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How do you know one guy is not straight?

KingofFaeries

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well you can't be in love if you don't even know the guy, so your infatuated with him or in other words you got a crush.

Have you tried flirting with him, I dunno if the dropping something on the floor and seeing if they get it for you works on men hmm I need to try that sometime. Let's see then you can say hey you wanna go get a bite to eat. Or just ask him if he's not busy wanna take a walk.

Yea I'm not too good at this either, but I read ALOT!!!!! so I'm just given suggestions, dunno if they work in real life or not.
 
take a camera next time, and ask him if you can take his picture for a scrap book or project or something. If he asks why, tell him you like to take pictures of beautiful people. If he allows you to. This opens a door of communication. You can ask him when his lunch break is, and ask him if he minds if you join him. Try to catch him unposed as that usually makes the best pictures (though I'd steer clear of taking pictures of him while he is taking a bite to eat though maybe if he's having some kind of noodles that he has to suck in cuz that would be a funny picture) Then you can offer to drop off some prints once you get the film developed (or if a digital camera after you print them) this gives you a second window if he approves.

Two fool proof reasons to visit him at work, without having to spend money, and you get to maybe become friends or more with him.

Still even if allows you to take pictures but doesn't want you to join him for lunch or whatever, you've got pics of this adonis :D
 
fear is natural. But it is something we must all get over at some point. I found that to alleviate my fears was to go into chat rooms, and make some internet buddies. Then when I felt I had gotten to know the person well (I'm blunt when I'm online and even sometimes in real life so I get to know ALOT about a person) I will meet them, and in the past it's always ended up just fooling around and then going back to talking to them online. However I've had a couple actually dates from chat rooms.

If it helps, just tell yourself before you walk into the shop, that you are putting together a collage of memories (because you think you may be moving) and you want to capture the essence of (enter place here), rehearse that in your head as you walk in, and then say it to him. Blush and do then I'm though this terribly forward of me thing, and then use the line. And in most cases people will allow you to take a picture.

p.s. if that's you in your avatar, you have nothing to be shy about you are beautiful. And even if you're ugly as sin (which somehow I doubt you are) you have a very wonderful personality and if you can get past your fears, but keep the shyness (oxymoron I know but hey it works) then that shyness will be very endering.
 
myloveisnicky,

I think initiating conversations with him and sitting down to coffee in a neutral setting makes more sense. It would be beneficial to find out if he is non-heterosexual so you can begin knowing even more.
 
dream, though, crush, all are nothing without action. Quickly resolve it. One day, You will not see him again. One day, your heart will break. The bigger the crack, the longer the time. Or, you'll never see him.
 
dude, make a comment to him about his job like "you always are here when i come to this store, don't you ever get tired of this place? this is inoffensive and a good way to get a feel of how he reacts to you. after a few more visits he will remember you and the chat will be easier. you can slowly build up a preferred customer status and then it's a short hop to making friends. even before you embarrass yourself by asking him out, you will probably gather bits of info about him such as his personal committments etc. it's not that hard and you will never have to put yourself at much risk
 
I know that store.. right next to the HMV.

I know the guy, too.

Yes, he's gay.

and one HELL of a kisser.
 
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