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How to lose a guy in 10 days....?

hotlatinchulo348

hotlatinchulo348

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I am finally in my first gay relationship and it has already lasted longer than any straight relationship I have ever held. Great right? Well, I thought so at first. This is the first time that I have been able to be more comfortable with myself and being bi. Now that I have finally broken the barrier I'm starting to discover there is a lot more out there than I thought. I really like my boyfriend but I feel like I am losing interest. He has introduced me to a few of his gay friends and let's just say a few of them are eye magnets. I didn't really think that much of it until my boyfriend asked me if I thought one of his friends was cute and I of course had to say no. Then he went on to tell me that this particular friend asked him if I had a twin because I was so cute. He seemed really annoyed and worried. Unfortunately now I have that in my head and I just wish I wasn't sooo tied up right now. What do I do? I really do love my boyfriend but I am beginning to think more like a friend. I would NEVER cheat on him but I don't think I am happy anymore. Is there anyway I could get him to break up with me because I care about him so much that I would never want to hurt him. He is a really amazing guy but I just feel like I need to be free for a while. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
 
I agree with Marley that it is never healthy to be in a relationship you don't want to be in.

However, I have to ask this question. Are you only doubting the relationship because his gay friends are more attractive and tempting? You mention now that you know "theres more out there" than you thought... so, the grass is greener on the other side and you want to hop the fence and hump the lawn?
 
I think that is only a part of why I am doubting our relationship. Maybe I should just give us more time?:confused:
 
hotlatinchulo348 said:
I am finally in my first gay relationship and it has already lasted longer than any straight relationship I have ever held. Great right? Well, I thought so at first. This is the first time that I have been able to be more comfortable with myself and being bi. Now that I have finally broken the barrier I'm starting to discover there is a lot more out there than I thought. I really like my boyfriend but I feel like I am losing interest. He has introduced me to a few of his gay friends and let's just say a few of them are eye magnets. I didn't really think that much of it until my boyfriend asked me if I thought one of his friends was cute and I of course had to say no. Then he went on to tell me that this particular friend asked him if I had a twin because I was so cute. He seemed really annoyed and worried. Unfortunately now I have that in my head and I just wish I wasn't sooo tied up right now. What do I do? I really do love my boyfriend but I am beginning to think more like a friend. I would NEVER cheat on him but I don't think I am happy anymore. Is there anyway I could get him to break up with me because I care about him so much that I would never want to hurt him. He is a really amazing guy but I just feel like I need to be free for a while. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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Sorry buckaroo, but there is absolutely no way you can spare another from pain.

You are in a relationship and now it's time to man up and do the hard part. Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns and problems. Maybe there's a solution you haven't thought of. Maybe it's time for you both to break up and see other people.

What's more hurtful, telling him now how you feel, or manipulating the situation for the next couple of months trying to piss him off enough to dump you?
 
Thanks I guys I really appreciate the advice. I will keep you guys posted with whatever ends up happening.
 
He is a really amazing guy but I just feel like I need to be free for a while.
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Man up and just tell him this.

Don't be surprised if he hates you, but it is better then the hurt he's going to have when you do cheat on him.
 
Okay guys, so he basically said that he needs to know by tomorrow night whether I want to be with him or not. I don't know what to do!!!
 
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