Help ????

[MartyO]

Ok so I know this Guy. We went to college with each other almost 2 years ago. He knew I was gay and was ok about it. For a while we thought we'd end up in the same place to go to Uni however that changed. He used to always say to me that he'd get me fucked and find guys to fuck my tight hole and be rough with me (which I like) this guy is straight by the way. He kept constantly saying that and saying stuff like we could get a house together and say stuff like me pulling girls for him and he'd pull guys for me and get me fucked all the time. We ended up not living together however did end up moving to the same city and ending up in the same university. We'd also talk maybe once a week to each other.

I recently sent him a Nude basically saying if he wanted my ass he could have it. He replied with WTF and was still replying when I quickly brushed it off and said it was for someone else.

Should I have done that?
Should I make a move and see what happens?

 

[inbed]

A friend and a friend with benefits are worlds apart. You need to decide if you need a friend. Benefits don't need to be sexual. Real friends are golden. If you've sent him a pic and got a WTF you have already made your move.

 

[MartyO]

A friend and a friend with benefits are worlds apart. You need to decide if you need a friend. Benefits don't need to be sexual. Real friends are golden. If you've sent him a pic and got a WTF you have already made your move.

Hi, thanks for replying but he's not a friend. Not once did I mention friend in that statement. If we were friends I wouldn't haven't sent a nude a jeopardised that.

 

[gayjohnd]

Hi, thanks for replying but he's not a friend. Not once did I mention friend in that statement. If we were friends I wouldn't haven't sent a nude a jeopardised that.

I assumed you were friends as well because of what you say to each other and planning on getting a house together.
How would you define the relationship between the two of you if you're not friends.

 

[MartyO]

I assumed you were friends as well because of what you say to each other and planning on getting a house together.
How would you define the relationship between the two of you if you're not friends.

I'd say we're acquaintances. Like we rarely speak now and last time I saw him was 6 months ago.

 

[gayjohnd]

I'd say we're acquaintances. Like we rarely speak now and last time I saw him was 6 months ago.

ok but sounds like you were once closer friends than what you are now, probably down to gradually loosing touch as time goes by which happens a lot. I have friends who I rarely see because they have family etc but we would still call each other friends.

Do you still live in the same city as him?
You need to meet up with him for a night out if you want something to happen

 

[MartyO]

ok but sounds like you were once closer friends than what you are now, probably down to gradually loosing touch as time goes by which happens a lot. I have friends who I rarely see because they have family etc but we would still call each other friends.

Do you still live in the same city as him?
You need to meet up with him for a night out if you want something to happen

We were never close. We were in the same class and we were a very close class all 12 off us. He would say things like that when the group got smaller or if he was drunk.

We do live in the same city. I met up with him on my 1st night in the city (last September) for a night out. I've spoke to him several times after that but haven't since about April

How do I approach it and say my ass is on offer for him?

 

[gayjohnd]

We were never close. We were in the same class and we were a very close class all 12 off us. He would say things like that when the group got smaller or if he was drunk.

We do live in the same city. I met up with him on my 1st night in the city (last September) for a night out. I've spoke to him several times after that but haven't since about April

How do I approach it and say my ass is on offer for him?

It's a tough one because he hasn't done or said anything to say that he's up for getting off with you.
Though in saying that, a friend and I started playing together by just putting on porn after a night out. Before that there was no indication that either of us wanted to do anything with the other.
My story is here so have a read at that
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/451952-You-and-your-mate?p=10397087&viewfull=1#post10397087

Another user wants to get off with his friend but it's different because his friend has done things that could lead to more. His friend put his semi hard dick in his hand, dry humping each other, his friend showed him his ass, they felt each others thighs and his friend asked to see his ass.
You can read that thread here http://www.justusboys.com/forum/thr...nds-house-after-a-night-out-and-this-happened

I would say the same thing. Get to see him more, go out drinking, go back to your place and suggest put on porn or anything to engineer a situation where something could happen if he wants it.

You have to be careful though. Because he hasn't done or said anything to suggest something could happen you could be chasing after somoene you can never have. You need to do all this as soon as possible so you can quickly know if you should move on to find someone who does want you.

 

[gayjohnd]

come to think on it, porn might not be an option for you. I just remembered he knows you're gay so he'll think it's weird if you suggested porn, unless he's really drunk. I'm not sure how you could do this now. Maybe talking about sex, like asking what turns him on or something.

 

[MartyO]

come to think on it, porn might not be an option for you. I just remembered he knows you're gay so he'll think it's weird if you suggested porn, unless he's really drunk. I'm not sure how you could do this now. Maybe talking about sex, like asking what turns him on or something.

I actually remember a time when I was out with his friends. It was my 1st night in the city (last September) I remember them asking me what am I. I was so scared that I said I was top then they started talking about it like it was a cool thing and loved the idea of me being a top

 

[gayjohnd]

I actually remember a time when I was out with his friends. It was my 1st night in the city (last September) I remember them asking me what am I. I was so scared that I said I was top then they started talking about it like it was a cool thing and loved the idea of me being a top

You might be able to engineer a situation by talking about things like that or talking about dick sizes that could lead to comparing and maybe more. You still need to get to go out with him more or have a drinking session at either of your houses and be on your own.

Have you ever experimented with friends before like in your teens? Somehow talking about that might help... or make up a story if you haven't done it before

 

[MartyO]

You might be able to engineer a situation by talking about things like that or talking about dick sizes that could lead to comparing and maybe more. You still need to get to go out with him more or have a drinking session at either of your houses and be on your own.

Have you ever experimented with friends before like in your teens? Somehow talking about that might help... or make up a story if you haven't done it before

I will organise it and see where it takes me