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How do I seduce my co-worker?

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So, here is the deal... I work with a guy, "jeff," who is gay. He is a very cool guy, and I get along with him very well. What I want is to simply have sex with him. The catch is that I am straight...... I know some of you will say I am obiviously not straight, but I know I am. I am just really sexually attracted to men. Never emotionally, always sexually. I guess you could say I am bi, whatever. Also, I have a girlfriend who he kind of knows, but not really. The whole point of this thread is that I need your help, guys!!!

I really want to have sex with him. I don't know anything about picking up another guy. Should I just straight out ask him? I want to keep all of this on the dl as well, but how do I do all this? Also, I am sure I have a good shot at bagging him ;)

He really is a kick ass guy. Please help me!
 
young-punk said:
What I want is to simply have sex with him. The catch is that I am straight...... I know some of you will say I am obiviously not straight, but I know I am. I am just really sexually attracted to men. Never emotionally, always sexually.
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Oh, being gay is just an emotional thing. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation. . .? I learn something new here everyday.
 
Well Punk.

With the approach you're taking to all this, why don't you just tell him you're straight, but want to have sex.

From what I read, it would be the perfect fantasy come true for about half the posters on the board.

He may also look at you like you are from Uranus and decide that everything about this hook-up would be wrong on 1000 different levels and just laugh in your face.

Or he might be suspicious and report you for harassment.

Good luck.
 
1) Every day, when you wake up, say out loud ten times: "I am a bi-sexual. I want to have sex with other men."

2) Ask your girlfriend how she would feel about you having sex with your co-worker.

3) What rareboy said.
 
Since you're straight and want to have gay sex, maybe this gay guy wants to have straight sex with your girlfriend? Unless of course she's a lesbian. Perhaps you could mix and match? Maybe you could do the deed at work, say, on the receptionist's desk?
 
LIFE is Too short to build up regrets of "What If?" You KNOW the Dude is into Guys! You KNOW that You would like to be 0ne one of those Guys! To put it quite bluntly ... if You don't make a "Move" ... if You don't let Him "know" ... and let Him make His own "Choice" ... You're going to Regret it for the rest of Your LIFE! :slap:

Is this "Fair" to Your GF? Absolutely NOT! But ... is it something that You have to find out? Absolutely!!!" :hurray:(!w!) (For both Him, and Her!)

:goodluck on this one!! pride:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
Is this "Fair" to Your GF? Absolutely NOT! But ... is it something that You have to find out? Absolutely!!!"
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I agree it is not only unfair to the GF, it is simply repugnant if you cheat on her.

I disagree that it is absolutely something you have to find out.

Some things you may regret for the rest of your life. Not banging a coworker just to get off isn't.
 
young-punk said:
The catch is that I am straight...... I know some of you will say I am obiviously not straight, but I know I am. I am just really sexually attracted to men.
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There's just so much wrong with that statement, I don't know where to begin. :confused:
 
You just put on your best moves on this dude and see, what his reaction may be.

You must have heard the 'I've got this new movie at home. Wanna stop by and have some pizza and beer sometime?' or anything along these lines.

You said, this other dude was gay. You did not say, he was dense. He'll catch the drift...

Nope, I do not think that the gay dude is really going to make a job-related issue out of it. He has got a stake in it, too.

On the other hand, just like anyone else, he may choose 'to kiss and tell'. You should know that this potential shag 'on the side' does come with some inherent risks.

So, you make your call.

SC
 
Mate,

Regardless of who you sleep with - guys or girls, do you really want to cheat on your girlfriend? Has she done anything to deserve that hurt - especially when she finds out that its with a guy?

YP - you;re better than this. Being curious is great. Learning about who you are so you can understand who you are is great... and in any other circumstance I would be saying take the chance.

But not now. Your timing is off. Respect your gf, your relationship... and most of all yourself. You are taking a chance on trying something that you dont want to accept because youre struggling to say that you might be bi (which is ok!), so chances are this has the potential to blow up in your face at this point in your journey of discovery.

Look, just ask yourself. Would you be happy if she cheated on you? You know how much that would hurt... and you're better than to cause that sort of pain.
 
tallguy297 said:
Mate,

Regardless of who you sleep with - guys or girls, do you really want to cheat on your girlfriend? Has she done anything to deserve that hurt - especially when she finds out that its with a guy?

YP - you;re better than this. Being curious is great. Learning about who you are so you can understand who you are is great... and in any other circumstance I would be saying take the chance.

But not now. Your timing is off. Respect your gf, your relationship... and most of all yourself. You are taking a chance on trying something that you dont want to accept because youre struggling to say that you might be bi (which is ok!), so chances are this has the potential to blow up in your face at this point in your journey of discovery.

Look, just ask yourself. Would you be happy if she cheated on you? You know how much that would hurt... and you're better than to cause that sort of pain.
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I sincerely appreciate your very sage-like advice, and will most likely take it. I thank you very much.

Also, I admit that I know very little about gay culture so I apologize to those few I might have offended with parts of my post.

But, if my co-worker ever puts the moves on me, I just might bite:sex::cool:
 
Hmmm... Drop the girlfreind?

Well, this comes down to YP's ability to be honest with those he cares about as well as himself.

If you were the boyfriend and you found out your guy was about to cheat on you with a girl, how would you feel?

Respect for others and yourself is the key to making any relationship last.
 
cut that guy some slack. honestly how many people doesn't cheat on their boyfriends or girlfriends. we can only give advice, whether he takes it, or not he'll have to deal with the consequences.
as for the co-worker, if u wanna seduce him, you've got to make the first move.
start by a little arms on his shoulders or punching his chest, then slowly after a while rubbing his shoulders or caressing his arms, maybe u can have enough courage to proceed to the thighs. Men are very sexual being, with all these little hints im sure he'll get it, and go nuts over you - the straight guy.
That being said, u need to think whether is that guy hot enough for u to want to cheat on your gf. if he's just an average i'd say forget it.
 
honestly how many people doesn't cheat on their boyfriends or girlfriends.
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A lot of people doesn't.

Only horrible little shits does.
 
DaveyDoes said:
There's an old saying...

"Don't dip your pen in the company ink"

Relationships with co-workers is a very bad idea. Especially if it's just for sex. Most companies even have rules about it. Best case, you bed him and then you both feel weird the rest of the time. Worst case, it happens and then the drama starts and someone ends up quitting or getting fired. The drama potential will increase since you're on the "dl"
and apparently would want to keep this all a secret.

My advice, it's too much trouble for a few minutes of fun.
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I have never known of a work-place relationship working.

One of my colleagues (colleague A) had a fling with another colleague (Colleague B) and colleague A thought it would last forever but Colleague B just wanted some fun. We all knew what was going on although they did try to be descrete about it but when Colleague B broke it off Colleague A moped about for weeks and weeks and it started to bring us all down.

So, my advice is the same as DaveyDoes...DON'T DO IT
 
Young-Punk, I think you need to heed the advice of Rareboy, DaveyDoes, and most of all Tallguy297. How would you gf felt if you did cheat on her while she is under the premise that you are fully faithful to her? Put yourself in her shoes, but on this fling, LET IT GO. Messing with coworkers are a recipe for disaster.
 
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