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how do you guys get over your crushes on straight men?

Drunk dialing friends and telling them you love them is very different from drunk dialing your boss and telling him you're in love with him.
 
Kind of just have to get over it and cherish what you have... doesn't mean you can't have your own personal mental fantasies involving him, though. haha
 
I don't have any advice for "getting over" crushed. I just kind of live with them. Eventually they either just go away, or deepen into friendship. The times when they don't go away, we just maintain a friendship with the occasional weird sexual tension.
So nobody else just got drunk and told them over the phone? Damn, just me.

Got really tanked one night and called my boss at home, told him I loved him and that if he ever left his girlfriend to be with me, I wouldn't mind. Geez, he never ever stopped laughing at me after that. Worst part is, he put me on speaker phone and his girlfriend heard the whole thing (including me calling her a bratz doll wannabe lol)

Anyways, I used to kinda fall for stright guys, but then I realized that what it was that "attracted" me to them, was a need I had for actual man-friends, in the friend sense. I used to only be mates with girls, and it's nice to just be mates with a guy where there is nothign sexual involved. Just to do boy stuff with lol.

I think that was the root of the straight guy crushes I had. Although, the st8 guys I'm friends with are all kinda cute and love to tease me with flirting lol
No, but I had that conversation once when I was sober, face to face.
I didn't tell him I loved him, just that I wanted to have sex with him. He didn't laugh at me (and even thanked me for the compliments to his attractiveness), and we remain friends.
 
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