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You've got your work cut out for you here my dear.
First off, this isn't going to be easy for you or him. I can understand him for his fears of body image and stuff. Sounds to me like he's been hurt badly by somebody in his past.
Now, Second thing is are you willing to sacrifice time to make this work out? Most gay guys would tell you to drop him and move on. But I get this feeling that maybe you might be slowly falling in love with him. That's good!
But...it going to require a lot of sacrifices on your part. Time being the most important one. But I think you know that this guy is worth it. (assuming he is)
Okay. If your ready then you need to be there for him. Don't confront him about it or say stuff like dude it's okay. Just be there for him. Prove to him that he's worth it in your actions, gestures and time.
Basically charm the bugger!
Make him feel comfortable. Make him feel that you love him dearly. It's going to take awhile but it will work out if he wants it too.
Basically I know kind of what he's feeling. I had an incident in my past relationship where I was just abused and it was a really horrible break up. I carry a dark mark in my heart because of it. I don't trust people. I sure as hell don't trust people that say nice things about me cause i get the feeling that they just saying that to use me for something.
I know my problem. Sounds like he has the same emotional status (except its about his penis size). So basically you gotta earn his trust and prove to him that you see him for who his is and that your not going to just fuck him and then dump him cause of his penis size.
First off, this isn't going to be easy for you or him. I can understand him for his fears of body image and stuff. Sounds to me like he's been hurt badly by somebody in his past.
Now, Second thing is are you willing to sacrifice time to make this work out? Most gay guys would tell you to drop him and move on. But I get this feeling that maybe you might be slowly falling in love with him. That's good!
But...it going to require a lot of sacrifices on your part. Time being the most important one. But I think you know that this guy is worth it. (assuming he is)Okay. If your ready then you need to be there for him. Don't confront him about it or say stuff like dude it's okay. Just be there for him. Prove to him that he's worth it in your actions, gestures and time.
Basically charm the bugger!
Make him feel comfortable. Make him feel that you love him dearly. It's going to take awhile but it will work out if he wants it too. Basically I know kind of what he's feeling. I had an incident in my past relationship where I was just abused and it was a really horrible break up. I carry a dark mark in my heart because of it. I don't trust people. I sure as hell don't trust people that say nice things about me cause i get the feeling that they just saying that to use me for something.
I know my problem. Sounds like he has the same emotional status (except its about his penis size). So basically you gotta earn his trust and prove to him that you see him for who his is and that your not going to just fuck him and then dump him cause of his penis size.