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I'm new to the JUB community (this is my first post), but I stumbled across the site a while ago. I joined because I recently decided that I need to have a bi-experience to figure out whether I'm bi or just like looking at naked dudes! Any advice on how to go about this would be appreciated, and if you are wanting to see some pics or vids of mine they are on xtube under tetnus.
 
Welcome. I'm fairly new to anything outside of the heterosexual world so I can't offer much advice. I did make friends with people more like myself in terms of sexuality and lifestyle and they've taught me a lot. Gay clubs or places that cater to men who are openly bisexual/gay are a good place to start. It's where I met a lot of my gay AND straight friends. lol

You'll also meet a lot of hot guys and girls if you go to the right clubs and places. I know I visit Cedar Springs/Oaklawn area whenever I'm in Dallas. 4th st or the Warehouse district is a good place in Austin. Depending on your state there are a lot of places to meet people who could help you out. I mean other than here obviously. lol
 
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congratulations and enjoy

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Hey Tetnus,

Welcome to JUB. :wave:
Before I came out I was married and living the straight life. How I busted into the gay scene was to go to clubs. I went to gay clubs with a gay buddy I knew. If you don't know anybody thats "gay" see if you know someone that is comfortable going with you. (Open minded) I know someone already recommended this but I wanted to reinforce what he said. Its the best way cause your going to come across somebody that is into you and only wants to hookup. So you don't have to worry about being attached the next morning.

Good luck buddy. ..|
 
Thanks for the welcome guys! The thing is I think it's something I need to try before I go through the hassle of coming out as bi. I hope that didn't come out as shallow, but I'm really worried about how my family is going to react, and I don't want to go through with all that if I find out that...I don't know I just like looking at naked guys on the internet but I don't like being with them in real life. Does that make any sense? Am I looking at this the wrong way?
 
I'm not trying to dissuade you or anything, but even being with another guy may not be the quick answer you want. I was with a guy two years ago and I'm still confused.

But if you want to hook up, probably going to a gay club would be the best bet. I've never been to one, but if it works in straight clubs, I'd bet it works in gay clubs.
 
tetnus said:
Thanks for the welcome guys! The thing is I think it's something I need to try before I go through the hassle of coming out as bi. I hope that didn't come out as shallow, but I'm really worried about how my family is going to react, and I don't want to go through with all that if I find out that...I don't know I just like looking at naked guys on the internet but I don't like being with them in real life. Does that make any sense? Am I looking at this the wrong way?
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Makes perfect sense. Looking at guys online and standing in front of one with your cock out is two completely different worlds. If your "curious" you have GOT to hookup with a guy to experience it. It may take more then one experience to help you understand your sexuality. Think about past sexual experience's you've had. I'm sure you've had great sex and times when all you could think about is getting the fuck out! You can't base your sexuality on one time.
I think you need to relax and take it step by step. Go to a gay club. Solo or with a friend it doesn't matter. Find someone and hook up.
I know this method is kinda old, but when I was just like you. In my local paper (classifieds) I found a "free" hookup service. Sorta ran like a chat line. People listen to your greeting and leave you messages. I've had 2 hookups through that method. One was HOT and the other wasn't but the point is, I found myself and I realized that I was attracted to guys and am gay. Just a suggestion.
Good luck and keep us updated!..|
 
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