How to Get the Hot Dude

[Zasser]

absolutely nothing to say (fast learner)

 

[steampunk]

Listen up.

At a party (or whatever) and you want the hot dude but you're no better looking than the rest of the vultures?

Here's how.

Keep your mouth shut.

Don't speak.

He'll pick you.

Works everytime.

Your welcome.

This is only true if all hot guys want to meet passive-aggressive losers. If you're going to pretend that you don't want to meet someone just so they introduce themselves, why not go a step further and reject their handshake. Play "hard to get" all night and then leave without saying anything. Soon, they'll be breaking your door down! Not really. They'll just find someone who is actually seemingly interested.

Subscribing to the Doisneau philosophy of "If you stay right where you are then people will eventually come to you" is a great way to miss potentially great opportunities.

 

[ronboy]

Listen up.

At a party (or whatever) and you want the hot dude but you're no better looking than the rest of the vultures?

Here's how.

Keep your mouth shut.

Don't speak.

He'll pick you.

Works everytime.

Your welcome.

JD, you are indeed wise. That was how I ended up snagging the gorgeous hunk that I love more than life itself!

 

[steampunk]

I must be a loser,I never speak.

NOT.It DOES work.

If you don't speak at parties with the intention that it will attract a hot guy, then yes, you are a loser. That would also make you passive-aggressive, which is not an attractive quality to hot guys who appreciate character and integrity. Kthanks.

 

[eck1964]

Oh, yes. It most certainly can work. There's something to be said for a bit of mystery, a bit of aloofness...it can be most beguiling. Chattering on like a magpie when there's nothing to be said can be an utter turn-off.

 

[saebuffyboy]

humm, explaines why i always go and talk to the guy in the corner.

J/K I personally prefer to ignore the "hot guy" everyone is devouring andcarry on a descent conversation with that guy in the corner who's not bad looking and probably has a much better personality.

 

[saebuffyboy]

I've had enough random sex. I want a relationship.

 

[steampunk]

What is so passive-aggressive about playing hard to get or not SHOWERING a guy with attention?
It's weird to be salivating and joining the crowd in making him think he's hot.

The nature of "hard to get" is passive-aggressive. You are using body language to express that you are disinterested, when in fact you are very interested. If you want to meet someone, you should introduce yourself, not slink into a corner hoping to be the shy guy with a winning personality. Like I said, that is a great way to be overlooked and passed up.

Also, when you play hard to get, you are being dishonest. And that is not a quality that I look for in a man.

 

[saebuffyboy]

Again, I wasn't talking about playing hard to get.

IIf you all want to discuss passive-aggressive behavior and personality vs. appearance that's fine, just so you know that isn't what I meant.

Just giving you shit man, and tossing in my two cents. no offense inteneded.

 

[steampunk]

Again, I wasn't talking about playing hard to get.

I was talking about keeping your mouth shut.

Running off at the mouth is not an attractive quality in a man.

It tickles me how threads take will take on a life of their own.

If you all want to discuss passive-aggressive behavior and personality vs. appearance that's fine, just so you know that isn't what I meant.

Well, elaborate more next time. Geez gawd!

 

[steampunk]

Hehe

 

[Austin40acres]

Mostly, guys are just happy that this fat, bald, troll aren't bothering them.

So, ignoring the hottie definitely doesn't work for me!



A4A

 

[steampunk]

I really don't see it that way. But I respect your opinion.
You won't catch me drooling over a guy and feeding an overblown ego especially with others around doing the same.

I see now what you are saying JDSMagik. Back to topic. LOL

Uhm, that isn't something to "interpret". "Hard to get" as passive-aggressive behavior is a truth. Look it up.

 

[FirePhoenix]

I'll be the ugly troll in the corner talking to the other people in the corner and just trying to have a tiny bit of fun.

 

[RobinGoodfellow]

Personally, I'm a big fan of tranquilizer darts. It just looks like you're taking him from the scene, being a nice mate and all, and then you can do what you want with him in a nice, quiet, sound-proof area.

But that's just me...
RG

 

[tila123]

wait...
why is this in the celebrity gossip forum?

 

[steampunk]

Um,I never posted about what my intent was.Don't put words in my mouth.
I just said I don't speak.

Heh, it was a hypothetical

 

[steampunk]

Personally, I'm a big fan of tranquilizer darts. It just looks like you're taking him from the scene, being a nice mate and all, and then you can do what you want with him in a nice, quiet, sound-proof area.

But that's just me...
RG

 

[LuckyDyme]

Wow this really does explain a lot now....

I was at this party like 2wks ago, this fyne ass guy was there and I was all into him and shit, but I got drunk and was all like on his shit maybe that did turn him off cuz I rarely see him come over now.....cuz I think I really did stand a chance hmmmm...

 

[lifeisamazing]

how about you all stop being shallow little pricks and relaize that your chance of getting a hot guy is the same as someone winning the loterary. get a freakin life.