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Have you ever been in jail?

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One time as a teen I ran away and found myself in a juvenile detention center for 3 days.
The place that I had ran from was teaching me a lesson.

I was 14, it almost seems like it never happened now, but I remember laying on the bunk staring at the light that only dimmed but never was turned off at night wondering if I would ever get out. Then I would look at the steel door that was of course locked, a small window about 4 inches wide covered in thick wire was on the opposite wall.

I feel that it had a positive effect on me, just as most of my life experiences have had, it gave me a taste of what the consequences are for those who break the law, a lesson well received.

Have you ever been "taught a lesson?'
 
A temporary stay at a lock up including shower, bed, and breakfast that offers time to reflect upon, and tame ones raw emotions often encourages the hormone high teenager to come down to earth, to discover that their experience has provided them with sufficient wherewithal to face their trials, rather than attempt to escape from them.
 
I've been to many jails and in them during my official law enforcement days. Actually sentenced to stay there, of course not. I've put many a man behind bars for life....
 
I'm afraid a bear will eat me.
 
Never, and no reason ever to be. I am reminded, though, of a young guy I knew. I can't remember what he did, but he was facing a 6-month jail sentence. This was back in the late 70s and I still remember these words he said: "It's only 6 months."

I thought, 'That's 6 months of his life he'll never get back.' I couldn't believe how cavalier he was being about it.
 
Yes, for about 6 hours for DWI. I don't look good in prison orange and back then, it was not the new black. And I usually get dinner and a movie before being told to bend over and spread my cheeks. :-)

Haven't had a drink since. Never missed it.

That was 32 years ago.
 
I suppose it would be right to explain how I came to be in this juvenile lock up for 3 days.
First I would preface this explanation by saying that I don't look at the past in the spectrum of right or wrong, or fair or unfair, I look at life experiences and ask my self what good they did me. I will not stew in the juices of "victimhood"

As I have eluded to all to often, I had been sent to a non secure facility by the court because I had failed the 6th grade twice, the school expelled me saying I was retarded, then when tested to their chagrin it was found that I wasn't.

So, I was in this place at 14, had been there for over a year, I had witnessed rapes, it had been tried on me. Let me clarify rape, in this case not a physical violent attack, but by intimidation. An older boy would let the younger smaller know what he wanted and what would happen if he didn't get it. It was known in my case that I would endure the pain rather than to be their toy.

I also was beat up by the staff, both with hands and with straps, so when I hit the road it could be said that I was angry.
poor me, I had not stolen cars, robbed people or places as many of the boys in this place had done, but, here I was. So my attitude (not consciously) became "if you want a delinquent, I will give you one". So I began to rebel, lie, manipulate and do what ever I could to show my contempt for the situation.

Part of this rebellion was to run away, which I had done on more than one occasion, on this latest excursion they showed me the "other side".

I soon came to realize that maybe life wasn't so bad in a place where I could take a piss without permission. I had to ride out the storm, not go against the tide.

Now, as to fair vs. unfair, it's irrelevant. It happened, now how do I put it to use?
I found that all of this gave me strength, self confidence (which I was sorely lacking in) and experiences that I could if I so chose use in a positive manner.

I would say, that I would rather be wrongfully locked up than to deserve it, I can look back with a certain smugness and say "I won".
 
Yep. 3 times. A 12 hour stay. A three day stay. And a ten day stay. All alcohol related in 2011-12. I've learned to limit my drinking.
 
Once. For about 27 hours. I was arrested during the Republican National Convention in 2004. The charges were eventually dropped and the lawsuit paid handsomely.
 
Yeah but not for what you think. I was there along with my brother and father and with my then karate classmates to put on a demonstration for the kids in the youth house back in the day. The kids that were inmates looked like they were enjoying the free for all we were having. Kicking and punching and getting our anger out on each other. My junkie ass instructor never coughed up the money for those yellow belts that we earned or those dojo suits. He was high as a kite though while on that nation of Islam, Muslim shit, pro black too. Needs to say we bounced from there when he decided to open up another karate spot on the other side of the highway across town. Wish I followed up but then I might actually be in jail thinking I could whoop everybody's ass.
 
TheLoveableLoner said:
Once. For about 27 hours. I was arrested during the Republican National Convention in 2004. The charges were eventually dropped and the lawsuit paid handsomely.
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What your black ass is doing at a Republican convention for?
 
I was arrested actually four times, but I only been to jail twice. The two times I was arrested but not booked, I was accused of prostitution and cruising in restrooms, but was let go after I refused to give my ID.

First time I was underage. I was sixteen. There was this homophobic and racist teacher I had. He really pissed me off and made me stay after school detention and I had to miss the school wide trip to Disneyland. So I went in his car, (his trunk window was not locked and I just crawled in there) and stole his ipod, his phone, electronics he had. That of course is grand theft and I was sent to juvenile center for two days because of that. I was released because I did return his belongings back. I don't know it was due to pity or because he felt sorry for me, but he actually dropped the charges and I didn't have to go court.

Second time, a few years ago, I was friends with this really abusive European daddy type guy I met online so I beat the soup out of him after he punched me in the face and accused me of stealing shit from his house, when I didn't. He let many young gay twinks/queens in his house and it could have been any one of them. Because I was black, and he was white, I was of course locked up for battery. I was in jail for a day, and I was bailed out it was like a five hundred dollar bail that my aunt who is lesbian paid for me, and he later dropped the charges out of pity and never showed up in court.

So despite being arrested four times, and being incarcerated twice for theft and assault, my record is clean as a whistle. lol.
 
I've been arrested once before at a protest - but they just loaded us onto buses and de-arrested us once we had been processed at a police station. So, alas, I am no jailbird.
 
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