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Help me please boys...first time!

mrlurve55

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Hey I don't wanna sound silly and naive but in the near future I plan on having sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I'm going to be the bottom, but I have idea how to prepare for this, I mean I don't have any douching stuff and don't really have the money to buy them....any tips/help/words of advice!!!!?? I don't want any nasty suprisies !oops!
 
The Requests Forum is for things like "who is this hot guy?"

your thread deserves to be in a no-flame zone, and fits nicely in the health and well being area. I'd suggest you check out this thread here:

http://justusboys.com/forum/showthread.php?t=59400

My own personal (very limited) experience with anal sex is that it helps a lot to be relaxed and ready for it if you get rimmed before hand. But I'd much rather be the rimmer than rimmee.
 
mrlurve55, my first time doing anything with a guy was five days ago, and I had the same questions as you did. The threads listed above helped; they didn't answer all of the questions I had. If you still have questions, feel free to PM me.
 
mrlurve55 said:
Hey I don't wanna sound silly and naive but in the near future I plan on having sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I'm going to be the bottom, but I have idea how to prepare for this, I mean I don't have any douching stuff and don't really have the money to buy them....any tips/help/words of advice!!!!?? I don't want any nasty suprisies !oops!
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Go for a dump beforehand, just to make sure there is no residual shit in your rectum.

Also, try and play with yourself before, so you know what it feels like and how to handle penetration.

And before he penetrates you, get him to loosen your anus out a bit. this way it wouldn't cause as much pain, seeing it's your first time.

other than that, have fun! ..| :p
 
taking a dump beforehand is good advice. unfortunately, you ordinarily can't really control when you have to go. i might advise some kind of pre-fuck bowel regimen: take a cathartic laxative the day before (ex-lax, or anything with sennakot), and follow up your last BM with a Fleet enema, just to make sure everything is out. then, take a shower.

anal hygiene is part of good etiquette for bottoming. you want it to be nice and clean for him, especially if he's going to rim you beforehand.

your top should really be into foreplay, especially if it's your first time. the bigger he is, the more he should work you. some guys are squeamish about rimming. I think it's both hot to do, and amazing to have done to you. fingering is intensely pleasurable too, only he should go slowly, one knuckle at a time, with very well lubed fingers. when that gets comfortable, move on to two. fingering also helps introduce the lube deep into your butt, which is important.

you can never have too much lube for the main event. he needs to be patient, and take is time with inserting. your sphincter will eventually adjust to having him in you.

i know so many guys who were turned off on bottoming because their first times were traumatic. don't let this happen to you. patience is key here.
 
Yeah, I just had a talk IRL with an experienced top and he was pretty insistent that showering and wet wiping just weren't good enough.

We didn't have time to go further.

(Talk, that is!)
 
adidas4boyspunk said:
Regular use of laxatives "to prepare" is advised against by medical professionals as it can contribute to bowel dysfunction. Better to have a regular bowel habit.
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that´s true! besides, it can produce some irritation inside your rectum and that could become very unpleasant while having intercourse [-X

Good luck! :gogirl:
 
Hey guys,
Just thought I'd give an update!!! I had my first gay sex the other night and it was amazing!!!! Hurt a bit to begin with but as soon as I relaxed etc it was amazing!!!
Thanks for all you tips etc about preparations! All I did was take a dump before hand and then used a finger to check up there and remove anything left behind. Sounds disgusting I know, but I'd rather do that before hand than getting it all over my b/fs dick!
Thanks again!! Heres to many many more!!! ;)

Rob
 
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