Hot HOT Locker Room Encounter!!!

[ladygrey]

So I went to work out tonight at the university gym. And I did my thing, some cardio and some yoga. I almost tried to do somethings in the weight room, but I can't simply deal with the whole "macho" cutlure that so often happens. Also, I'd rather work my whole body through yoga than isolate one part of my body.

Anyway, when I'm in the weight room, I see this gorgoues blonde boy with green eyes and short hair. He was ripped and very sexy. But I wasn't digging the scene, so I went and did more yoga.

Later, as I was getting my stuff from the locker room. I noticed the locker beside me was open and clothes were strewn around. Whatever, I contitued gathering my stuff and changing. As I was finishing, the beatutiful blonde boy came walking up beside me in a towel. He dropped the towel and starting changing right in front of me...


And I thought, "Oh my god, I should look". But honestly, I didn't want to. It didn't feel right to objectiveify him that way. So I grabbed my things, and walked out......I did see some of him from the corner of my eye and yah, it was beautiful.

But it wasn't sexual at all. And I didn't want to make it sexual. He was simply changing like me........going on with his day....

and I thought, well, I guess I'm not the gay man I claim to be....


but then, I thought............well, maybe I'm just an honorable gay man.

And that's a good thing.

 

[ladygrey]

^
OMFG!

Of course not! I'm so sexual repressed that you could film pornos in my living room and I'd totally block out all memory of it. I'd wonder about the lube stains and the random condom in my centerpiece.......but....

yah, no nudie pics

 

[MadeUpName27]

Lady G -
Please buy a camera phone...

 

[ladygrey]

^
Or maybe we just had our lockers beside each other.....or maybe he was drawn to my headstand.......lol

I have a camara phone-but, I feel no need to entertain my fellow internet companions with my body in a superfical way

lol
that's what Truckin Aaron is for....

 

[ladygrey]

I think it was an intmate moment, not a sexual one. And looking would have made it sexual.

Which would have taken away from the intmacy...

And in my world, human intimacy......that act of particpating in simple and private life with another living soul.......is far more important than a quick thrill.

 

[confusedboy23]

Ahhh.....eye candy!

 

[blooeyz]

it wasn't an intimate moment
he was changing in the locker room, that's all

 

[ladygrey]

Oh I'm not saying sex is evil........but, perhaps.....

not always needed....?

I don't know

As for the fact that he may have been simply changing in a locker room, that's kinda of my point: he was just doing something that he does everyday, but that people rarely get to see.....

and as for him trying to make a connection,

I wouldn't have a clue if someone was trying to "connect" to me...lol

And for soilwork,

I've told him many a time: My house is always open for young, naked frat boys.



I just won't be able to look at anyone the whole time.

 

[dmb7603]

I would have looked.. why pass up such a great sight

 

[rotary]

The fact that he dropped his towel right in front of you was a sign that he didn't mind you looking at his body.

I'll have to disagree. When I'm changing, I don't cover up, even if someone is right beside me. It's not an invitation for them to look, I simply want to get dressed and leave.

 

[ladygrey]

^
exactly.

And yah, all the "you should have looked comments" are missing the mark

I mean,

it's a body for goddess sakes. A collection of muscle, organs, bones, and fluids. I see them everyday. What I don't get to see is someone changing, moving through the motions of everyday life. Maybe those of you with partners can appreciate what it means to share everyday things with others. It's intmate. Much in the same way my roommates and me know things about each other that other people, no matter how much they know us, don't see.

But Rotary,
I hope you don't end up in a gym next to me.....cause then I wouldn't be able to control myself....even with you being a liberal.

 

[ladygrey]

lol
no conflict
my spirituality and my sexuality are very much intertwined

just not in a "hands on" kind of way

 

[rotary]

But Rotary,
I hope you don't end up in a gym next to me.....cause then I wouldn't be able to control myself....even with you being a liberal.

Me too!!!

Thanks, you guys are cute.

That liberal comment though- watch it buddy!

I didn't say he "invited" you to look, I just said he didn't mind if you looked or didn't care.

Okay, but I wouldn't go around assuming all guys who drop their towels are alright with other men checking them out. There are homophobes out there.

 

[FMRob]

I'm afraid to say I'd have looked too. When I change in the locker room, I don't mind if others look -- I don't have anything to hide and I'm not ashamed.

 

[mnaoitb]

i have had my share, haha, once a guy asked me out in front of a bunch of other guys and my crush. i couldnt even turn around to look at the guys, so he left, darn haha. but my crush,he was beautiful, 5'10", blond swimmers build, and blue eyed, he used to use a small face towel to cover his hips, it was tiny and once i caught him staring at me while i was towlling off, but i could never bring myself ot say anything. one of my regrets...but now i am in uni and it is teeming with beautiful guys and girls

 

[slobone]

I'm told there's a way to look without being obvious about it. I've never figured out how to do it, so I just look.

What's the worst that can happen? He thinks, This guy is gay. But Blanche, I am gay!

 

[ladygrey]

lol

awesome comments^

I'm totaly NEVER EVER getting in a locker room with anyone of you, save rotary and evlin.

lol

 

[Corny]

i wonder .. do you have public, non-gay saunas over there? when reading posts like that, it almost feels special that guys in locker rooms are nude and don't care
there are huge public saunas here were people of all genders and ages run around naked and nobody cares ..

 

[herenthere]

Can I touch? If I promise no to look?

 

[Riverrick]

Ladygrey, imagine that there are 2 parts of you. One is totally turned on and mesmerized with beautiful male bodies and wants to get its fill of these. Its insatiable, lusting, hungry and is always on the lookout. Its not good or bad. It just is.

The other part of you is watching over your self-image, your presentation to other people, your morals and standards. Its concerned with the outcome of your actions and can be fairly judgemental of you at times. Its not good or bad either.

Now imagine that to feel healthy and happy, both parts of you need to be taken care of. Not one more than the other. But a balance, a compromise.

One way of doing this is to negotiate with yourself what may be ok for you to do in the locker room situation. Talk back and forth between the two you's. Listen to both sides. And try to give each side something.

Right now what I am hearing is that the thinking, moral part of you is pretty much getting his way all of the time. And the hungry animal part of you frequently gets short changed.

How about a compromise, for instance, where you can glance at beautiful naked male bodies in the locker room briefly and later talk about them and describe them to anyone who will listen, and what you felt when you saw them? In this way, you are not acting immorally by having sexual activity in an arena you disprove of but also you are getting to relieve yourself of some of the stress of your libido and pent up desires. The very fact that you started this thread says to me that your hungry, horny side is crying out for some attention. Good luck!