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How are you holding up and What is different now compared to before?

Rickrock

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I am lucky and am doing okay, but there have been some experiences that I would not be having if not for this pandemic.

Yesterday I bought some oatmeal raisin cookies in a solid plastic container that was more or less sealed. I left it in the garage overnight hoping that any germs on the package would die. I did worry that some critter would get it even though it was sealed and we haven't had any critters in our garage in decades. Today I brought it inside and decided to wash it with soap and water before putting it away. When we opened it the cookies were mushy because the package must not have been airtight and water got into it.

Friday I went to the bank and my checking balance was higher than I had figured. I was expecting my income tax refund and my stimulus payment and didn't know which one I had received and couldn't figure out which one it was because I didn't know which checks hadn't cleared yet, and I also had an arithmetic error. Today I received my monthly bank statement and it was my stimulus check I had received and I found the error as well. Have you received your stimulus check yet?

I have been getting my quarterly statements in the mail for my retirement funds, invested in stocks and bonds, with the starting figure for January 1 and the ending figure for March 31st. I have lost 13.7% in the first quarter. Fortunately, I don't need most of this money now and expect it to recover, at least some, when this is all over.

Last fall I made a regular check-up appointment with my doctor for later this week. Last week I called the doctor's office and asked if I should cancel it. His assistant said no and asked if I had a smart phone. I do not. She said that he would call me at the appointment time and conduct the appointment over the phone.

Early this month the Cleveland International Film Festival was scheduled. I have been going to see some of the films for years. Obviously it was cancelled. Now they are streaming some of the movies. I don't have a regular streaming service and figured I couldn't see them, but it now looks like I might be able to get some of them streamed to my laptop, if I can figure out how to do that. I am technically backward. They are charging only $8.00 per film instead of the $14-$16 it would have cost at the theater.

I do wear a homemade mask whenever I go to the store now which makes it a little hard to breath, but still manageable.

I am lucky that none of these are major problems. How are you doing at this time?
 
I've done more dishes in the last month than I have in the last decade...
 
The governor's shelter in place order has saved lives but serves as a demonstration of what a world without mobility would look like. I have the ability to work from home but the world's economy depends on people in motion. All the people who can't work from home - what will happen to them?
 
Well i've made it through another night.

I'm keeping away from big stores as they still have long lines outside them, sadly the nearest emptiest shop near me only really serves ready meals and i'm well sick of them.
 
Nothing's changed at all tbh, still the same life.
 
I have had to change my shopping habits and I miss going to a coffee shop. Apart from that I am cycling more and not using public transport so very little has changed
 
I have found a bunch of things to do. Everything from organizing my tools and shed to rearranging a bookcase. Today I will put up 3 ceiling fans. I also changed all of the oil in my lawn equipment, I am hoping that the governor of our state gves the go ahead for lawn services to operate soon.
 
My partner and I live pretty much the same as before out in the country. We used to go into the city about once a week for shopping...still do, although every week is anew adventure in the stores.

Our office is closed partially with us all working from home, but going into the office on rotation so only one of us is there in order to deal with stuff we can't do at home.

But it has been great for catching up with gardening and other chores at home.

And cleaning the house.

And napping.
 
Only minor inconveniences hardly worth mentioning;

Just before the shutdown/scare, I purchased 4 new snazzy big low-profile tires for my SUV. I normally mount them myself, at home, but I am not doing anything that might cause a trip to a medical facility, and I don't want to have careless service people contaminating my vehicle inside and out. The new tires will just have to wait. :( ;)

There are also a few home improvement projects that could possibly cause me physical damage that will have to wait, as well.

Then, there are some people who find themselves with newfound time to pester me with phone calls and texts. I'm that entertaining, you see. :)
 
Oh, what the hell, one more very shallow concern;

Over the winter, I stocked up on new summer clothes that, now, may never be seen by anyone but myself. :( ;)
 
Oh, what the hell, one more very shallow concern;

Over the winter, I stocked up on new summer clothes that, now, may never be seen by anyone but myself. :( ;)

You can model them here.


The one thing I am finding about working partly from the home office is that I am easily distracted and that I have lost a huge amount of my incentive to keep working period.

I have had a ton of retirement savings wiped out that will likely never be recovered...so I now look back on 35 years of work and think 'What the fuck was that all for'...but I am no longer either as interested or hungry as in 2008 to stay motivated.

And yet, even this week, I have been drawn into a project related to COVID that presents great and interesting challenges....so it has me doing research in many different fields and connecting with various experts ....which is stimulating.
 
Essentially no change for me.
I still make my three regular stops and come home.
The main thing that IS different is it's something that's always in the back of the mind so there's that.
 
I've been fortunate so far. Going to the grocery store with everyone wearing masks and trying to keep their "social distance" has been strange. When I go to the bank, pharmacy, etc., I like to chitchat with the people inside. I can't do that now. It sucks not being able to go to a restaurant, theatre, concert, or a business that sells "non-essential" items. I've probably saved myself some money by not making unnecessary purchases, and driving less has saved me some cash at the gas pumps. Since the sports world has ground to a halt, my tv viewing has changed.

I'm lucky I have an "essential" job to go to, and that the most important people in my life are very close by. The changes I've had to make have been mere inconveniences, but who knows where we'll be a month from now.
 
You can model them here.


The one thing I am finding about working partly from the home office is that I am easily distracted and that I have lost a huge amount of my incentive to keep working period.

I have had a ton of retirement savings wiped out that will likely never be recovered...so I now look back on 35 years of work and think 'What the fuck was that all for'...but I am no longer either as interested or hungry as in 2008 to stay motivated.

And yet, even this week, I have been drawn into a project related to COVID that presents great and interesting challenges....so it has me doing research in many different fields and connecting with various experts ....which is stimulating.

Hey Rareboy your stocks will recover in a few years - as long as you don't have to sell. In the meantime dividends will be paid. Stay positive - stocks rise and fall as sure as day turns to night but day comes back. The trick is to have enough cash, so you don't have to sell in a pinch, at a loss. Am sure you already know this already, so stay positive and don't think about these things too much
 
Today I was thinking how this time makes me realize who is important to me and who isn't. The quantity and quality of my interactions with different people tell a lot about our relationship.
 
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In some ways, my life isn't much different. This surprises me and doesn't surprise me, given my mood. It also saddens me at times, since it makes me see the problems/limits of my life. :cry:

I think the biggest change is not going to the library, which I did probably 2+ times a week. (It's conveniently located, and it makes a good place to stop when I need to kill a bit of time.) So my supply of reading material is cut off (although I've got books of my own). My supply of DVDs is also cut off.

My social life hasn't changed in the least. I had none before, and I still have none. :cry:
 
Lockdown is tough!

I have a holiday home on the coast. And at present I am not allowed to travel there. Who knows whether I will get there this year. That is the big difference I have.
 
I really am having a difficult time with this seclusion. Too much time alone and I start to question everything about my life. I'm currently thinking what a waste I am. I hope it's not true, but I just can't shake it. I miss my guy terribly. I am so used to going there, or him coming here when ever we like. Or just hop a plane to where ever, when ever. I feel trapped in a cage. I need people contact.
 
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