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So I was having some drinks with my friend the other day (by the way this is my best friend I've had a crush on for a long time, i beat off to him nightly, blah blah blah, you know the story) and after a few drinks he started to bring up his relationship with his current girlfriend. I asked him if they were ever going to get married because they have an almost 1 year old kid. He started talking about how they have been fighting a lot more lately and it didnt seem like he was happy and what not. Then he looked at me and with the most serious face i've seen in a long time said. "You know we arnt going to be together forever." Now I cant explain it because its just how i know him but the way he said it and the facial expression was like he was "hinting" at something.

How should I take that? I'm definitly not going to wait for him or get all excited and be like ZOMG HE WANTS TO HAVE ENDLESS SEX WITH ME. but do you think he was actually trying to hint at something? He knows I've fooled around with a gay friend of both of ours before and he said that our friend told him about the crush i have on him... so... yea...
 
You know him well enough to ask him what he meant. Unless you prefer the fantasy for your nightly "date" with him, I'd just talk to him. He doesn't sound like the type of guy who bites, butso much the better if that assessment is wrong, right?
 
turnandburn said:
So I was having some drinks with my friend the other day (by the way this is my best friend I've had a crush on for a long time, i beat off to him nightly, blah blah blah, you know the story) and after a few drinks he started to bring up his relationship with his current girlfriend. I asked him if they were ever going to get married because they have an almost 1 year old kid. He started talking about how they have been fighting a lot more lately and it didnt seem like he was happy and what not. Then he looked at me and with the most serious face i've seen in a long time said. "You know we arnt going to be together forever." Now I cant explain it because its just how i know him but the way he said it and the facial expression was like he was "hinting" at something.

How should I take that? I'm definitly not going to wait for him or get all excited and be like ZOMG HE WANTS TO HAVE ENDLESS SEX WITH ME. but do you think he was actually trying to hint at something? He knows I've fooled around with a gay friend of both of ours before and he said that our friend told him about the crush i have on him... so... yea...
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lol i think if drinks are involved you need to take what he says literally meaning hes not going to be with his kids mom forver Period. No Innuendo lol
 
It does sound a little peculiar, especially since it is unclear if "we" meant he and his girlfriend as a couple, or he and you as best friends.
 
He is your best friend who you have known for a long time. So, just ask him what he meant.
 
More than likely, it was an admission to the both of you that he's in a relationship that is doomed.

It may be something that he wants to talk about. Or maybe he just needed to get it off his chest.

You're his friend. Ask him. And don't do what guys tend to do- don't try to fix it. Just shutup, listen and let him talk.
 
just what Kara said....let him talk....he may be "switching" over to you soon....be a friend, listen, and see what happens
 
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