How far do you go on the first date?

[Beachguyj]

answer poll or discuss

 

[G-Lexington]

I've done everything from parting ways after a handshake to not parting ways at all (spending most of the night with my dick in him). It totally depends on the person, and how we click.

Lex

 

[Beachguyj]

All the way, baby. I didn't get this "WHORE" tramp stamp for nothing.

Me too. The first date usually comes after sex.

I was watching that Kim Kardashian show and she wouldn't let that really cute guy kiss her on the mouth,.

 

[G-Lexington]

Maybe his credit card was declined.

Lex

 

[Scottyboi]

Depends how well the date went and if I liked the person or not

'making out and groping' seemed about mid range for me though if I like 'em though

 

[gingentleman]

I agree that it totally depends on how the date was, what chemistry exists, my mood of the moment and how into him i am.
Generally it is a handshake or lite kiss, but i have been known to get naked and fuck like there's no tomorrow!

 

[alley]

'bout 10 miles...any further isn't worth while.

 

[12fear99]

Just depends how things go and if we are having a great time. If we both want more then I will go for it and had some fun.

 

[SonOfSlobone]

What's a date?

 

[altlover85]

'bout 10 miles...any further isn't worth while.

Cute.

Personally I don't do anal on a first date. I might change that in the future (if I'm ever single again) but for now that's what I'm comfortable with.

I think it's up to chemistry. If you both feel comfortable why not?

 

[HunterM]

'bout 10 miles...any further isn't worth while.

I'm always ready to go all the way if the chemistry is right. If the chemistry is off, I'm running toward the door...screaming in horror

 

[blackbeltninja]

While I have had several hook-ups and one-nighters which have gone quite far quite quickly, all my proper first dates have always been remarkably chaste - peck on the cheek stuff, if that.

-d-

 

[HunterM]

second-third date -- making out, fooling around (oral/hand), sleeping over
third-fourth date -- sex

Hmm... you sounded like Bill Clinton. Oral is not sex

 

[altlover85]

no way.

sex = penetration.

oral is just oral. lol. two totally different intimacy levels.

And yet they call it oral sex.

 

[Beachguyj]

And yet they call it oral sex.

Because the term "mouth fucking" is too crass.

 

[Beachguyj]

no way.

sex = penetration.

oral is just oral. lol. two totally different intimacy levels.

So lesbians can't have sex without devices?

 

[Mr-Pickles]

Depends on the person.

 

[altlover85]

Because the term "mouth fucking is too crass".

Haha! I love that!

 

[Seasoned]

no way.

sex = penetration.

oral is just oral. lol. two totally different intimacy levels.

What is now called hooking up used to be called tricking in the 70s and 80s. I tricked until I met my partner. Everything was on the table.

I will never understand the above. I know I'm in the minority but to me nothing is more intimate than oral. I'm mean it's an open eyed acknowlegement of desire to taste, smell, see, feel and hear a dick and a mouth in action. For god's sake it's all 5 senses.

But what is sex certainly brings up controversy. To me it's feeling aroused.

I also don't get protecting that hole like a woman might do with her vagina so as to not to get a reputation or pregnant. Being gay we already have the reputation and we're men so no hymen involved to prove we were virgins on our wedding night.

If a gay guy penetrates but does not get penetrated is he having sex? I think we are way to hung up on a hetero model and I think the heteros are too hung up on biblical, medieval and medical models.

 

[BrownBoi89]

None of the above.

I've only had one first date and we ended it with a hug. We like made out on the second though lol.