Bears Help with bear friend...

[newbiebear]

I'am a 20 guy, who loves bears. I have one friend though, who is one of the most gorgeous bears i've ever seen, chubby, nice beard, curly hear, VERY hairy, etc. I've seen he has some really gay behaivour but i haven't had the courage to ask him if he really is. Therefore once we were talking on a party (he had a fight with a good friend of him) on a dark place, we sat together nothing happened, but we were really close and i rested on his shoulder, he one mine and i would rub my face all over his hair but he didn't say a thing (we were drunk). Later that night we slept on the same bed because there was no space and i began rubbing him on his crotch but i don't think he noticed. After that i cannot think of anything else...so i want to know how do i get him to know i want fo f*** him, i was planning on inviting him over for dinner and trying to get in the mood...Any advices???

 

[RainbowTom]

First of all, welcome to JUB! =)
Secondly, in answer to your question.
1) I'm jealous. He sounds hot
2) Dinner sounds like a great idea, if you can get him to have a couple of drinks.... Alcohol really does greatly reduce inhibition...

Good luck!!

 

[Fat Tom]

I wouldn't try to rush right in for sex... Just feel him out a bit more (not literally), just talk to the cat, but again, don't be pushy.

 

[altlover85]

I second what Fat Tom said. You don't know if he's gay or not. If you're not going to ask him, I wouldn't push things physically for the time being.

 

[vowels]

GHB.

No, not really. Just hang out with the dude... be all lovely and cutesy with the dinner but try not to make it too obviously date-like, might make him a bit uncomfortable. Have a few beers, talk shit, it sounds like you guys are pretty close so it wouldn't be too hard... you may find a positive vibe from him and then the rest is up to you.

 

[newbiebear]

Thanx guys, think u'r right, shouldn't rush for sex just yet, going all the way down with the dinner plan though, but i'm going to try to know him better yet and maybe on another ocassion, something might happen

 

[travers]

Get him shit-faced drunk again, and then tie him up to the bed for some sweet-loving. Wait til he wakes up and gets sober though, so you can't be accused date-rape.

Take pictures!

 

[cloud101]

I'm actually going through a similar situation with my best friend of 7 or 8 years he is a total bear, and I have always had a thing for him, he's always tlking about girls and stuff but he has some gay tendencies and I feel like he probably likes me in that way I would do something if we had a couple of drinks together but I would let hime make the first move on me, and as far as ur situation I think that u guys should have a couple of drinks together at ur place or his and see what happens but don't push too hard on him.