how do you give a good blowjob?

[RationalLunacy]

And for Christ's sake, don't ask "Are you going to cum soon?"

 

[handyman22]

Something I do which is usually appreciated and relaxing. As you're starting get between his thighs and roll ur head over so ur hair is lightly brushing his inner thighs and balls, then breath hotly on his balls, even lift his thighs. That's when you know he's relaxed.

Also as ur sucking breathe so that ur throat is relaxed. Eventually you will be able to take it long and deep and swallow, massaging his cockhead.

Relax and enjoy

 

[BrandonSBCA]

And for Christ's sake, don't ask "Are you going to cum soon?"

I remember him saying that to me.

 

[collegemo]

Agreed BenF46..... I've moved this back to hot topics as it seems more appropriate in that forum as it isn't really health. But it does seem like he wants some legit answers so lets be courteous even though it's not in a no flame zone. Thanks.

Thanks Jockboy. I wasn't really sure where to post it, because as you said I do want legitimate answers. What exactly is a no flame zone?

 

[collegemo]

My advice is, don't rush it.

Take it slow - torture him ... Sure, if you've got a mouth like a hoover and your head is like an F1's piston, then he'll get off ... But to make it good, I think that altering the dynamic of it makes it better.

I find that if you start of slow and teasingly, then build it up, then back off, slow it down, before building up again, he'll take longer to come (which might be a problem for you, but hey - giving head generally is a one-way pleasure unless you're 69ing.) but when he does come, he'll come harder from being brought to the edge, and not allowed to jump over.

Also - don't be afraid to ask what they like - make it sound like dirty talk if you feel awkward saying things like "So. do you like a lot of suction or a little? how about depth?" and sounding like a McDonalds employee - A nip on the earlobe and a "so how do you want it? you want me to suck you hard and fast, or slow and make you beg for it?" will go a long way ... I made the mistake once of taking a guys bravado literally - him saying he liked it kinky and how hot dominance/submission and restraint is, and how he thinks biting is awesome to everyone he came across (pardon the pun) ... It ended in tragedy. I ended up applying a slight amount of teeth (no more than a light graze) and had him flinch so hard he fell over, on top of me, pulling out as he fell, and slammed my head into a wall and put my back out of place... So yes. Asking is better than not asking.

Another piece of advice, not just for head but for sex in general, listen to, watch, and feel him ... If his cock gets harder when you press your tongue against his slit, then do it whenever you're up that end. If you deepthroat him and hum at the same time (this works better if you have a deep voice) and he starts moaning, then you're definately onto something. But if you notice that his face constricts (like he's in pain) in response to something you've done, avoid doing it again.

Also - don't be afraid to let your hands wander ... If you've slowed the tempo right down, then feeling your hands slide up his calves, behind his knees, up his thighs and over his butt will feel like absolute heaven ... But remember - don't lose focus on the main event - a hand on his bum or a tweaked nipple might make it better for him, but it wont make him come.

And be a little creative, especially in tesing. One thing that used to get my ex going CRAZY, was completely ignoring his cock, whilst paying attention to the areas around it. Dragging a fingernail across his collarbone, down to circle a nipple, back down the middle of his stomach, around his navel, over a hip (detouring near his cock of course,) and down an inner thigh, draws all of his attention to that single point of contact, so close yet so far to where he wants you to be, without letting him get the contact on his erection.

And you can't forget the tried-and-tested classic of the playful occasional swipes of the tongue.

My last piece of advice is, giving head is an essentialy selfless act. You spend an hour on your knees, simply to make HIM feel good ... So don't get distracted by your own needs ... There's nothing more frustrating that getting head from a guy who's more interested in kneeling there, cock-in-mouth and unmoving and jacking off at the speed of light, than sucking you. And remember, if you give him mind-blowingly body-numbingly incredible head, he will definately want to return the favor.

My ... uh ... I'd say 2cents, but that's more like my $3.25.

-Laz.

THANKS VISCOUNT. Those are some good answers. I'm good at it, and I really enjoy doing it, I just haven't had that much practice. hehe. I like to get creative as well, and its such an awesome thing to be able to give that to someone.

 

[Kulindahr]

Note: not every guy likes a finger up his ass; some want a blow job to be just a blow job.

And sometimes it's nice to have a signal for when he's getting close to cumming, so you can deep throat him and take it there, or whatever else you or he might like.

 

[Kulindahr]

Elvin, I saw something in that qutoe that I'd kinda missed before:

There's nothing more frustrating that getting head from a guy who's more interested in kneeling there, cock-in-mouth and unmoving and jacking off at the speed of light, than sucking you.

I don't get beating off while sucking a guy. It's the sucking that's fun! Why spoil it by doing something else at the same time???

 

[thewiz]

I've been told I give a pretty good blowjob....

1. Don't pretend you are the Hoover vacuum. I've been with guys who sucked so hard that it hurt. Go slow, suck but not extremely hard. Let the saliva build up in your mouth to make natural lube for your lips. Still better, let it run down the shaft and then use one of your hands to gently stroke with your mouth action.

2. As was said earlier, use your tongue as you move your mouth on the head and shaft; especially right under the head and up to the slit. If the guy is not circumcised, run your tonge around the head as you pull the foreskin back; it drives them wild.

3. Use one of your hands to externally rub the prostate. I had a very good teacher drive me off the bed with a great prostate massage and he never slipped a finger inside.

4. Flick your tonge and suck just to the right or left of the dick in the groin area. You can test this out but many guys (me included) are really driven wild when someone hits the spot.

5. The taint (taint your asshole and taint your balls) area is a great place to lick, suck, and stimulate.

6. Start by gently sucking and licking the balls. I had one guy do the Hoover job there as well and it hurt so damn much I lost my erection. Some like it rough; see what reaction you get by starting slow and gentle and if he wants more; increase.

Hope these tips help!