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How can i tell if my friend is gay?

sickamore

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So i just met a really cool dude on saturday, we exchanged numbers ( this was at a club ) the way we met was more of a friend friend bases, and i dont think he knows im gay, but now im stuck, do i tell him from the beginning when i call him or do i just kick it with him and keep it hushhush and maybe in the future tell him, i mean he might also be gay but i dough it, hmmm what do i do?
thanks:cool:
 
Just be yourself, if he is a true friend it shouldn't matter. Plus if he is cute and turns out to like you for you and you kiss, then that is a good thing.
 
sickamore said:
So i just met a really cool dude on saturday, we exchanged numbers ( this was at a club ) the way we met was more of a friend friend bases, and i dont think he knows im gay, but now im stuck, do i tell him from the beginning when i call him or do i just kick it with him and keep it hushhush and maybe in the future tell him, i mean he might also be gay but i dough it, hmmm what do i do?
thanks:cool:
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Be yourself. Why should you tell him? Is he going to blurt out his sexual orientation? Do straight people feel the need to announce their heterosexuality?
 
Just be yourself with this guy and see where the friendship goes. Relax and see where it goes. Good Luck.
 
Maybe hang out with him and while out and about, when you see a hot guy or something like that, ask him what he thinks about him. But do it in a non-chalant way, don't be obvious. If he says something that implies he thinks the guy is also hot, work up a conversation about it.
 
sickamore said:
How can i tell if my friend is gay?
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Ask him.

Thank you, drive through.
 
I guess what I am gonna say kind of goes along with what everyone else has said.

First of all, I don't know any of my straight male friends that have exchanged numbers with another guy at a club, I don't know the situation you were in, but thats a good sign for you.

Second, for me, I never just go into telling someone I am gay. If they ask me, or ask me if I think a certain someone is a attractive, I will tell them I am gay, and I have never had anyone completely ostracize me for it, I guess I act a lot gayer than I would like to think and people kind of pick up on it.

Lastly, like everyone else has said, just be yourself. If hes not gay, maybe you will make a good friend out of the deal. If he is, you may get something more. The most important thing I can think to say is don't lie, and be yourself.

sorry for kind of repeating some of the previous posts, but I just wanted to have a say :P
 
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