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Well hooked up with my first guy going all the way. He a bttm and I consider myself a Top/vers. Although I have never bttm lol. The problem I stayed hard sucking him off and eatting his ass out and while getting sucked. But I kept going soft fucking him no matter what the position. It was 6months since I had been laid but I always bb with chicks. We used a condom at first and I though it was the condom why I wasn't staying hard, so we decided to bb and I stayed alittle harder but then it went soft and I couldnt even jo. Any Ideas? To be honest I really couldn't feel anything while I was fucking him, not tight enought I guess?
 
My advice? Don't bareback with hookups. That advice is far more important than the fact that you couldn't stay hard.

Lex
 
dont bareback.

oh yeah, the other issue. this is very subjective but i always found the fantasy of fucking someone much more arousing than actually fucking someone. i often dont stay hard either. i dont really see it as a problem, i even hook up with pure bottoms, i just use fingers or whatever works.

did i mention you shouldnt bareback?
 
I agree with Lex and I'm going to emphasize it again, don't bb with hookups!!!! Also try bottoming, you may just like it.
 
Thx everyone, yeah I never ever planned on bb, but kinda in the moment and it just happened. I will take your guys advice. I think it was nerves or maybe i'm a bttm and just dont know it yet LOL.
 
It didn't "just happen". You both decided to take the condom off and bareback. Don't decide that anymore.

Lex
 
$5 says that you fell off your bike the first time you tried to ride it.

Yet everyone always believes that they should be hard as a rock and fucking like a jack-hammer the first time they have anal sex.

Get back on the bicycle and try again. Just maybe not with a stranger and definitely with a condom.
 
Well it wasnt my first time having anal sex, but first time with a guy. I had sex with my ex girlfriend of 7yrs on a regular basis and never had a problem. But yeah totally fucked up with the bb, i think part of my problem was i jacked off in the morning and wasnt totally planning on a hookup. Plus i have a pretty tight grip with a jo, its gotten a lot tight since having sex which had been awhile.
 
Try not jerking off before your next hookup or if you think you may have one(if its planned that is), also I would agree with the get tested part
 
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