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He is soon to be 20 and I am 31...please be truthful on your opinion

Age is nothing but a number.. If it is meant to be, then it is meant to be. Don't let age, race or anything else get in your way 'cause it simply doesn't matter. If there is a connection between the two of you, then pursue that and see where it lead you. Good luck mate!
 
What sort of dating did you have in mind? Do you want a serious, life-long relationship with someone, or just the title of boyfriend and living in the present? I'm concerned about the age difference coupled with the fact that you've lived a life that is very repressed sexually and emotionally towards members of the same-sex. Have fun, but at some point, be prepared to define exactly what you want with this boy.
 
My boyfriend is almost 30, I'm 20. He acts "younger" than 30 and I act "older" than 20, so it works out. Plus we have a lot in common and we are both attracted to each other. Good luck dude!

we are all different

some younger guys are "old souls"
some older guys have a little extra in the tank and are "young at heart"

either way if you're both into it there is NO issue

good luck
 
Hispanics have far less of an "age-hangup" than others. Not sure why, but it sure does enable you to date and find out if you are compatible without worrying about the age gap. As for others' views: as long as it is legal, who cares.
 
That is not a big age difference really and in the end it all depends on how you feel about it. I was 29 and my lover was 21 when we met...now we are old LOL ...age starts to matter a bit more when you both get older as there are different challenges that come with age. I think if you like the guy you should relax and go for it... and I think the race thing is a non issue.
 
Pretty sure the OP started this thread to boast that he was seeing a 19 yr old.

I am 44 and my partner is 61. Who gives a shit how old each person is? Age is a state of mind.
 
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