"Hey Lady, You Stink" (Need Advice)

[Cruiser7]

Need some advice here, folks.

A woman I recently began dating has an off-putting smell. So you know what I'm referring to, I don't mean like a dirty smell. I mean like either her perfume, shampoo, soap, lip gloss, whatever has a smell that I don't like. I have no idea what product she uses that causes this smell. It's a sickly sweet smell. It could be any number of products, makeup, hair products, etc. We have not gotten too intimate yet, so it's not a "feminine hygiene" product, at least I don't think.

Since I don't know what it is, it's hard for me to say, "I don't like the smell of your shampoo," or whatever the hell it is. I don't exactly want to say, "hey, you stink. What is that smell?" either, because that's just a little bit rude.

Any advice, guys?

 

[palemale]

Wait until after you have had sex with her. Then ask her what scent she is wearing, but with a quizzical look on your face. When she tells you what it is and asks if you like it, say, after a moment's hesitation, "I don't know." Then you can discuss it in a way that lets her know you aren't crazy about the smell, but doesn't make her feel bad. Just hope it isn't the only shampoo she found that a) doesn't make her hair frizzie, or b) give her dandruff, or c) make her hair come out in clumps.

 

[MisterMajestic]

Don't you dare say a word until you "get some"....If it's to the point where you don't think you could stand that "sweet" smell while making Love I suggest you take a shower together first...

 

[Brutally betrayed]

i had sex with a guy who is 100% my type hairy body and all tha but his body odor was like killing me...what should i do to make him realise this..i planing him to be my regular but that odor i cant take it.!

 

[MisterMajestic]

i had sex with a guy who is 100% my type hairy body and all tha but his body odor was like killing me...what should i do to make him realise this..i planing him to be my regular but that odor i cant take it.!

A few JUBERS in the "Fetish" forum would take your Fuck-Buddy and Fuck his brains out body-odor and all...


let me ask you a question....Is the Dude in his early 20's? The reason I ask is because the younger generation of Straight & Gay Dudes still have this "Lazy" mentality when it comes to proper hygiene. Yes, you can find people of all ages with the same "issue"....

I never understood the "mentality" of the typical Guy that has a body-odor or bad-breath...It's as if they don't care or they're so use to their own "funk" they don't realize how it affects others...People THINK because you're "Fuck buddies" you can be as blunt as you wanna be..."Just tell him he needs to bathe"....Well that's not always the case..You don't want to be Too Blunt because you could LOSE the Fuck Buddy...

Over the years I ran across a Few Men & Women with body-odor and I could not perform oral-sex on them. One Dude in particular was very Good-Looking and having his Dick in my Ass was like an unbelievable massage..Awesome..But he had bad breath...I couldnt kiss him and i LOVE kissing so our thing was short-lived...

I didnt tell any of them they "stank"....LOL...I just let their Ass go...But the BEST thing for you is to take a shower with him before you Fuck...Get each other good and soapy...


If that's too much "work" for you to do then you tell him you prefer that you both Shower BEFORE you meet up for your Fuck session...Offer your place for him to shower if he's out and about and doesnt have time to go home...


One thing I learned a long time ago is to tell people upfront your LIKES & DISLIKES...Especially Fuck-Buddies.....Before I go any further with anyone they know right off the bat that I believe in cleanliness and I'm looking for the same. Their first response is always "Well so am I".....

 

[funnshtuph]

whenever you're just close in general, "sniff around" if you will
find out what stinks and at some point let her take you shopping and if its her hair, (for example), comment on a nice smell when walking by the shampoo and say, "i need to know what this smell is!"
she'll get the idea that you really like whatever shampoo you choose and she'll replace what she currently uses
my most recent ex had the problem of bad breath. it wasn't usually terrible but when it was, she wouldn't fix it
once, we were making out, she started coughing, hacked up a giant lugie, and insisted we continue.
im a moderate germiphobe. that was not ok.

 

[nate78]

i had sex with a guy who is 100% my type hairy body and all tha but his body odor was like killing me...what should i do to make him realise this..i planing him to be my regular but that odor i cant take it.!

Tell him you think showering together with LOTS of soap is a total turn on.