How do I get this guy??

[DonSade]

Take up his invitation to the club and see what happens over there. I think while dancing, body language is a great way to get a sense of whether he's interested in you or not. Anything can happen. Give it a shot! Since he's been so proactive about you two being around each other, I think he'd have no problem telling you he's interested at some point.

 

[nautiboyjeff]

Ask him over to watch tv or a movie. Just the two of you. Let "nature" take it's course.

 

[G-Lexington]

He's done all this stuff.
What have you done?

Lex

 

[mars1013]

Definitely take on a more active role. It would actually be kind of cute if you invited him to your "cruddy little dorm"--and he may just turn that around and invite you to his apartment anyway.

 

[Eagle653]

He's definitely interested. Act interested too. Accept the invitation to the gay club and see what happens. If all goes well, then you invite him to do something--like dinner or a party or something.

Good luck--I hope this is the beginning of something good.

 

[youngnihilist]

I also vote for "he's interested"
Now show him you are!

 

[spencer]

call him and ask him to do something (something that you thought of beforehand) have a time and day ready and back up places. If he says no without asking for a raincheck, it's not a good sign.

oh and don't bore him on the phone (especially if he's not a talker) chat a bit, ask him to hang out and get off the phone pretty quickly.

 

[TX-Beau]

No guts, no glory. Do something.

 

[CudDULL]

I think theres potential to move the relationship further. I mean you guys get along really well and I don't think it would hurt to try and become closer.

 

[TX-Beau]

Why on earth would you invite more people?

For god's sake man, why are you still worried? You asked him out, he said yes.

Confidence, confidence is extremely hot. You want him, he wants you, so go with that thought.

 

[KaraBulut]

Oh, stop all this.

You're young. Enjoy your life and stop trying to second guess everything.

There are times when you're better off living in the moment. This would be one of them.

Now, go... you have dinner and a movie that you have to get ready for.

 

[DonSade]

Ask youself the following: if he somehow rejects you, what exactly are you losing?

With the info you've given us, I'd say: nothing.

You have more to gain than to lose anyway. It's a pretty profitable risk you're taking lol.

 

[nautiboyjeff]

Mike J - I totally laughed, when I read you wanted to invite more people. Let us know how it goes and STOP BEING SO NERVOUS.

 

[spunk-junky]

Hi Mike J-
Your post makes me giggle. It reminds me of what it was like to start dating, with all its nervous excitement. I agree with all these guys, this dude is clearly interested in you, so stop worrying about that--and I am sure he assumes that the dinner and movie is with you only. Definitely keep it that way. Watching a movie together at home tends to lead to other fun activities, so that was a great suggestion. I don't remember ever having actually finished a movie with a date Relax, be yourself and have fun!

 

[mydrew1]

Ask him out next time you see him. Don't take your time like I and others have.