Hey all...
I need advice. I'm currently in a 3 month relationship with a great guy. We met on manhunt as friends initially back in the summer. At the end of the summer, I asked him out and things just progressed from there. He's pretty quiet and doesn't talk about relationships much unless I ask questions. This is my first serious relationship and I am also a virgin to having anal sex. He knows I'm waiting for someone special and also knows he's that special guy.
Throughout our 3 months together, I have fallen deeply in love with him. I told him this the other day and his response to that was "I know." He says I love you to me, but I can't help but read into the "I know" response by thinking that perhaps he doesn't feel the same. Some things have changed since we met later in the summer. We used to make out a lot and rub up against each other. Now, we don't. I usually have to ask but it's late at night when I do and he tells me he's too tired to. Also, I can count on one hand the amount of times we've either jerked off together or had oral sex. On that one hand, there was only two times when he completed with me. He says he isn't horny. He's 22, I'm 23.
The one serious issue I have is that he's still on manhunt. My friends told me this and so I created an account again after deleting my original one. I see his profile says he's "looking for his night in shining armor" and lists his interests which include sexual interests. It seems like he logs on every day. I asked him about this and he told me he only checks messages. But, being paranoid, I think it's something else. I hope not... I've talked to his best friend and my bf is very trustworthy.
For the past two weeks, I've been recovering from mono so we haven't slept together or kissed. I miss that!! I'm starting to feel though that he isn't into it anymore. We rarely text... I always let him initiate it. I'm afraid that if I text him, he'll get annoyed. The reason for this is because he's mentioned to me that I'm needy by always wanting to hold hands while we drive. I don't think that's needy... I'm just trying to show affection. Also, he'll always stop responding to texts. Granted, when he stops, it's a text where I haven't asked a question.
So... I'm really confused, sad, and unsure of things. I miss being with him... I really wanted to express my love physically but he seems to be pushing me away. When I bring up sex, I'm embarrassed. He says that it will happen when it happens and I can't ask for it. The not making out bothers me though and he knows that.
Ugh...
Any ideas?
Thanks.
I need advice. I'm currently in a 3 month relationship with a great guy. We met on manhunt as friends initially back in the summer. At the end of the summer, I asked him out and things just progressed from there. He's pretty quiet and doesn't talk about relationships much unless I ask questions. This is my first serious relationship and I am also a virgin to having anal sex. He knows I'm waiting for someone special and also knows he's that special guy.
Throughout our 3 months together, I have fallen deeply in love with him. I told him this the other day and his response to that was "I know." He says I love you to me, but I can't help but read into the "I know" response by thinking that perhaps he doesn't feel the same. Some things have changed since we met later in the summer. We used to make out a lot and rub up against each other. Now, we don't. I usually have to ask but it's late at night when I do and he tells me he's too tired to. Also, I can count on one hand the amount of times we've either jerked off together or had oral sex. On that one hand, there was only two times when he completed with me. He says he isn't horny. He's 22, I'm 23.
The one serious issue I have is that he's still on manhunt. My friends told me this and so I created an account again after deleting my original one. I see his profile says he's "looking for his night in shining armor" and lists his interests which include sexual interests. It seems like he logs on every day. I asked him about this and he told me he only checks messages. But, being paranoid, I think it's something else. I hope not... I've talked to his best friend and my bf is very trustworthy.
For the past two weeks, I've been recovering from mono so we haven't slept together or kissed. I miss that!! I'm starting to feel though that he isn't into it anymore. We rarely text... I always let him initiate it. I'm afraid that if I text him, he'll get annoyed. The reason for this is because he's mentioned to me that I'm needy by always wanting to hold hands while we drive. I don't think that's needy... I'm just trying to show affection. Also, he'll always stop responding to texts. Granted, when he stops, it's a text where I haven't asked a question.
So... I'm really confused, sad, and unsure of things. I miss being with him... I really wanted to express my love physically but he seems to be pushing me away. When I bring up sex, I'm embarrassed. He says that it will happen when it happens and I can't ask for it. The not making out bothers me though and he knows that.
Ugh...
Any ideas?
Thanks.
