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His parents walked in

his parents saw you fucking each other?? Oh, my... this might be the worst that could happen~

How's it now?
 
That description was really hot, but in all honesty, this was not good. It's one thing for you to tell your parents you're gay (this is assuming he isn't feminine, which you've hinted he is well, not masculine), but to see their son being pounded from behind, yea, I don't see them being over this for a while. It would be best to have him avoid contact with them for at least a day or two, else face hell's fury.
 
Things like this are never pleasent. His parents are probably not going to accept his being gay, even if they never met you. At least he is 18 and they can't press charges! If i were your boyfriend, i doubt i would want to live at home anymore. That is if his parents even want him him in the house at all! I was lucky, my parents were cool, but your guy is going to need all the help he can get. If there is a way to contact him without his parents knowing, do it. Worst case scenario: they kick him out or he runs away. If that happens, and you are serious about him, let him move in with you. Even if it's a financial strain it's worth it. He will be free, and you can bone him as much as you want.
 
*sigh*... the totally unexpected shock and dissapointment to be thrust upon on a Sunday.. I mean the parents. Their worst nightmare came true.

What you guys should have done was nothing, no sex..especially when you know the parents gave you "the eye" and was suspicious about your relationship with them..and to be doing it right by the front door was just risking it way too much.

I'm assuming he did not came out to his parents and this was such a bad way to come out. This is going to be a really hard time for him. What you can do right now is to be there for him. Do not blame it on him and say "its your fault you want to fuck." or anything like that.

Istead, how about taking the blame for now so he'll feel better. Say you're sorry for fucking him..hehehe.

Start planning now about the future. If he can not longer stay at home where can he stay at. Tell him to try to forget about what happened and focus on something else. I know it is hard but as we all know, only time will help fix some problems.

Wait until everyone has cooled down, no more anger, no more dissapointments, to try to talk to his parents.

As for you, you can help him by giving him some time, be there for him but do not be a bother. Give him his own space and time to figure things out.

The next time before your lust and horniness takes over, consider the outcome and go somewhere else where the risk of being caught is lower.
 
I just love it.

As Freud said, there are no accidents. You two decided to have sex in his parents house while they went to church. They probably came back on purpose because they didn't trust you guys or forgot to turn the stove off.

Everyone got exactly what was deserved and probably what was needed. At least everything is now out in the open....quite literally.

He's an adult now and he'll have to behave like one. Maybe he'll get his parents back, maybe not. It is their problem now, not yours.
 
well

i'll name the elephant in the room....

don't have sex in a persons home that hasn't given expressed consent for it.

kind of late, i know but.....

seems to me your boyfriend is going to need alot from you that you may not have been prepared to give him just yet. It sounds like its time for you to step up to the plate and help fix the problem that you helped create.

give him a place to stay and go with him to try to speak to his parents.

theres a host of other things i want to say, but it seems to me that the well being of your BF shoudl take precendence over them.

good luck
 
Actually, the elephant in the room was that their son was gay.

They'll either get over it or they won't. It just sped things up a little.

He's 18, after all.

If he were under age, it would be a completely different story, of course.
 
Lube said:
Actually, the elephant in the room was that their son was gay.

They'll either get over it or they won't. It just sped things up a little.

He's 18, after all.

If he were under age, it would be a completely different story, of course.
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his ability to break that to them in a way that they could have accepted was superceded by the inability to respect the home of someone...

alot of guys are not out of the closet and while i dont really agree with that, it is irrelevant to the fact that this occured because someone elses house wasnt respected.

ehh

we are splitting hairs really... because the guy is now out of the closet .... OY id he out of the closet.... and his parents now have a visual aid seared in to their brains of that reality.

now the guy needs to take the kid in. I hope he respects his house more than he respected his parents house.

look... i am on the other side of this coin right now... my brother came out to me what six months ago? and ive been supporting him because my dad can't handle either of us being gay.

I DONT like the idea of my brother having sex in my house even when i'm not here.

and heres why....

I am responsible for his wellbeing and if it happens in my house i feel like i have to have an opinion on the person he is with.

If he acts like a grown up and goes someowhere else, its off my radar and its not my decision. but if its in my home, it is a reflection of me and my choices as well, and i dont LIKE being involved in other peoples sexiual and romantic choices.

so its about the house ;)
 
Was the door closed? I know it's their house and all, but if the door was closed and you were making all of that noise, then they should have had sense enough to knock on the fucking door (the kid is 18 afterall - has he no privacy?) which would have spared their eyes of having seen their son on all fours. It would have still been drama, but they didn't respect his privacy any more than you didn't respect their home.
 
OY! That's the only thing they are going to remember for a eternity, their boy being boofed by someone they don't like...
 
Andreus said:
look... i am on the other side of this coin right now... my brother came out to me what six months ago? and ive been supporting him because my dad can't handle either of us being gay.

I DONT like the idea of my brother having sex in my house even when i'm not here.

and heres why....

I am responsible for his wellbeing and if it happens in my house i feel like i have to have an opinion on the person he is with.

If he acts like a grown up and goes someowhere else, its off my radar and its not my decision. but if its in my home, it is a reflection of me and my choices as well, and i dont LIKE being involved in other peoples sexiual and romantic choices.

so its about the house ;)
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Oh, I was wondering where all this "respect the house" shit was coming from. :-)

I don't know the details of your brother or his age.

There is, however, a huge difference between someone underage and someone of age (whether your brother or this guy; doesn't matter).

If this guy truly is 18, the OP has no obligation whatsoever to take him in. None.

My parents threw out more than one of my siblings when they turned 18 (and it had nothing to do with being gay, as I'm the only gay in my immediate family). They were thrown out for good reason, and within a few years got their acts together. It's not a great way to start adulthood, but you grow up real quickly. ..|

I never understood the whole "you can't do x in my house" thing (again, unless you're underaged). Hell, I just visited the bf's mother's house (we're both in our forties for god's sake) and she wanted me to sleep in a separate room (his family is still not comfortable with his gayness, although--talk about the elephant in the room--there are clearly other gay people in his family who are in denial). I was very polite (she's a very generous and kind woman), but stood my ground and just quietly put my stuff in his room and said I'd rather sleep there. We didn't discuss it after that; I didn't make any drama out of it. I just went up to his room and we slept there (although out of deference to him, we did sleep in separate beds; although we did have some fun together before we went to sleep lol).

IHMO, you can give your brother advice about who to date or you can rescind your offer to let him stay there, but it's just plain bad to try to tell him who to sleep with.

Whom he sleeps with is a reflection on him, not you.

Again, this is assuming he's 18.
 
wow. thats all pretty massive. i cant even begin to guess what you guys are going through. hope everything turns out for the best.
 
operafan said:
Was the door closed? I know it's their house and all, but if the door was closed and you were making all of that noise, then they should have had sense enough to knock on the fucking door (the kid is 18 afterall - has he no privacy?) which would have spared their eyes of having seen their son on all fours. It would have still been drama, but they didn't respect his privacy any more than you didn't respect their home.
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Exactly. There's so much more going on here. How could the parents not have heard them having sex? How could the guys not have heard the parents coming in the house? (Sounds like great sex (!))

Doing it in the house, the son clearly had passive/aggressive thoughts at getting caught and/or getting back at his parents.

He's no innocent 12 year old or anything.

To clarify my previous post: The OP has no obligation to take the 18 yo in, but if the parents throw him out and he doesn't have the means to support himself, it certainly would be very mature of the OP to take him in. Based on his original post, however, that's not necessarily a given. ;)
 
well... lets let this be about the original post and his issues... i will save my answers about Mitri for another time....

look...

we are all responsible for each other as human beings and when we make choices that affect the life of another, we have become entwined in their experiences and their lives.

morality is what its about.... now i dont think that its imoral to have sex in someone elses home without their permission, but its disrespectfull.

BUT

if a friend of mine gets the heave ho from his home, especially for being gay, I would consider it immoral for me to not offer him a place to be at least in the short term until he can figure out where he needs to be

and THAT is because i WAS homeless at sixteen because i was gay.

we are human beings with basic needs first and we need to get over this whole attitude of "it aint my problem"

the state of human misery is my affair as a human and when a friend or BF is having problems, i need to step up to the plate or not burden them with my false friendship and false love.

its easy to SAY you care... its much harder to put your actions where your mouth is.

if the kid was good enough to get the back door bang, then he certainly is good enough to couch serf for a week or two until things settle out.

goodness
 
I'm going to assume this story is made up and file it under "Hot".
 
Andreus said:
and THAT is because i WAS homeless at sixteen because i was gay.
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Like I said, it's a different ball of wax if he were underage.

And my second post, posted while you were composing yours, mentioned the difference between obligation and humanity. So I agree with you there. :wave:
 
Hard-up1 said:
The most damning detail in the account is the father's use of bitch in reference to another man. Straight Midwestern men simply don't use that word to refer to other men, gay or straight, and certainly never use it in a serious slur. He might have said homo, faggot, queer, piece of shit, or any number of other hateful things, but he would never have said bitch.
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I have to agree. I just can't see the man (as the OP described him) using that word.

:rolleyes:
 
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