how can you tell?

[snake2236]

ok, im probably reading into this WAY to much, but my sisters freind who lives with us is 16. Her new boyfreind is 21. And he is hatefully hot. like, double take hot. And heres another thing. everytime he comes round he comes straight up to me and says every single time "hey good looking." we were chatting earlier on and he said he had to go soon but didnt want to leave without seeing my pretty smile as he worded it. now am i being a prat and hoping that what he is saying is what i want to hear. or could he be curious??

 

[ejbonk]

ok, im probably reading into this WAY to much, but my sisters freind who lives with us is 16. Her new boyfreind is 21. And he is hatefully hot. like, double take hot. And heres another thing. everytime he comes round he comes straight up to me and says every single time "hey good looking." we were chatting earlier on and he said he had to go soon but didnt want to leave without seeing my pretty smile as he worded it. now am i being a prat and hoping that what he is saying is what i want to hear. or could he be curious??

Interesting situation you have here.

1. Is he a 21+ yr old jerk acting silly,or jealous of you?

2. Is he acting,this way because of something said to him about you and having a laugh at your expense?

3. Does He wants you as his future wing man to score on other women,behind her back?

4. Is He trying to out you,because of something said to him about you?

5. Is He Bisexual and has the hotts for you?

I say,Let him come on to you,do not go after him. Play it cool,and keep your hand hidden.
People today are harder to read than in my day.

 

[Toddxxx]

Ignore him. Sounds like a jerk. He may suspect that you are gay, or gay-curious, and is leading you on to set you up.

 

[Frafilippolippi]

This situation sounds messy, I'd leave it alone. Easier said than done tho'...

 

[Eternaldarkness]

hehehe, he's only playing around. I don't even think he's even serious about anything more.

Don't be too tensed about it and don't keep your hopes up. Just play along, if you think he's playing but don't show any signs. He's probably testing you to see if you're gay or not. For what purpose, who knows..but don't think too much on that now.

With that type of personality, if he wants you, he'll know how to get you.

 

[snake2236]

thanks for the advise so far guys, i saw him again today. i was just about to leave for work and i was dressed in all black. he looked at me up and down and wolf howled. what the hell is that about? so basically he was checkin me out he even said wow look at you!

 

[ejbonk]

thanks for the advise so far guys, i saw him again today. i was just about to leave for work and i was dressed in all black. he looked at me up and down and wolf howled. what the hell is that about? so basically he was checkin me out he even said wow look at you!

Your reading to much in to his actions. Just commenting on your appearence is just being polite,the wolf howel was a bit much . However ,He's young,poss. does not act his age,thus explains dating your sisters 16yr old friend.

ignore him.

 

[brian1052000]

I don't think you are reading to much into his actions. I do think he could be playing, but with guys these days you can't be to sure. I would playfully flirt back. Like when he says or does something like the stuff you mentioned, do some stuff back. Playfully.

 

[screwnutty]

Great advice from the guys above but I don't know what to say. If your interested in him...you could just ask him out for coffee and just talk about things....common things that you guys share. If he is interested in you then when he feels comfortable with you...he might just tell you how you feel. Who knows.

As for signs that you should look for....afraid there really is none. If a gay guy or curious or bi guy wants to be with you or just try things out, he just come out and say so. But he going to have to feel comfortable with you first...which judging by the way he acts isn't going to be a problem.

Bare in mind though that he is still young. Could just be immature. I know a few guys from the place that I work at that are 18 to 22 and act gay to get girls. They said it's the in thing to do these days.

What a world huh!