How should I go about sucking my first dick?

[mark08]

Hey, been having curious thoughts lately and I'd like to act upon them eventually. I'm straight (fine call me bi/gay, I'm not getting into that debate again) and have only been with women so far, but I'd like to change things up.

I guess that just like some girls I've been with who were curious about eating out a girl, I'd like to see what it's like too. So how should I go safely about this? I'd obviously use protection, but I'd like advise from other people. Where to find the guy, etc. Also can sucking be degrading to a certain extent, etc.? I'm a typical ''jock'' / macho guy, so this is way out of my comfort zone.

Thanks for the help in advance, take care.

 

[Krakenbwool]

Hey, been having curious thoughts lately and I'd like to act upon them eventually. I'm straight (fine call me bi/gay, I'm not getting into that debate again) and have only been with women so far, but I'd like to change things up.

I guess that just like some girls I've been with who were curious about eating out a girl, I'd like to see what it's like too. So how should I go safely about this? I'd obviously use protection, but I'd like advise from other people. Where to find the guy, etc. Also can sucking be degrading to a certain extent, etc.? I'm a typical ''jock'' / macho guy, so this is way out of my comfort zone.

Thanks for the help in advance, take care.

Actions are only degrading if you make it so. Some people think that sucking means you're submissive, but it's my personal opinion that the one who sucks is actually in control. I mean, if the penis is in your mouth, it's up to you on which way the experience goes.

 

[panda29]

Open your mouth and insert cock & have fun!!
Do to him what you like to have done to you & you will do just fine .

 

[palemale]

Lips around head of cock, lower lips to base of penis taking it completely in your mouth, raise lips to head of cock again while keeping them pressed against the shaft of the penis while keeping teeth off the penis. Repeat.

 

[Bi Married Male]

A lot of straight type guys go to adult bookstores for a blowjob. As far as safety, Most guys would be dead by now if for the last 30 years giving blow jobs would kill a person.....They would be dropping like flies if a blowjob was that deadly, however odds are that a married man with a wedding ring on his finger may be slightly less promiscious. Most likely he doesn't have the time to suck and fuck everything in sight. He has a responsibility to his job, wife and kids so he has less time on his hands. This type of guy typically needs to be accountable for his time with those people. So when he has a free moment and nobody knows, he may show up at an adult bookstore. That is the safest guy to follow. When he goes into a movie booth, try his door handle to see if it is locked. If it is not he It is Ok for you to open it and go in. Once inside no need for shame. Get on your knees and feel him up or take it out for him. Choosing this type of guy might make you sleep better at night than if you choose the openly homeless dishoveled drug addict type of guy or the obviously flaming fun guy...The flaming fun guy might be safe too, but he obviously really enjoys his sexuality and more than likely has been with far more men the the married guy, both orally and anally.....Who knows who his choices in men were..(not to say the married guy didn't have the fun guy blow him)....Whom ever you choose just think about it before you drop to your knees. This doesn't mean I am right, but it is another way to think about it.

 

[bankside]

First of all, there's nothing degrading about adding to your sexual skill. You're just increasing the list of what you know how to do well in bed, and that makes you a better catch for whoever you wind up with, male or female.

And you also get a free pass on the straight thing. You even get to try it & you can still be straight. If you like it enough to go back for more, then welcome to the bi world. And if you spend the next five years with a dick in your mouth while you're "still deciding," then we're going to make fun of you. LOL.

How to make it happen? Think of what you enjoy about a blowjob and try to work that into your technique. Also you may be able to picture the perfect blow job for what you like, but you'd be surprised how different each guy is from the next. Grip strength, suction, speed, location of sensitive areas to work over with your tongue, play with balls/balls out of bounds...all of that is different from guy to guy. Even size and what you can physically do with it.

My guy goes wild when i tongue the slit at the end of his dick but when he does that to me it feels a bit blank. And I like it when he grips my balls, but he needs to let me get into it first. Him you can just grab right away.

So start with what you know about your own dick but be prepared to vary it until you figure out what he likes.

What to look for?
Someone who is easygoing enough to say yes,
but with enough self discipline to say no,
and enough balls to get tested.

I have known some guys who could not say no to anything any guy had to offer because they just didn't have any self control, or low self esteem or whatever, and often those are the guys who wind up sick. Also, the gay world makes a lot of noise about getting tested because that's the way it rolled out in the 80's. But a lot of straight guys don't get tested enough for what they can pick up from women, so get it done first.

I am 100% certain that a gay guy like me would be a safer bet than some stranger in a porn bookstore. A wedding ring does not stop disease. A condom does. Even better is getting to know the guy for a bit so you know what he's like. If you don't want a relationship, I recommend a friend with benefits way more than a random hook-up. Sex doesn't always have to be about lifelong romance, but it would be nice if you at least knew the guy so you could have a bit of fun but also not fuck each other over.

If I were single and I had a straight friend who just wanted to fool around I'd be into that. I'm clean, low mileage, and I think it would be fun.

Where do you meet someone like that? Dunno. Keep your eyes open. Probably all around you. Any likely prospects from the people you already know? You could go online, but you can't order a guy like a pizza. Actually you can but there is a good chance he'll come with problems. If you meet a few guys online and then get to know them for a bit that would probably work. Just be up front about what you want. "Not looking for a relationship. Friendship with possibility of more." or even "Looking for a friend with benefits."

 

[AlmondMilk]

I know a guy who wouldn't let me suck him because he wanted to feel submissive. But in my mind, just because I'm sucking a guy, doesn't mean I can't be dominant. I'm the one controlling when he cums and how rock hard he gets, right? Enjoy it, man! Just stay safe!

And much power and love to you for exploring!

 

[slicksean55]

I am so lusting to my first hard cum filled cock. I am a mwm but am addicted to cock, I love looking at it I love eating my own cum.. I want another mans cock to worship and love... I will do anything he would like. oral anal kissing w/s I shave and lotion daily and would be completely submissive and obedient. I am in Buffalo, NY discretion a must super clean and ddf/std free. PM me.

 

[Shelby29]

I am so lusting to my first hard cum filled cock. I am a mwm but am addicted to cock, I love looking at it I love eating my own cum.. I want another mans cock to worship and love... View attachment 1156792

You sound like me. I had some Bi experiences with best buddy as a teen but strictly hetero as an adult. Looking to re-explore my Bi side now and suck my first dick

 

[bijockdude]

Shelby and Sean please let me know if I can help

 

[bgblntz]

Great thread. I am waiting to try my first cock. It's been an obsession these past 2 years. I thought about bookstores but it just seems creepy. I guess a business road trip and going to a lgbt bar is about as safe as the bookstore.

How likely is just oral going to be a STD issue?

 

[cabsterman]

Get the guy hard by giving him a nice hand job and watch his cock grow. Use some edible lubes\jellies while rubbing his hard cock and then when you are ready, go down on him. Lick around the head with your tongue for a while and then full mouth around the head; move your tongue around. He will start to go move around because the feeling is amazing. While doing that, put your hands on the sides of hips and waist and rub up and down (nice massage) and then start rubbing the nipples with your wet fingers while still sucking. By then you should have your mouth down his shaft and going up and down slowly with your lips like a vacuum.

Watch his reactions and keep going... you will def get him worked up and you will be too. Lick up and down the shaft too. you could also rub the area between his asshole and balls while sucking.

 

[Shelby29]

Get the guy hard by giving him a nice hand job and watch his cock grow. Use some edible lubes\jellies while rubbing his hard cock and then when you are ready, go down on him. Lick around the head with your tongue for a while and then full mouth around the head; move your tongue around. He will start to go move around because the feeling is amazing. While doing that, put your hands on the sides of hips and waist and rub up and down (nice massage) and then start rubbing the nipples with your wet fingers while still sucking. By then you should have your mouth down his shaft and going up and down slowly with your lips like a vacuum.

Watch his reactions and keep going... you will def get him worked up and you will be too. Lick up and down the shaft too. you could also rub the area between his asshole and balls while sucking.

Excellent, cabster, that's just the way I like it done to/for me!

 

[Shelby29]

Shelby and Sean please let me know if I can help

Thanks. I'll def keep you in mind. Want that first cock soooo baaaad!

 

[1Curiousguy]

Hey man how are you? I can definitely relate to this post, I was exactly like you before i had sucked my first cock, *I had only ever hooked up with girls and loved eating or fcking pussy till I wanted to know what it was like to suck cock so i finally tried it! I was nervous my first time especially since it was new to me but once you forget the nerves and enjoy how it feels in your hands as you start to stroke it making it hard till its begging for you to take it in your mouth and suck it! Enjoy Practice makes perfect

 

[sixthson]

Great thread. I am waiting to try my first cock. It's been an obsession these past 2 years. I thought about bookstores but it just seems creepy. I guess a business road trip and going to a lgbt bar is about as safe as the bookstore.

How likely is just oral going to be a STD issue?

Sex with strangers is never risk free. Remember that having sex with them means you are having sex with everyone they have had sex with.
Best to stay faithful to your wife, don't you think?

 

[Kabluey]

Head first, preferably.

 

[mbamike]

Be sure to cover your teeth with your lips and cradle the cock with your tongue. Guys don't like it when their cock scraps against your teeth.