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How have straight guys reacted to U having a crush on them?

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Straight dudes ranks as my ultimate fantasy.

I had many many crushes on straight dudes. Some of the straight dudes I had

crushes on KNEW that have crushes on them. Here are some of the reactions I've

had to straight dudes knowing I have crushes on them.

1) Digust

2)Amusement

3) Ego boost

4) Odd.

How about you?
 
Definitely "odd" for me, I've only done this with one guy. We are still friends, but it's not the same as it used to be.
 
I had the biggest crush on my college roommate during my soph year of college. After that year, he transferred to a different school, but we stayed friends. He still looks as good today as he did then. But, with time, the crush went away. A couple years ago, about 12 years after we had been roomies, I decided to tell him. All I said was "You knew, right?". He replied, "It was hard not to, you stared at me ALL the time. I was never going to bring it up as long as you didn't." He then let let me know he was flattered, but doesn't swing that way.
 
I've only had crushes on 3 straight guys in my life. The first was back in middle school and I never saw him again once I moved away so that's a non-issue. The second was a really good friend of mine who was flattered and amused but nothing changed in regards to our relationship moving forward and I quickly got over that crush.

The last one was a bit more odd. Even though it was 13 years ago or so, we sporadically keep in contact to this day. He's now engaged to an awesome girl and I was never completely sure he was 100% straight but the way he came at me back then always kinda left me wondering. I know there was an unspoken attraction. I had just come out and the best I could get out of him was that he'd recently begun considering "trying out" bisexuality (back then) because he couldn't find a good woman to settle down with (note, there was never any mention of sex or physicality). We kissed a couple of times in those days, always initiated by him but that was the extent of our physical contact.

He tried to get me to come out with them a few days ago to a drag show (his fiancee likes gay clubs and loves drag shows). Mind you, I hadn't seen him in about 8 years at that point and I oddly enough don't like gay clubs/bars. His texts were odd...he kept reiterating that he misses me, "I love ya" was laden through all of his sentences as was references to my ass with some non-sexual adjective in front of it. Needless to say, I was left scratching my head at all that. No, I didn't go out with them. It would've been cool to hang out with them in a neutral setting but that just felt like a set up that I wasn't about to walk into.
 
While drinking the truth serum one night, I let it out to my straight friend that I wanted to be with him. He wasn't upset initially, but eventually as time went by he would become very upset at me for small reasons, and snap at me about the things I would say. Those days were horrible for me because I would be left feeling like I was the worst peson in the world, and I almost gave up on being his friend. But I felt there was a need to save this friendship. It got to the point where I had to ask another friend for advice on how to correct my mistake. I was advised to apologize to him and never mention it again, but trying to talk to him was not an option, so I left him a voicemail. It kind of worked, but it would take a few years for him to calm down and not act like an asshole to me for any reason. He finally did apologize for being a dick and said to me I was a better friend to him than he was to me. I was touched by that. Things are better now and our friendship has never been stronger. I think he may have been flattered by it all in the end. He just didn't know how to act about the crush. Maybe he liked the idea of messing around with me? I don't know.
 
Closest for me, as a pretty-much straight dude, was when i had just moved to madison, and was at the nearest bar to my apt. Some dude bought me a drink and asked what i was into. I laughed, and told him i wasnt really into dudes, and sorry. I was totally flattered, and it was a huge ego boost for me, but got a little irritated with me. He asked, "why are you in a gay bar, then?" I was like, huh? He said, "did you not see the neon upsidedown triangle in the window?" And again, i went huh? He laughed it off then, and thats how i learned the signs outside the bars in madison acually mean stuff.
 
When I was convinced I was straight, it would have freaked me out beyond belief and ruined the friendship. Don't know if that is typical of guys deeply in denial.

When I was starting to admit my curiosity about guys, it would have boosted my ego.

When I was starting to be sure of my orientation but not acting on it, it would have made my day.

As a gay guy, would it bother you for a woman to have a crush on you? As in you knowing she was thinking about getting in your pants and rolling in the sack together? Philosophically, I'm not sure that's any different.
 
NCDogGuy said:
As a gay guy, would it bother you for a woman to have a crush on you? As in you knowing she was thinking about getting in your pants and rolling in the sack together? Philosophically, I'm not sure that's any different.
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Nah, I get more attention from females than guys anyway (not that I want it). I just politely tell them I'm not interested and go on about my business. I've never had an issue with losing a friendship over it. /shrug
 
So basically what I am seeing is that it doesn't work out in the end to tell a friend you have a crush on him??

Ive had a crush on a good friend for a few months now and its driving me insane! I want to tell him, maybe just to get in the open so I can move on, but I don't want the negative fall out.

Anyone else got examples of when they've done this? Help me out!!
 
I done this ONCE! + it didn't go as planned he basically patted me on the shoulder + said "that's why you need to find yourself a girlfriend."
 
I never really had a big crush on anybody who was unattainable. However I have had a few a straight guys ask me what I think of their looks when they find out I'm bi, and if I tell them they are good looking, they either get a huge ego boost and freak out like I have just admitted having a major crush on them when in reality I have just rated them objectively.
 
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