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how to make a guy want you

Assuming that you don't mean random sex via craigslist or anything like that...

Ya can't really "make a guy want you" - it has to come naturally, and there has to be some sort of connection/attraction.

Be yourself, be naturally confident (i.e. walk with a saunter, know what you want), and last of all - take good care of yourself (your body is your temple).
 
Do you have a particular guy in mind? Do you know his orientation?

In general, I'd think it's much akin to getting anyone to like you. Be nice, show care for him, engage in mutually stimulating conversation, be relaxed and have fun, maybe rub his cock a little ;). OK, kidding on the last part, kinda.

I think you might get better responses if you share some more info with us though. You're 18? How old is he? Age doesn't have to be a big deal, but it sometimes can have an effect on how people communicate or perceive others.
 
If you are just yourself, the guy who really likes you will really like you.

Qualities you can strengthen that are real guy magnets:

- smile a lot
- be a good listener
- be generous in praising others
- don't put yourself down
- love animals
- be willing to try anything that isn't bad for you
- learn about everything you can
- take care with your appearance
- do not be jealous
- don't blame others for your shortcomings or mistakes
- have a great sense of humour
- prefer to talk face to face instead of facebook to facebook
- become a good cook
 
I am fairly new to this site, and normally keep quiet, but when I saw this post, I had to say something...

Speaking from experience here, you can't force or make anyone like or want you. I know I have been there done that... I have lost several good friends, or those who I thought were my friend. I now have only a couple of what I would consider Good friends anymore and have built a wall to keep those bad people out.

I although must add, if you do attempt something like this please don't let anyone take advantage of you. I come from a well to do family and have my own money and job and yet I found myself spending money on these so-called friends, a lot of money. So I would also recommend you NOT spend any money or do anything to encourage a friendship.

JBY - Just be yourself.... and good luck,
 
Rareboy...thats great advice on selling ones self...it is a great buyers guide too...lol lol but where the hell do you find them?
 
Be confident. Present yourself well (so you better take care of yourself). And be yourself!
 
well, just be ur self and dont show them a pic of u when u look differnet than u do now if u meet them online.
 
rareboy said:
If you are just yourself, the guy who really likes you will really like you.

Qualities you can strengthen that are real guy magnets:

- smile a lot
- be a good listener
- be generous in praising others
- don't put yourself down
- love animals
- be willing to try anything that isn't bad for you
- learn about everything you can
- take care with your appearance
- do not be jealous
- don't blame others for your shortcomings or mistakes
- have a great sense of humour
- prefer to talk face to face instead of facebook to facebook
- become a good cook
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...Good point. A good cook is a winner in my book.
 
rareboy said:
If you are just yourself, the guy who really likes you will really like you.

Qualities you can strengthen that are real guy magnets:

- smile a lot
- be a good listener
- be generous in praising others
- don't put yourself down
- love animals
- be willing to try anything that isn't bad for you
- learn about everything you can
- take care with your appearance
- do not be jealous
- don't blame others for your shortcomings or mistakes
- have a great sense of humour
- prefer to talk face to face instead of facebook to facebook
- become a good cook
Click to expand...

Great list, rareboy. Two things I would add

  • you must like yourself
  • take an interest in him...ask open ended questions to make him talk
 
Well, this won't work for everyone, but I have a bisexual friend who I like and I've found teasing him and playing hard to get has been working.
Talking about sex openly in front of him (in detail) and being more touchy feely and flirty with him, yet not letting on that I'm too interested and I'm just having fun flirting has worked for me.
 
Good men like to work for something. Make him work for you. Once he has earned you over the months and years, he'll feel he's worked too hard to let you go.
 
I don't think you can make a guy like you - assuming you're looking for more than just a friendship with all your clothes on type deal.

In my opinion things will either happen or not. But if this guy you're after really is a straight man, I'd start practicing your big genuine smile on either a gay or bi man.
 
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