He Ejaculated blood instead of semen

[onetwothreefour]

As a quick note on cancer, if you had protected or unprotected anal sex, there is always a risk for transferring HPV, which could be one of the causes of anal cancer. But that shouldn't be your main concern.

I think people are upset because of the dissonance you pose. You are admittedly worried about your health, but you are not taking action about that worry. People don't like conflict, and your situation is conflicting. I am sure you probably feel conflicted as well.

You are right that there are some people who don't go to the doctor or care about themselves. I think you may be a different type who is so worried that going to the doctor and knowing about what could be wrong scares you so much that you avoid it. You would be very brave to overcome your challenge, and I think you should try to. You deserve to have a good doctor whom you can tell everything to, including all of your present symptoms and all of your concerns about your past sexual activity. Demand that and claim that for yourself.

You owe yourself your life.

 

[lostnfound]

You owe yourself your life.

And you owe everybody else a chance at their own lives.

Get tested. Live responsibly.

 

[KaraBulut]

Hmmm. Well, this thread has found its way into the No Flame Zone.

Let's back up and start over.

Occasionally, it is possible to have blood in semen. Usually, it is the result of a rupture in a capillary in the reproductive tract.

But that's largely irrelevant to your circumstance. What is important is that you had a high risk exposure because you had some sort of sex without a condom. If the contact was receptive anal sex, whether or not he came is also irrelevant. Anal sex without a condom is always a high risk encounter.

Anal sex without a condom with someone whose sexual history you do not know and whose name you are uncertain of... well, I don't know where to begin there.

You do need to have STD testing. If you want to have testing anonymously, I usually recommend a public health clinic or Planned Parenthood (yes, Planned Parenthood clinics in larger cities have an STD testing program specifically for gay men and lesbians).

It sounds like you have already had 2 negative HIV tests since March 2009 when the exposure occurred?

Exactly what symptoms are you having that have you worried?

 

[hotatlboi]

LOL at being embarrassed to tell the doctor. Don't fuck with your health man. One time I got sick after I had hooked up and became concerned. I explained to the doc exactly what happened and he gave me an std test right away. If the doc is a professional and does his/her job correctly they will listen to what you have to say and take the appropriate actions, they will not mock you or make your feel uncomfortable.

 

[freefall]

So let me get this straight. You know something was wrong SINCE last year and yet you don't visit a doctor? You silly man, betting with your life. So what if your doctor were not gay? Gays are humans, not ducks.

The chance of your [strike]boyfriend[/strike] partner to conceive any STDs was small, since (please remember) STDs DO NOT discharge blood as their main symptoms. I suspect your partner may have UTIs or prostate infection. Nevertheless, to take an STD test is indeed the rightest thing to do (though with your asymptomatic state and delayed visit, I doubt a regular doctor will find out something).

Anyway, is there ANYTHING else you noticed with your body? Like wounds on genital/oral area, any discharges from your penis, or insignificant fever? Anything? At all?

 

[Digweed]

This ejaculating blood thing has happened to me before and it didn't half scare the life out of me - i thought it was the heralding of some nasty disease or something and had myself at death's door reading some stuff on the net about it. But after seeing G.P about it, it turned out to be nothing to write home about and apparently isn't that uncommon and it cleared up again over a couple of weeks and been all good since.

 

[Telstra]

No its not important that he be gay but i would be more comfortable with a gay doctor because he wouldnt be judging me in the least.


I know regular doctors have seen it all before but i know that they are also human and have opinions regardless of their profession.

I cant deal with their judgmental eyes as i describe what happened.

When i went to get tested the first i told her it was unprotected sex and she actually asked me if it was with a male or female.

I couldn't believe she did that? Why would she even suggest that? Already she is implying that i might be gay because i doubt she would ask other men that. Its as if she was questioning my masculinity.


So i lied and said it was with a female. I almost puked at the thought of what i just said.

So then she sent me for a syphilis and HIV test.

I don't really think it mattered who the sex was with as long as you mention it was unprotected.

Doctors should know everything there is to know about sexuality. Doctors already know that male on male sex is common.

As others said, you have to tell them everything truthfully so they can help you properly.

 

[Nomenclature]

Doctors should know everything there is to know about sexuality. Doctors already know that male on male sex is common.

Syphilis and HIV are two of the most common STDs spread amongst gay men. I'm 100% sure that the doc would have ordered the same tests regardless of whether you were gay or straight. That info was probably just for your medical record.

As others said, you have to tell them everything truthfully so they can help you properly.

Definitely. You could also go to a CDC or another clinic that offers anonymous STD testing. The "Every STD test" is like 60-80 bucks, but it's worth it to rule out everything.

Besides getting tested for STDs, I would get an exam just to make sure everything's okay in my prostate, urethra and testes if streams of blood came out of me, or someone I was having sex with.

 

[AdmiraalW238]

Something happened in March 2009 an you are only now asking questions.

There is a term that comes to my mind when I see anyone ask a question like this.

 

[tommyj]

When i google "blood in semen" most of the responses say its a blood vessel that likely burst.

What concerns me though is that he really wanted to ejaculate in one of my orifices. I had to literally force him out of my orifice and 3 seconds after he came out he was shooting blood all over my chest.


Its like he wanted to give me a gift.


Men can be so evil.

This dude wont see a doctor - why? Because even with the anonymity of a gay site he cant reveal if it was his ass or his mouth. Dude, WTF! We are not going on a rant if you had unprotected sex - you know or should know the dangers so lets save the bandwidth. However, if you want to help yourself - be upfront. Jesus, WHAT kind of symptoms? WHERE did he attempt to come? The fact that he deleted his profile after he got home would be of major concern to me!

 

[mrcorbin]

Medical professionals do not care about your sexuality! We have so much more to worry about than that!! To be blunt: you are being extremely ignorant for not going to the doctor. I hope that you have not had sex with ANYONE since this incident. You say you have symptoms - isn't that enough to scare the $h!t out of you to get to the doctor?! I hate to admit it..but for once I agree with Jasun (haha!) there are so many things you could have contracted and still be asymptomatic. Quit worrying about the stupid details of your sexual preference and go to the doctor and be honest.

 

[Tar_Heel-n-ATL]

Not sure if it's relevant, but I had a biopsy of the prostate last year and that led to lots of blood in my semen for a few weeks.