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How to advice a constant complainer (friend) not to complain so much about almost EVERYTHING ?

Anyone have had experiences with a constant complainer(s) as their friend ?
 
we made a joke out of it, gave him a nickname and whenever he complained used the nickname and ribbed him about it.

sometimes you just have to point it out to the person who doesn't realize it. you can tell them that complaining isn't attractive and if he feels that strongly about something, do something about it or accept it.

good luck, it's an ingrained personality trait.
 
Absolutely.

Call him on it.

Tell him he needs to think before he opens his mouth.
 
It depends. What is he constantly complaining about?
 
There's a couple routes you can choose. The one that's worked for me is to come right out and say (you may have to tweak this to make it more delicate, depending on who you're saying this to), "I don't want you to take this the wrong way or anything, but you complain about almost everything, and it's really depressing being around you because you complain all the time." I mean they might not realize they complain so much.
 
Simple-

Ignore the unwanted behavior. Compliment/reinforce the desired behavior.

When he starts to complain, either just stare at him like he's a moron for a few seconds and change the subject.
 
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