How do you get over a straight coworker?

[bigdick101]

So, I'm gay. I work in a law firm as a legal clerk. Our law clerk intern is a tall, bearded 26 y/o who's kinda beefy with a nice butt. He's a talker and talks to everyone but lately I thought he might have been kinda interested in me in particular. He made a sex joke to me that he "always comes last" and jokingly referred to me as "the sunshine of the office." So I waited a few weeks before I took the next step and texted him and told him that I thought he was cute and smart and I wasn't sure if he was into guys but I was interested in asking him out if he was.

He replied back that he "appreciated the compliment but wasn't into guys, sorry."

Obviously I'm crushed but I understand. But now I have to see him in the office again on Monday. And I'm hoping it isn't weird. I mean I've fantasized about this guy. Truthfully, I mostly want to suck him off and I even thought of offering him some NSA no recip head cuz I figure a law student is always stressed and needs some relief right?? But I didn't want to press the issue.

So how do I move on from picturing him naked and thinking about his dick?

Signed,

Depressed in Delaware

 

[Newmercedes]

Wow... You were so BRAVE. I would never do that even thou I like my guys very much.

 

[USEDCAR]

You are def brave i would never do something like that.

A few years ago I used to work with this guy and he would flirt with me non stop. The eye contract and flirting. I once put my arm around his waist and we just stood there for a few seconds. He would find excuses to come to my area or in the break room when i was in there he would get upset if i didn't pay him any attention. He would stand at the computer and stick his ass out so i could see. I would touch his arms and he would flex. I once asked him what his deal was because he was giving me clues the guy put his head down and said i don't know. I tried to hang out with him he would make excuses so i just stopped entertaining him and kept it short and professional he stopped flirting and eventually quit.

I would just keep it short and professional with him. Slowly distance your self from him stop texting him and looking through his social media. If he starts flirting and stuff just ignore it and keep it moving.

 

[MusicMan321]

I would never do something like that but you are brave to do such a thing. Maybe the two of you could be just friends and see what happens down the road

 

[Fluidity79]

Office liasons are generally a bad idea anyway. Keep it friendly but strictly professional from here on out. As others have said, your boldness is admirable, though! See about applying it in other situations you're in where you might see a guy you're attracted to: at the grocery store, the laundromat, the library, etc.

 

[bigdick101]

Thanks everyone for the kind words. It’s definitely the boldest I’ve been in the workplace. Seems my gaydar doesn’t work real well lol ugh