the way he was talking, he was really as horny as me. so i asked for a pic of him to see if i would like him. he gave me his pic and he was hot. anyway, i just wondered why he was so keen to meet up even if he hasnt asked for my pic yet?maybe hes a nice guy and dont mind what u look like but whats inside? lol!

the next night i decidd to call him and ask to meet up. i was waiting for him and he said he will be in a car. a few mins later, a car pulled over and he told me to go in the car. i went in the car, it was dark and he was kinda covering his face. then i realised he wasnt the guy in the picture!

it was so awkward coz we were both quiet inhis car coz i knew the truth. no offence to him but i was kinda disappointed. he wasnt really attractive but i actually let him suck me off not because i was horny but because i kinda feel sorry for him coz he looks hungry and looks like hasnt done it for a long time.im not saying im hot and guys will do anything to suck me or anything like that. im just saying he wanted it so i gave it to him. lol!

after that i went home and i felt disgusted about myself. i kinda cried coz i let someone that i wasnt attracted to touch me and also felt disgusted that i was easy and wanted to meet up just because i saw one picture of him which was fake.

i dont usually meet up with someone that easy, its just that i was so horny at that time and i needed to realease. although he turned me off when i saw him personally.

now my question is is it his fault coz he fooled me or is it my fault coz i let him suck me off since he wanted it (and i dont wanna offend him and say that hes ugly. im a type of guy that would tell white lies so others wont get offended and this is what ive done.). could it also be called rape or not, i mean i let him do that but i dunno? has this happened to u? have u been fooled before or are u the ones fooling people??

sorry guys if this is quite long....

 

[Bi_Stud]

If I was ever in a situation li'ke that.. I would straight up tell the person they don't look anything like their picture.

"No offense, I am not saying you're ugly or unattractive...but you really look nothing like you're picture. Sorry. I don't like liars." and I would escort myself out of it.

Its kind of both of your faults.. but mostly yours in my opinion for your actions. He shouldn't have used a fake picture..and you should have just been honest. But being horny will do that to you. Atleast you didn't hurt his feelings lol.

 

[hhoiffk2004]

If I was ever in a situation li'ke that.. I would straight up tell the person they don't look anything like their picture.

"No offense, I am not saying you're ugly or unattractive...but you really look nothing like you're picture. Sorry. I don't like liars." and I would escort myself out of it.

Its kind of both of your faults.. but mostly yours in my opinion for your actions. He shouldn't have used a fake picture..and you should have just been honest. But being horny will do that to you. Atleast you didn't hurt his feelings lol.

lol! yeah i didnt hurt his feelings! and ive given him what hes craving for a long time.

but i think he realised i was nt really interested. coz the next 2 days, he messaged me and said he wanted to meet up. i didnt reply, and he had messaged me every single day. the last few messages he sent me, it said "meet up with me, ill pay you if u like" that freaked me out and hes starting to be like a stalker and hes making me a prostitute.lol! eventually he stopped messaging and i think he got the point. lol!!

 

[lestat83]

i think it's your fault coz u let it happen when you could have stoped it

 

[hhoiffk2004]

i think it's your fault coz u let it happen when you could have stoped it

yeh thats what i think too. its my fault. and its kinda gross. i try not to think about it

 

[Seasoned]

Pity fucks are the worst! And my friends and I have an on-going debate as to who suffers the most in that situation--the needy one, or the one who gave in.

 

[G-Lexington]

Stories like this give proof that posting fake pictures will result in some sex taking place, whereas a real one almost certainly wouldn't. Just in case anyone is still wondering why people do it.

Lex

 

[hhoiffk2004]

Pity fucks are the worst! And my friends and I have an on-going debate as to who suffers the most in that situation--the needy one, or the one who gave in.

so in ur opinion, whos fault is it??

 

[josher]

You got into a car with a perfect stranger?

There have been stories about men who have been raped, kidnapped and worse in situations like that.

If you're going to meet someone for a potential hook-up, do so in a public place, where other people are around. Then, if there's a problem, you can just leave.

 

[jimm04]

you must accept the money he wants to give u... there is no other way

 

[Bi_Stud]

Accept the money! You don't want to hurt his feelings!

 

[Txgoodoldboy]

Live and Learn. You put yourself in a bad situation, just don't do it again. Meet in public. Let a friend know what is happening, when you are going to meetup. Have a plan to get out of a situation.

Don't beat yourself up. You made a mistake. Learn from it.

 

[youngnihilist]

some of you boys need to learn to be firm or mean in certain situations. there's a lot of bad folks out there - i wouldn't worry about offending them.

 

[KaraBulut]

so in ur opinion, whos fault is it??

Trying to find fault is a waste of time at this point.

Just learn from it and don't repeat the same mistake.

 

[hhoiffk2004]

thanks for all your replies and opinions. yeh u guys are right its my fault. after that incident, i actually lost my sexual appetite for a few weeks.lol!!

but thats a very long time ago and now im back to being sexual.