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Having trouble getting over my ex...

Here's another tip--you can't stop thinking about someone by focusing on not thinking about him. Find new things to focus on--develop a new interest, go to some new places from time to time. Explore newness for the sake of newness--not for the sake of forgetting the old.
 
Thanks guys. That all sounds like solid advice/ideas. I've been staying pretty busy, I just feel like I've taken 5 steps back with all the stuff that happened in the last week. I guess it's true that I was trying to stay friends with him in hopes of getting back, and that was a bad approach. I'd like to start dating other guys soon too - I keep running into guys I used to date casually and it's been really nice to see them again, they're always happy to see me... and there's always new hot guys in this city... but truthfully I think I need at least a few weeks on myself before I can bring anyone into my life...
 
RazorzEdge88 said:
He sounds a bit like my ex, only much more sleazy, fucked up, malicious, etc.

I've felt great ever since I just cut it all off, and you will too.

Really, my advice would be to move on and do not even look back. The guy sounds like an asshole.
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Yeah, every time I read your posts I'm shocked at how similar our situations sound. May I ask what happened when you broke off contact? I've always related to your history so any more advice in general is appreciated, or even what happened, etc. Thanks for replying. And yes, malicious is the perfect word - my friends all tell me he's a prick, and they don't really like him, but I always just felt bad whenever I'd tell the truth about him, because I knew him before that, and that certainly wasn't the boy I fell in love with.
 
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