How has straight dudes react when they know/suspect u have a crush on them?

[wonderwort]

How have straight men reacted when they know or suspect that you have a crush on them?



My answer to that is different levels of uncomfortableness with me.

Some dudes are more uncomfortable with it than others. But they've all been uncomfortable.

How about u?

 

[Telstra]

if they are really straight,
they should reacted like "oh thank you, and friendly chat"

 

[BlondeCanadian]

The one guy who i drunkenly let knew i had a crush on was okay with it... he just said thank and was flattered

 

[Orlandude]

They were OK with it but clearly uncomfortable. A lot of straight guys think that if a gay guy thinks he's hot then there is something wrong with him (the straight guy) and it makes them angry. They somehow feel it an insult because they think you are really saying "you look gay" and they don't like that Others don't seem bothered by it at all.

 

[MatttheBruinsfan]

I've only been in that situation once. He was a little uncomfortable with it at first, (perhaps being aware of what a horndog he himself was, and knowing what kind of thoughts that meant I was having about him), but was also flattered by the attention and eventually relaxed and got comfortable with it since I wasn't making passes at him all the time or anything.

 

[apsco17]

They were OK with it but clearly uncomfortable. A lot of straight guys think that if a gay guy thinks he's hot then there is something wrong with him (the straight guy) and it makes them angry. They somehow feel it an insult because they think you are really saying "you look gay" and they don't like that Others don't seem bothered by it at all.

youre so thrue. This is exactly what i understood from them.

 

[cabsterman]

if they are really straight,
they should reacted like "oh thank you, and friendly chat"

Pretty much this is what should happen. Agree.

 

[willsboy84]

The guy I coined my screenname from was okay with it. Actually, I couldn't be 100% SURE he knew I was crushing, but in a conversation about something--no comeon or anything like that, he let me know that he had absolutely no problem with dudes who like dudes, but it just wasn't his thang. Never acted uncomfortable around me, but I kinda had it bad, so it was a situation for minute, lol.

Btw, for a visual on the guy, he was almost the splitting image of pornstar J-Mac. So much so, that after a few years of not seeing him, and I came across my 1st J-Mac vid...I was SURE it was him, until J spoke.

 

[evanrick]

how do they react? they want to get drunk around me.

 

[omg2022]

My straight crush is such a DILF but I've gotten over him. Well kind of! He was never uncomfortable around me but he does flirt back which is kinda weird but id be lying if I said I didn't like it . He's married and has a kid so I'd never touch him or initiate anything but he makes it so hard not to.

 

[yodderone]

Mine was really cool about it. He said that's cool and never really said anything or acted like he was mad or grossed out. He did joke around whenever we'd be at the gym together or camping or something. Whenever we'd have to change or get naked for showers or whatever he'd say "now don't you go falling in love with all this" (pointing to his body) only thing was, it was too late I already was! He was really cool and thankfully it hasn't ended the friendship. He's even jokingly filled my spank bank by flashing me or making sure he tells me when he's going to go change or take a shower. I'd never do anything with him because I don't think he's into it but I will steal all the glances at his tight little butt and long cock I can get. He's caught me staring and laughed at me. I always say, so what, if a naked woman was standing here you wouldn't look?! He's cool about it and I'd take a bullet for him so it's not lust, it's appreciation and friendly love...even though my friend gives me a big ole boner!

 

[Yves Grey]

how do they react? they want to get drunk around me.

 

[bw92116]

I love that term "spank bank."

 

[willsboy84]

I find that you get worse reactions from str8 guys who assume, that you want them. Also notice that it's the guys with the absolute least to worry about, as far as gay guys secretly wanting to jump 'em.

 

[JordyM56]

Can't say it was too positive. I'm still friends with the person, but the friendship is not the same as it used to be. If we didn't have any mutual friends, we'd probably never bother to see and/or talk to each other again.