How many times should I masturbate?

[BlueLantern]

I once posted here, about how I possibly I was friggid, because I had hard time to few pleasure when someone else touched, I could do it myself to masturbate... however lately, I has been problem with that too... I not sure if is because I am insecure or something. I masturbate everyday, I not sure if I am addicted, because when a travel I don't masturbate at all and can be just fine. Should I just stop it? or what?

 

[Centexfarmer]

I myself go through the phases where I have masturbate several times a day, and then go for days without doing it at all.

I usually have a difficult allowing someone else to get me to climax until I'm comfortable with them. This usually involves my masturbating in their presence, and letting them finish getting me off. After that, then I usually don't have a problem.

I've found that a lot of has to do with how stressed out I am, and or how rested I am.

I don't think that you have anything to worry about.

 

[KentuckyPython]

Unless your on the verge of being fired because you're spanking the monkey too much, you're fine.

 

[Theyoungman]

You don't need to masturbate...

 

[OutofEden]

Sounds pretty normal. It's easier when you're relaxed and not worried. It's hard to trust someone enough to really enjoy what they're doing at first, especially when you aren't as experienced. Like centexfarmer, I'm pretty cyclical (Cycles!) and will have some weeks where it's three to five times a day, some weeks when I don't masturbate at all, and most weeks somewhere between the two. Still, it's nowhere near as often as when I was 18, but it's probably a lot more than it will be at 40, I'll leave that to the more wizened members to dispute and disprove (and I'll help!!)

 

[mattyboi_aus]

I'm 19 and I masturbate everyday. Often multiple times.

 

[hermanding]

When you get the feeling of wanting to jack off, that's the perfect time to do it, if you can. As many times as you get that feeling is the number of times you should try to satisfy yourself - if it's possible in the social situation you're in. You would not damage any part of your anatomy by doing it, and it's as healthy as can be - physically, emotionally, psychological. ENJOY it.
As for the suggestion that it probably lessens by age 40 - that's true to a degree, I'm sure. As a mid to late teen, I remember I did it multiple times a day - i always wanted to do it. Now, at 65 going on 8 years old, I still do it every day if possible - and have the added blessing of having a compañero in my life as well.
ding

 

[rsvon888]

I masturbate when I need to, no more no less. Of course, finding this forum would surely increase my frequency.

 

[thei06]

I masturbate when I need to, no more no less. Of course, finding this forum would surely increase my frequency.

agreed
from 5 to 20 times per week

 

[DaisyClover]

Years ago, I heard that if you masturbate frequently, you can grow too accustomed to your particular "style" and therefore have trouble climaxing when having sex with another person. That sounds like an urban legend, but I have found it to be somewhat true. I guess it's like anything that pleases the senses. Once you adapt to a certain set of pleasures, new or different ones require getting used to.

 

[Absolut]

I do it when I'm horny, which is quite often!

 

[3nipples]

In general, when you're not good at something, you should try to do it more and not less...

 

[spreadeagle]

You should allow yourself to masturbate 37 times during 2007 - after the 37th that's it for the year. How quickly you use them up is up to you.

 

[rsvon888]

Uhm, why 37? That's good for like three weeks!

 

[TopThruster]

As you may know, a man has only a limited number of jerks in his life. The exact number has not been determined, so be cautious. This may be your last jerk-off.



However, a man has unlimited jerks if someone else is jerking him off--or blowing him off.

 

[ludolfo]

i 'became' possessed by god of lust...you think i'm kidding. i actually had an OBE in 1980 that showed me, but it took me years to fugure it out it was so --such a multidimensional experience. ok i wil, share it quickly with you tho its VERY personal. but i am feeling very close to this community of late

i had gone to bed, and was VERy VERy tired. i was wroking at a factory then and was extremely stressed out by life. so i am dead weight. i get up to go to the toilet. when i get there i cant piss. when i return to bed on either side of me is a man and woman who are kneeling by my sleeping body!!!!

shocked they both turn and telephatcially tell me not to worry

they then both get up from the bed and guide me down the stairs. the feeling of walking is...glidy'

i see front door open so i leave them and go outside. the morning is like dawn, but just before sun has risen. a deep intense blue. i breathe in, but then reenter house

i go to the room that has a wall mirror, and look at my reflection. i seem odd. kind of bloated looking. like i'm under water

i then go into the otyher room, and sat where the telly is is my mam, and on couch a friend of hers who used to live with us when i as growin up

imagining they too is out of the body i go to greet mam andSUDDENLY like a friggin snake, she is going down on me!!!!!

and this aint no polite gobble. oh know this is the most disgusting primal reptillian gobble EVER. and as i look down at this frantic gobble and truly obscene sounds i see her mouth and my dick like some kind of trippy Tbe-vortex. at this point i am in utter terror and i scream baging here on he back and screaming for the other woman, 'barbara' for help. barbara's face is JUST off scene. just sits ther. when i feel i'm gonna die from fright both stand up, take off the faces i know and underneath look like satyrs with curly horns!!!!!!!!!

i do a Uturn, fly up the stiars, find room and dive into my sleeping body

this experienc has had an amazing impact on my life, and its meanings are profound. but one which actualized was i became addivcted to wankin. and the FOCUS was the TV, and i was using wanking and dope smoking in a self destructive way. ie., rather than top meself i was doing mammoth FIERCE wanking sessions EVERy fukin night for years, and i mean years. so much seo it made me really ill. i HAD to. CREAVED that dyin orgasm.

so that experience was a KIND of timelss vision. a signifier/warning so to speak. but even now i dont want to pin it down...shit lifes strange!!

dont judge. i am just sharing