How Would I Ask My Best Guy Friend If I Can Blow Him?

[Jjaberwaki]

Because like...well i told him i was bi in like August last year....and he told me he was str8 but like....idk i question alot....and every time i bring it up hes go all 'Josh i told u this before....im str8" and all this mee....but like...he just recently spent the night over at my house...and of course it was weird becuz its the first time he's been over HERE ive always ended up spending the night over at his house...and like idk....we were just sitting there watching movies in my room on my couch and like....idk nothing happened but like my foot was on the ground and like he put his foot on the ground and randomly starting tapping it...(now im not sure if thats sum kind of move or anything but still) and like at like midnight he asked where he was sleeping i said "Well u can either sleep on the couch or in the guest room up stairs..." he said "i'm good on the couch (then smiles)" now he said hes completely fine with the fact that im bi....but like....Wouldnt normal str8 guys sleep in the guest room??

Please respond...becuz its summer now...and like that means me inviting him over more!

 

[Erickivan]

Dear friend, your friend might be giving you the signal to go do something, maybe he wants to mess around, but be careful this thing tend to ruins lots of friendships. Next time he stays just ask him straight forward if he wants to mess around, tell him it will be between you and him. Plus tell him he doesn't need to do nothing just site there and relax. If he keeps saying "I don't know" than you got to pull ur pants tight and make a move. I suggest both of you to porn a straight porn movie or a movie with a really hot chicks that might turn both of you on, than well ask if u can do something.

 

[Jjaberwaki]

But we just graduated....and this is what his signing says

"Dear Josh,

Well, I Think We Both Know what I'm ABout to say so ill just skip it, This has been a long year...so many things to do but not enough time to do it. I never actully was able to sit down and watch everyone else scurry around. But the year is finally over and that means i get to sleep.

Alot Of Things was said....and maybe sum things may have been better unsaid....and many not enough was said. But nontheless we made it through. There were def. sum speedbumps but we eventaully made it over. I'm sure there will be more hard times ahead but i'm sure we can get through them. We def. have to hang out at Kings Dominion this summer

Peace,

Billy"

Thats his yearbook passage....what do u think?

 

[Erickivan]

Now you are over reacting about a year sign

If you want to do something with his, the only way is to tell him straightforward in a polite way:

Josh: Bill Can I suck your dick?.... Please

or

Josh: I want to suck your dick
Bill: Ok...

-at the end-

Josh: Thanks
Bill: you welcome.

Well you get what I mean, there is no other way.

 

[nate78]

If he's you're best friend, then leave it at that for now. Why screw it up just to suck him off? Believe me, there will be plenty of guys for you to hook up with.

 

[Orlandude]

I guess the real question is "Are you willing to take the risk of losing his friendship?" You know him better than any of us.

I see no real harm in ASKING him if you can have even one-sided sex. If you get a stern "no" and no evidence of a hardon or anything else, I would never ask him again, enjoy the friendship and find others that are into it.

I had a straight friend like this a few years ago and I asked him and he said "no", and meant it. I let it go. About a month later, he dropped by and we were watching TV one night and, out of the blue", he said "would you?". So you never really know. I never expected it. By the way, he didn't have to ask twice!! This happened a few times over a period of about 6 months and then it stopped as fast as it started. He found a girlfriend. We never again talked about it and we are still friends. He is now married to that same girl.

 

[pozvatop]

Dude, you like need to like learn how to speak & like write English without like the word "like" 20 times in a like never-ending-run-on-sentence.

I'm sorry, but I had to say this. It's SO 80's Valley Girl talk. If this is what our high schools are turning out, I pray for the future.

 

[nate78]

Aww, leave him alone. He's just a wee one.

 

[Jakotsu]

Dude, you like need to like learn how to speak & like write English without like the word "like" 20 times in a like never-ending-run-on-sentence.

I'm sorry, but I had to say this. It's SO 80's Valley Girl talk. If this is what our high schools are turning out, I pray for the future.

haha, that really bugged me too.

 

[jaxon29]

You said you brought it up and he said "I told you before that I'm straight". So I think you've made your pitch and he told you no, at least for now. As time goes by, there may be a time when he's horny and has secretly thought about it, so he surprises you by bringing it up. He may ask about having sex with guys and gals since you're bi. I'd sit tight and be glad he regards you as his friend. I know it's frustrating, but curiosity may win out or maybe not.

 

[unclaimedblessing]

Jaxon29 hit the nail on the head.
Your friend has already told you his position very clearly.
If you're really good friends and he respects your sexual preference, you must respect his.

 

[hotdickcum]

Because like...well i told him i was bi in like August last year....and he told me he was str8 but like....idk i question alot....and every time i bring it up hes go all 'Josh i told u this before....im str8" and all this mee....but like...he just recently spent the night over at my house...and of course it was weird becuz its the first time he's been over HERE ive always ended up spending the night over at his house...and like idk....we were just sitting there watching movies in my room on my couch and like....idk nothing happened but like my foot was on the ground and like he put his foot on the ground and randomly starting tapping it...(now im not sure if thats sum kind of move or anything but still) and like at like midnight he asked where he was sleeping i said "Well u can either sleep on the couch or in the guest room up stairs..." he said "i'm good on the couch (then smiles)" now he said hes completely fine with the fact that im bi....but like....Wouldnt normal str8 guys sleep in the guest room??

Please respond...becuz its summer now...and like that means me inviting him over more!

You want an advice? I'll give you a good one.

Your best guy friend is just acting like your best guy friend and nothing more. What's so big deal about sleeping on the couch? Maybe, he just doesn't feel comfortable sleeping in a guest room, especially he knows you are a 'bi'. He just merely wants to hang out with you and be grateful with that as he is not homophobic friend. I think he wanted to spend more time with you as it is really a big deal to anyone to come out.

 

[drinksinme]

I'm str8 I think, but I would say make a move with the hands and if he freaks just say oh sorry and move it away

 

[snakeeater1]

I don’t have any advice, but I once had my best friend ask me to suck his cock! So of course I did!….

 

[wolfypdx]

I have a friend right now who has asked me to suck his cock, but he no showed on me last night, which pissed me off.

 

[ricksvca]

Because like...well i told him i was bi in like August last year....and he told me he was str8 but like....idk i question alot....and every time i bring it up hes go all 'Josh i told u this before....im str8" and all this mee....but like...he just recently spent the night over at my house...and of course it was weird becuz its the first time he's been over HERE ive always ended up spending the night over at his house...and like idk....we were just sitting there watching movies in my room on my couch and like....idk nothing happened but like my foot was on the ground and like he put his foot on the ground and randomly starting tapping it...(now im not sure if thats sum kind of move or anything but still) and like at like midnight he asked where he was sleeping i said "Well u can either sleep on the couch or in the guest room up stairs..." he said "i'm good on the couch (then smiles)" now he said hes completely fine with the fact that im bi....but like....Wouldnt normal str8 guys sleep in the guest room??

Please respond...becuz its summer now...and like that means me inviting him over more!

When I was 26 my best friend, Terry, just came right out and told me he wanted to give me a BJ. We were sitting around talking one night, smoking some pot at his place and out of nowhere he calmly says "I want to give you a blowjob". I knew Terry was gay and that he was very attracted to me because he had told me both of those things previously so I wasn't really surprised when he said this. I told him I wasn't interested but inside it really turned me on an it got me thinking about what it would be like to let him see me naked, to let him touch me and suck my cock. I had let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porn theater (this was back in the late 70s) a couple years before and I really enjoyed the entire experience but I told no one about it. .

Before that hand job I had never ever thought of having sex with a man and considered myself totally straight. That hand job definitely awakened the bisexual side of me. A couple of years later I called Terry on a Saturday morning and told him I would do it, that I would let him give me a BJ. He told me to come on over. When I got there he opened the door and then went into his bedroom. I took off all my clothes and followed him in to his bedroom. I hoped when he saw me naked that he would take his clothes off and then start sucking my cock but he stayed fully clothed. He then proceed to give me the best BJ I had ever had. Had he gotten naked after seeing me that way I would have definitely been up for sucking his cock after he made me cum. Of course he didn't know this and I was too inexperienced to be that bold with him. I did eventually suck his cock and we had a very hot off and on sexual relationship that lasted for 15 years.

I think your friend has accepted you being bi but I don't think he is quite ready for having any kind of male/male sex with you. I do think he is curious. If you being bi really bothered him he would have ended your friendship when you told him that. If you do tell him want you want to do to him, letting you give him a BJ could be a very very big step for him to take. It took me two years to actually finally go through with letting Terry suck my cock after he told me he wanted to.. By then I knew I could trust him totally and I knew he would not ever tell anyone. When I finally felt that way I knew I was ready to let him suck my cock.

You could blow your whole friendship with him if you tell him you want to give him a BJ but talking about it is really the only way it is going to happen. .

 

[Petallways]

Because like...well i told him i was bi in like August last year....and he told me he was str8 but like....idk i question alot....and every time i bring it up hes go all 'Josh i told u this before....im str8" and all this mee....but like...he just recently spent the night over at my house...and of course it was weird becuz its the first time he's been over HERE ive always ended up spending the night over at his house...and like idk....we were just sitting there watching movies in my room on my couch and like....idk nothing happened but like my foot was on the ground and like he put his foot on the ground and randomly starting tapping it...(now im not sure if thats sum kind of move or anything but still) and like at like midnight he asked where he was sleeping i said "Well u can either sleep on the couch or in the guest room up stairs..." he said "i'm good on the couch (then smiles)" now he said hes completely fine with the fact that im bi....but like....Wouldnt normal str8 guys sleep in the guest room??

Please respond...becuz its summer now...and like that means me inviting him over more!

If he knows you’re by and he’s staying over at your house I think there might be a good chance he would like getting his cock sucked by you. I had a straight friend years ago and I would just walk around naked in front of him and then he gave me signs that he was into it.

 

[Petallways]

Because like...well i told him i was bi in like August last year....and he told me he was str8 but like....idk i question alot....and every time i bring it up hes go all 'Josh i told u this before....im str8" and all this mee....but like...he just recently spent the night over at my house...and of course it was weird becuz its the first time he's been over HERE ive always ended up spending the night over at his house...and like idk....we were just sitting there watching movies in my room on my couch and like....idk nothing happened but like my foot was on the ground and like he put his foot on the ground and randomly starting tapping it...(now im not sure if thats sum kind of move or anything but still) and like at like midnight he asked where he was sleeping i said "Well u can either sleep on the couch or in the guest room up stairs..." he said "i'm good on the couch (then smiles)" now he said hes completely fine with the fact that im bi....but like....Wouldnt normal str8 guys sleep in the guest room??

Please respond...becuz it’s summer now...and like that means me inviting him over more!

I think you should just ask him. He knows you’re bisexual and is comfortable with staying at your house so if he says no, you can probably remain friends after that who knows, he might actually say yes!