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Hey guys so I'm bi-sexual, but have been really attracted to my coworker over the past few months. He surfs, works out, has such nice thighs and a great ass too. He's also really good looking when he grows out his facial hair and has a really nice smile.

He claims he's straight, and he does have a girlfriend. But just by talking to him I can tell that he is gay or at least bi. He never talks about his girlfriend and he's just very personal about it. I'm good at reading people and I get the gay vibe from him.

We've been working together for about 10 months or so and he finally brought his girlfriend to the workplace last week and he wanted ME to see her out of all people. I was with a customer and they waited until I was done and he's like "see she does exist". So I was like "oh hey nice to meet you" even tho I was jealous.

I tried talking to him more and more by going to lunch together and just talking whenever we get the chance about music and stuff. A couple weeks ago he actually texted me at night! It wasn't anything crazy, but I just thought wow we've never texted before.

So to shorten things, he's transferring to a store in the city and I had no idea until recently! And on our last night working together we hugged eachother goodbye and he kind of like pulled my head into his shoulder and grabbed the back of it. It was a decently long hug too.

Now on Facebook his relationship status is "in a civil union" and I Google'd it and apparently only gay people do that?!

So is he really gay and do I have a chance?! would love some help.
 
jubdown5 said:
Hey guys so I'm bi-sexual, but have been really attracted to my coworker over the past few months. He surfs, works out, has such nice thighs and a great ass too. He's also really good looking when he grows out his facial hair and has a really nice smile.

He claims he's straight, and he does have a girlfriend. But just by talking to him I can tell that he is gay or at least bi. He never talks about his girlfriend and he's just very personal about it. I'm good at reading people and I get the gay vibe from him.

We've been working together for about 10 months or so and he finally brought his girlfriend to the workplace last week and he wanted ME to see her out of all people. I was with a customer and they waited until I was done and he's like "see she does exist". So I was like "oh hey nice to meet you" even tho I was jealous.

I tried talking to him more and more by going to lunch together and just talking whenever we get the chance about music and stuff. A couple weeks ago he actually texted me at night! It wasn't anything crazy, but I just thought wow we've never texted before.

So to shorten things, he's transferring to a store in the city and I had no idea until recently! And on our last night working together we hugged eachother goodbye and he kind of like pulled my head into his shoulder and grabbed the back of it. It was a decently long hug too.

Now on Facebook his relationship status is "in a civil union" and I Google'd it and apparently only gay people do that?!

So is he really gay and do I have a chance?! would love some help.
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My advice is to not date a coworker.
 
LikesDudes2 said:
My advice is to not date a coworker.
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If he transfers to a different location, is he still a co-worker? Technically yes, because you work @ the same company, but you don't work together.

OP: You should weigh this - you wouldn't want to loose your friend unless you knew for sure.
 
Well there's no homophobic vibe from him like some of the other threads. Have you told him you're gay?
 
Did he ever do or say anything to indicate a sexual interest in you?
 
hes gay your gay we are all gay...what does it matter what we are ...if your attracted to him hang out with him..doesn't have to be awkward about if/how gay he is...

bringing his girlfriend up to you is just saying....'look what you made me settle for, a girlfriend, when what i want is you'
 
I haven't told him I am, because no one knows.

But idk I'm good at reading people and whenever I look at him at work he smiles or he'll like start saying my name and rhyming words with it that sound similar.

Like I know a lot of straight people and a good amount of gay people and it definitely wouldn't surprise me if he was gay, but I need to find out without being direct.

Was thinking of making up an email or something and sending an anonymous message.

Wish you guys could see his body, but I think if you knew him in person you'd get the same vibe from him that he could be gay.

Thanks for the replies so far!
 
Well, seeing as his girlfriend hasn't done anything to you, I don't see any need to attempt to fuck up his relationship.
 
jubdown COULD be doing his friend a favor.
If his friend were to choose HIM over his girlfriend it would save everyone a lot of heartache down the road.
Maybe jubdown should send his friend a link to the movie "Crossroads"....... ;)
 
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